True staying rooted in the present is the ideal situation taking each day at a time and making the best out of it. The analogy of the football and goalkeeper is aggressive but can work wonders as one cannot sit idle mulling if a plan fails. Instead if the individual devises a new counter strategy to effect a change in the situation and keeps…[Read more]

In my view changing the course of action instead of brooding over the past is the best way of achieving success.

It should be like taking the football to the opponent’s side every time changing the strategy and the direction without any disappointment if once it is stopped by the Goalkeeper. Every time, the Goalkeeper of the opposite time may…[Read more]

Thank you for expressing your point of you in a very direct way. Yes even I have seen many families going through such situations and that continues till years. I fully agree with you when these husbands should just mind their business when they are in no position to do anything and the poor lady has to slog and do everything from A to Z  they…[Read more]

Treat a woman like fellow human being. Generally, a wife enters your house expecting some hope and support from you. If you deny them, she will go shattered and the trouble starts and may go to any extent. Of course, no lady is timid nowadays to bear with tauntings of the husband. There are still some ladies who are docile and degrade themselves…[Read more]

@acelawrites

Happy to hear from you and feels good to know that people nowadays treat women the way they should be treated with respect. But there are many places in the world where woman are discriminated for different reasons. Like in the case of salary, facilities which are not gender neutral in many countries especially in the private sector,…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Totally agree with your view regarding maintaining distance out of respect especially with people who are not related to us or those whom we know very little about or strangers. We should see that they do not feel uncomfortable with our presence due to ego, attitude or any sort of domination as mentioned by you even in the case of…[Read more]

@Mahesh

Appreciate your response for the above topic. Yes I do agree that it is better to take one step at a time especially when we are going to try something new. For this we definitely have to compromise and move out of our comfort zone cocoons which we would have built over a long period of time which is nothing but a state of mental barrier…[Read more]

Happy Women’s Day. You are right when you elaborated some of the rights of women and how people should regard them as human beings with rights and feelings. I am happy because so many people now appreciate and treat women the way they should be.

I think the best way is to respect women, and maintain a distance, especially those who are not our mother, wife or sister.
Even with mother, wife or sister, we need to regard their feelings and not be aggressive or dominating with them.

What I found is that we have to take small risks. We have to take one step at a time. You can do this by coming out of your comfort zone. You have to get out of your comfort zone one task at a time. I think some of the time you have to focus on things you can do to motivate and challenge yourself. But it all comes down to where you stand. You…[Read more]

True getting motivated for some time is one thing but sustaining the same on a continuous basis is totally a different thing. It would be better for us to break big or huge tasks into small units and take one thing at a time as this will help us continue sustain our motivation on a continuous basis. Only a few people will have the bent of mind to…[Read more]

God Shiva is omniscient He is present in all directions and all atoms too. He is one of the three trinity in the Hindu pantheon. He is the easiest of them to please and obtain boons from. He never says no to a devotee who approaches Him and asks Him for something for which he has been praying to reach him. He is also known to come to the rescue of…[Read more]

This is very nice topic. Motivation is something that has to come from our own. We can have motivational speech, example to motivate someone which may act as catalyst. But whether a person will be motivated or not totally depends on that person.
For me, I think I will do something and get motivated to do that! But after few days I get back to the…[Read more]

@PEEUSH TRIKHA

Agree with you good things do not come easily to one and one has to put lot of effort to achieve the same and enrich his life with the process of change and the success which receives at the end for the sacrifices one has had to make for the better. But it is always worth giving a try for something which does overall good to us in…[Read more]

@MANASHA

Congratulations to you on being able to change and stop a habit which one is used to. I agree it does take lot of will power to achieve or change something which we have been accustomed to since a long period of time and which has negative effects on the health. One more positive is that once you are able to change something like this it…[Read more]

@Dr KOKIL AGARWAL

Interesting piece of useful information added thanks for the same. These inputs add value not only to the content but also have expressed your opinion very well. We are very important in not only our own lives but for the lives of all those dependent on us. If the sun itself does not exist what will the satellites do? Regarding…[Read more]

Yes indeed, quite positive ways to enrich ourselves, and try new things to motivate us. It is not easy, but good for us overall and it is something we would eventually like to do.