Such fools; they are trying to cheat other people in their aim for an easy money. It is good to be discerning before extending help to such people.

in general I hate it, but yes they do some benefit for the good business , but i belive that most of their work is to fool us more than to help us and that is why is their work realy about, to sell not to really give you the truth, but yea very rearly the do help in spreading truth things

I only have one social media and that is Facebook.

That’s because it’s what my daughter and husband only uses too. One social media is enough for us to connect to each other since our daughter lives and works in a far city. So, FB chat is of big use to us. At least, we can also keep track of what our daughter is up to at FB.

I rarely post, so does my daughter and my husband , rarely too.

Though, we love seeing the post of my friends and relatives.

We have to be practical this time, It is better to cook our own food than dine outside with foods full of bad chemicals that destroy human body little by little. I also pack my own food for lunch after I experienced food poisoning in our university canteen, In fact we sued the canteen fast food operator and they paid me according to court order.Also, this time , there are many contagious diseases and some spoons despite disposable others who are cheaters recycle them and those sick of hepatitis will contaminate to diners using that spoon or stainless spoon.Better be safe through our own making for peace of mind and heart.

Oh yeas most of food I eas is cooked in our home, why to waste oour healhty on food that we do not know how it was prepared, what is contains, what it is fully I mean,, who is precisly mae it i mean the cooker, and how and when or where it was prepared, add to this the money problem oh my God my healht is not for sale I hate to eat at work unless maybe once a week when I really feel tired cooking or when I forget food at home, or if i find it really clean and no chance that they maybe contaminated. so I do eat out but not much and not often, to make good clean food you need to follow many tips and techniques, if the cooker or the cheif in the work canteen will lf ollow all of these tips he will not find really time to serve us
I worked once in a place where the admin told us to tell the client that the food is fresh, but in my orientation day the took us even to the back kitchen and i saw the frozen food. ow bad is that , its horrible and I lost my trust in brand restaurant and cafes also. same happen in starbucks I went to one shop and when i saw the cockroach i went out and never go back, I know that not all the starbucks cafes are the same, but if these staff were not caring to clean the place why I care to go waste my time there at there branch, and pay money for that, setting in unhealthy place. I guess admin should be more controlling about their staff and observe them all the time

Personally, I never bought lunch at work because I often could not afford the luxury. I would cook extra dinner the night before and pack an extra container of food for work the next day. That way I wouldn’t have to find the time to prep and store.

Kids are a blessing to each one of us from God. we cannot start saying or asking which one is better than the other. But we are humans and we will always take sides. Many are the times that the girl child has been looked down upon I have never come to understand why people say that the boy child is the best gift a mother would have. What is it that the boy child has that has gone miles away from the girl child. If it’s anything to go by I would say the girl child is more profitable in the society than the boy child. We are discussing and this are from my findings. When you go around usually in the African communities you will find that the girl child has a lot to offer than the boy child. In the African societies the girls are the ones who benefit their parents when it comes to dowry. The boys give out. When it comes to building homes who does that the girl child. When we think about our parents when they become old who takes care of them isn’t it the girl. There are so many things that I would say about the girl child but they can be seen all over the world. So if we were to measure kids by what they do I would say the girl child is far much better than the boy child and there are many ways of backing up this statement.

I am in agreement. Like I believe being happy is a choice we make, being comfortable is also a choice we make.Yes, I would like more out of life sometimes,but I know how to be comfortable with what I have.

That is true not all rich live in harmony and peace. They are also problematic for despite rich but there are instances that they cannot avoid a bad illness to come to them. Better enjoy in our most simplest way.

I agree, never envy the rich because they too have problems like ordinary people do. They just have to hide it to maintain their status symbol in society.

Yes that is true for sure MAam, do not envy the rich nor the poor, each and everyone has his own sadness and stress, and if each person asked if he want to change his stress with other person stress, each will choose only his own stress, I guess that is life and we live with it no matter what it bring us and dont bring us

Yes the internet is amazing tool not only google there are many sites like google firefox adn opera and more, they all I tried them just like google, all these sites do teh same work and same result, they find you anything you want and teach you about health, cooking, movies, cinemas, news though some are fake news, they teach you how to clean your house, how to learn tips to deal with people how to enjoy your free time and much more, like how to plant your garden how to talk to your kid and how to deal with family issues and how to have good relation with husband and wife and kids, so good things I learnt from the internet and search engine like these sites I mentioned, it is really so wonderful thing to do in one button in you pc. Thank you joy for that wonderful habit we do daily and maybe we do not value since it is easy to obtain this

Many of us we raised to obey what we were told by adults, especially our parents and family members. Yes, most of them were good and loving requests and we because that’s how our parents and guardians were raised. But for many children those requests were torture and torment, for they did not bring our best or made us happy. Though we complied, we ended living sad and depressing lives. Nowadays, children and parents are learning more and more about want the best and seeking the best for each other. Parents are learning to look through the eyes of their children and to really see what brings them joy and happiness. children are also learning to step into their truth and show with enthusiasm what they can do and how it makes them happy and impacts the world.

Life is not meant to be easy. It is a journey that will involve obstacles. How we handle those obstacles and the persons who create those obstacles is what determines whether we are victorious at the end of the journey or not.

Yeah, we had almost the same birthday experience. Why is it that as we get older, birthdays become something to correspond with irrelevance and lack of importance? I still have trouble wrapping my mind around why it is that people who seemingly have lived a fulling life are so eager to put life into slow motion and anxiously counting down days until the next birthday. The way I see it, birthdays should be celebrated at all ages.

No, they are not and i hate that we have to do just like other people, these parties are affordable and you can make it at home from any simple thin yo ucan decorate the home, you can make your own cake andyou can do some bisuit besid it and find street market with lots of gifts, but then what, nothing, its normal day for us and the kids it become routine, for us we dont do that, we plan a day out wiht the kids treat the birthday boy or girl like they are the king or the queen and go eat out, take them to the places that they like and buy later for thema gift that they like and need. and eat sweets, thats we make our birthday for the kids special not like routinely ones, thanks for writing this post its really a good question since many epople just waste lots of money for unnessecary thing, and our kids love it and they are so happy and feel they are more special than other kids who do normal routine parties

I guess it is not a must but nice having birthday, it is showing that we care and love your day, so its not a must but good and nice way to express your love and thought

Congratulations for realizing this when you did. Enjoy your time and your life when you can. I used to be the same always thinking about the others in the house although I wasn’t married yet. When I moved out to live alone my sister joined me and it was all joy and smiles until i realized I am forever doing stuff and never think8ng about me. So when I found out that i can actually do stuff for mys3lf and not feel guilty that became part of my life and nothing would stop me. I would go for facials, manicures, go treat myself have cake, go for ice cream with friends, weekend outings and that really have gave me much joy. I realized that when you are stuck up in doing stuff for people you will always forget yourself. We used to be told that when you get a job always pay yourself first then other things follow. I guess the same applies when you are home as well. I can tell you, you keep up with what your doing and everybody around you will be happy not because your doing stuff for them but because you are happy. That part of leaving everything and just relaxing is also a way of relieving oneself from stress I’ve been there too done that and i don’t ever regret doing it.