Yes, both has to go through same set of tests. Not only for Thalassaemia but also other diseases and blood group compatibility. Especially in India, marriage is fixed by caste, gotra etc; they should give priority for blood test.

True staying rooted in the present is the ideal situation taking each day at a time and making the best out of it. The analogy of the football and goalkeeper is aggressive but can work wonders as one cannot sit idle mulling if a plan fails. Instead if the individual devises a new counter strategy to effect a change in the situation and keeps…[Read more]

Thank you for expressing your point of you in a very direct way. Yes even I have seen many families going through such situations and that continues till years. I fully agree with you when these husbands should just mind their business when they are in no position to do anything and the poor lady has to slog and do everything from A to Z  they…[Read more]

@acelawrites

Happy to hear from you and feels good to know that people nowadays treat women the way they should be treated with respect. But there are many places in the world where woman are discriminated for different reasons. Like in the case of salary, facilities which are not gender neutral in many countries especially in the private sector,…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Totally agree with your view regarding maintaining distance out of respect especially with people who are not related to us or those whom we know very little about or strangers. We should see that they do not feel uncomfortable with our presence due to ego, attitude or any sort of domination as mentioned by you even in the case of…[Read more]

@Mahesh

Appreciate your response for the above topic. Yes I do agree that it is better to take one step at a time especially when we are going to try something new. For this we definitely have to compromise and move out of our comfort zone cocoons which we would have built over a long period of time which is nothing but a state of mental barrier…[Read more]

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Thank you Peeush! Your explanation is nice!