It is so important to show to our family how much we love them and how much we care for them. Let us count every moment they are with us. Take care all.

I do agree with you. There is nothing like permanent or impermanent. Everything goes on changing. If a particular situation makes you happy it will not remain forever. So much so, if a particular event makes you unhappy it will not be so forever. Hence, there is no need to take anything seriously. The status, luxurious life, and the bank balance will not remain forever but it is certain that you need a minimum place after your death. This is what makes life funny. Even then we are unable to grasp the truth of life. But, surprisingly, even this truth is also not permanent. A big question now will be ‘what and why is this mutability existing in the world?

It drives us to the conclusion that MUTABILITY IS THE LAW OF LIFE.

You are right, everything on earth is temporary. This is the reason why we should value each moment of it, to use it the best we can like how we treat our kids, husband, parents, relatives and friends. What you had done in that short moment can be a lasting impression for them.

It is important we should like the group, people, set up . We must feel encouraged to participate. I visit now and then and post my ideas as comments and I also occasionally make posts. good day

Life is what we make it, so we have to prefer happiness.Sadness does not make sense. It only ruins health.

Happiness or otherwise everything is in our hands.We are responsible for our own fate. If I am not happy I try to be happy. Just search, what makes you happy? If one can not understand for himself, he can not understand anybody. There will be suspicion, greed for money, dissatisfaction, distrust, all other evils crop up to make me unhappy easily.

I am constructing a house. Today the builder reached along with the expenditure incurred towards digging of borewell. It was somewhat higher. I just asked him to reduce the bill. Finally, it was settled and some ten thousand rupees was reduced. I do not know whether it goes to the builder or to the Borewell person who undertook the digging. If I constantly thinking about as to whom it goes, I should suspect the builder also who is actually entrusted with the construction work. If I suspect him there is no meaning in it as he has to take up many things and take care of many things. So, mere suspicion without any result or proof makes me unhappy just for ten thousand when the construction cost if running in lakhs.

We have to compromise in some aspects. Further, self-satisfaction is another factor which makes one always happy, Most of the people in my area are suggesting this and that, but I can not follow them as it would add up to my estimated expenditure. So I have to be strict and should not give way aspiring things which are beyond my financial capacity. So, the money factor can never make me unhappy.

So, everything goes by our own selection of things. How we choose them, and how we respond to the circumstances is very very important in life to keep oneself always happy.

Thank you siva for your very valuable thoughts about life how to deal it happily or not at all the time. yes, it is up to the person what to do to make life a little bit bolder and stronger that despite difficulties, we will never surrender and give up life. for as long as we live there is always problem,but solvable problems.

Cely this is another good one from you. Keep posting.

It really depends on the person if he will be happy or not; it is only him who can decide on what kind of life he wants to have; sometimes friends or loved ones can influence him, or if he listens to their good advice.

Being alive and healthy are among the things that he should think of so he will always be happy.

Some very wise and encouraging words. At times, we feel sad and dejected, but we need to perhaps take a day as it comes, and not bother too much about things that are not in our control.