Before giving second chance we should know the thing or the person deserve the second chance or not.

I am always doing this to my students. I always give them the second chance to pass. i have to consider the plea for Physics and math subjects that I am teaching are not easy for them to understand. Only few are gifted with the ability to like and understand easily Physics and Algebra ( Mathematics).

This is not easy to give second chance to a person specially when the matter is come to love relationship, because the whole love relationship is based on faith and believes. so in my view this is totally not possible to give a Second chance .

I guess it is a case-to-case basis and second chances are given to people/things that didn’t cause too much trauma in our lives. I also believe in the “benefit of the doubt” but there are instances when the pain caused is too overbearing, giving second chances is out of the table.

@JoDee Stout

Very interesting blog

I too have noticed a second chance performs better no matter what it could be. We learn from mistakes.

it is beneficial to give another person or site a 2nd chance to allow them to improve themselves and it is also giving yourself a 2nd chance to reborn again.

Good to hear that you had remarried your ex hubby.
Still, you two have a long way ahead to enjoy your old age together

It is easy to give second chance specially to the person you love..but third chance NEVER?

Yes, three chances must be given to everyone if someone makes anything wrong with you. Because all wise men require just one chance no second and third chance in life. Foolish retiree a lot of chances in life because making something wrong is their mission and it is the fault of character and early education.

I say it is fault of parents who do not teach their children what to at home and out of home and what to do with others. They take life as a bundle of lies and do wrong and earn money and other benefits in life.

Sometimes people screw up. As imperfect beings charged with the power to manipulate, lie, cheat and steal and the emotional sophistication to feel jealousy, heartbreak and outrage, this is to be expected. And so we sometimes find it in our hearts to empathize with the offender and forgive or love them and forget.

We award second chances and some of us are filled with so much empathy or love that we give third and fourth chances. Still other times we do not and the offender must lay down in the bed he made.

The offender hoping for a second chance is usually tearful and offers remorse and promises to change. They arrive with pleading parents, distraught letters from children or character references from community leaders. Our job is to weed through their emotions and ignore our own in order to come to some objective version of the past and present to foretell the likelihood of a more positive future.

I have a huge collection of music but somehow I get into the listening mood just around Christmas time.

i dont like music alot, i like to hear some songs and from around the world but its not vital for me to hear music and that is it, i like that lyric that make songs better with rhythem but i have to say it make me happy someties, not all the time, for me to be happy and enjoy life i like nature and sea, its so nice and have rhythm that no artificial music to it. your post is super and from you hear thanks fo rsharing it and make us feel it and write how we felt for that post and i think the key is the rhythm