May 14, 2016 at 3:52 pm

This is an extremely good question, how to deal with bullies.  There are so many problems with this.  One resolution is to begin programs in every state similar to “Beyond Scared Straight”.  From viewing this program several times, it seems to be very effective.  Another resolution starts in every home; of course you cannot blame those parents who teach their children to defend themselves against bullies but for those who encourage children to become bullies, there is definitely a problem/issue.  Too many times have we seen parents on television encouraging or being a part of young people fighting especially for the wrong reasons like girls fighting over boys.  Why is this so important that some in this world find that this type of behavior is right.  Are there not more important issues in this world that we have to deal with.  This is so in remembrance of the young girl who was just recently killed in a school bathroom by girls; for what; for fighting over boys.   Is this what America has come to?

Encouraging a child to be a bully is despicable to say the least.  There more than likely are/is problems in the home.  Several reasons can define this such as a parent’s self-esteem, socioeconomic status, and etc……Some parents have issues as far as loss of employment, mental issues, and/or other family related problems but with this is a sense of self control; meaning just because one has lost their job does not mean they make a situation worse.  In other words losing something then taking it out on the ones that you are suppose to love the most.

Some bullies just want attention and will do whatever necessary to get it.   Why?  Again there must be some issues that need to be address.  When the word mental disorder is mentioned some think that is inappropriate but mental disorders can be classified as minor to major like anything else.  For one to think that they are better than others is a disorder.  So bullies who prey on the weak need some type of intervention and to come to a course of action and decrease the behaviors so that more good results are the focus.

May 7, 2016 at 11:12 pm

There is no doubt that different types of crimes are believed to be associated with various reasons or behaviors such as one having a rough childhood, those who may have been abused in various ways, or can some crimes be done based on the belief of evil?   There several questions related to crimes and why exactly do some citizens commit crimes, especially crimes of a heinous nature.  This topic can go into the depths of the above; especially dwelling on the question; why?    Psychologists attempt to pin point and/or resolve behaviors related to crimes.  Can we name someone who has committed a horrible crime, has been evaluated by a psychologist and did his/her behavior improve or worsen?

May 5, 2016 at 7:09 pm

To me trust is the most important in any friendship.  Some are emotionally confused when it comes to the word trust.  Trust means to me; communication between two people who can tell each other everything.  And when I say everything, I mean everything.  Trust is most essential including hard to find.  As far as some being clingy or cannot solve problems on their own, some times it may be best for certain types of people to seek counseling.  There is nothing wrong with it and at times it can be beneficial in that it assists a person in “finding themselves”.