Wow wow wow! You have trully hit the name on the cross.Am sure many of us did not see this one coming. What you have written is so true especially the last statement the anthem of hell of hell” everyone is doing it” so true that it even hurts.
Fine are the days when people dated for years before they got engaged or married. Marriage was such a big ordeal and a big occasion no one dated to spoil it. Virginity was a very sensitive thing, most community used to take it so seriously, that when a girl got married the aunties used to go and check her beddings to see if th3 sheets were soiled, that was the only way to tell that she was indeed a virgin. Okay I would say that was a bit absurd. So if the beddings were not soiled the marriage would be dissolved it was that bad.I guess that’s why people took marriage so seriously, unlike nowadays where marriage is being taken like it’s just some piece of paper that can be trashed anytime. No one respects the institution of marriage anymore.
Things have totally changed this days, you find many youths engaging in sex so early into their relationships and then when the time comes for them to get married they ar3 so out of each other because there is nothing to look forward to, they already experimented, leading to early marriage breakups and infidelity in the marriage.
Some say how will I know that she is a virgin or if she isable to get kids of I don’t try? Remember guys women are not care that have to be test driven before they ar3 bought, they are human beings that need to be trusted and taken seriously. I love this topic and it’s an eye opener to us all thanks for sharing.

I don’t applaud the “trend” of pregnant brides either. But it is better if the couple gets married. I view it as a wrong that is being righted. Sins that are repented of can be forgiven. “Marriage is honorable among ALL.” It is after all, only God who can bless a marriage union and make it holy.

Thanks my dears. It’s very unfortunate what our societies have turned into. The level at which our moral standards has deteriorated is appalling.
In present times, morality means little or nothing at all to us,as long as it feels good and agrees with our personal philosophies,then we are good to go. We tend to turn deaf ears to utmost issues and go after the frivolities and when things go wrong at the longrun, without hesitation, we blame others. but then I’d always say “Your life your choice. Live it well to the glory of God”.