I do not pity beggars, actually it depends on what they look like. In my place, beggars are asking for money not in a nice way. They will stalk you. They even used children, babies in asking for money which I really hate. The local government have programs for them but they are the ones that are hard headed deciding for life, giving the impression…[Read more]

It is more blessed to give than to receive for those who have abundant in life. My wife and I are generous alms givers. Saturday is our market day. You could spot beggars, young and old, men and women begging for cash. You could also see disabled mendicants. Every time we eat at the public resto and a beggar approched us, it is our practice not to…[Read more]

Weddings have always been a joy to attend especially if it is of a family member but there are some things that cannot be avoided i think the best thing is for you to talk to your cousin and just tell her about all the things you have mentioned, then let her be the one to respond first and from her response you will be able to know what position…[Read more]

@Lola – I am trying to follow every bit of it (smile)

Great advice

I love it!

I’m supposed to come off the meds in a few days, but if I start hurting again then I’ll have to go back on them in spurts until these little ‘you know whats’ as I call them come out!

Yeah I was warned about the possibility of some nerve damage or irritation to the nerves in my face.  Been told the teeth on the bottom are going to be the worst to…[Read more]

I’m hoping not to have to put it off past Sept 10th as I’m in quite a bit of pain from these darn teeth   The dentist has me on strong anti-inflammatory and muscle relaxers right now.

@rapidblue

Thanks for the timeframe.  I know that for 7 days I’m going to have stitches in so certainly no events in that time.  I’d prefer to give myself 14 days as I’ve been told I will look like a chipmunk, and not a cute chipmunk from the swelling.

Thanks for the advice.

I found out my surgery consult will be July 14, so surgery could certainly be a issue in early Sept.  I decided I will certainly talk to my cousin privately about what is going on and let her know I plan to be at her wedding but something might interfere.

I think thast it is bezt to inform your cousin your desire to be on her wedding.  However,  there are certain possible events that may happen on ber weddinh day.  Just inform her that if you will not be tied with any of the two instances you have mentioned,  that you are sure to come.