Yes, people use all kinds of excuses of why they can’t do this or can’t do that but If u put ur mind to it anyone can handle their own. That’s why their is a such think called independent meanin take care of your own and  do not worry about anybody else. U can give people advice, you can be there as much as u can but its up to them to either take…[Read more]

@pc work, betrayal is the most common mistakes people, us, everyone encountered, suffered and/or do. But on my part, I was the one who was betrayed physically, emotionally and it was a day I cannot remember. I had to move out our house for several months to regain my strength to face the circumstances. I dealt with it after 4 months far from that…[Read more]

It’s never too easy for men to follow those things and commandments which can be found on the sacred book. Even if we say they believe in GOD but they don’t still get it how to become a good husband to their wives. Most men nowadays follow what they like and love and not what the Lord says them to do. Every relationship has its own sufferings and…[Read more]

Everyday I have to improve myself jus by bein independent. If I don’t be that way I will never learn how life is. I would jus be this lost puppy that never succeeded in life. Then my kids won’t know to defend for their selves and they would always depend on family, friends, men, women, etc.. I mean jus people that don’t care about them. But as…[Read more]

I have had a family member betrayed me becuz they had sex wit my baby daddy and tried to make it seem like everything was cool between when it wasn’t. So I don’t talk to that family member any more. Then another one of my relatives tried to talk to my fiancée at that particular time and I stopped talking to them as well to. So am done betrayed by…[Read more]

Every relationship has its equal share but I wouldn’t want to be compared to any female becuz I would be to busy focusing on my issues that am having wit my own self but I know when I get that relationship wit him he will be happy focused on the fact that hopefully we can be as one  wit our life together and enjoy our kids etc…..

@Latisha Perkins ,That is true, no more martyrs this time.Thank you for sharing your nice thoughts and feelings, very much reiterated.

Yes, there are some wrong doing but the same time we need to stand up and say no more that’s enough. We can’t keep sacrificing and be in stuck wit nothin. If we continue to show we will do anything to keep or have him then him, family, friends anybody that feels u will come to there rescue…..each and every time they need u they gon call, try to…[Read more]

I believe in love at first sight, command law marriage, etc. These things I hope to be one day. I feel it doesn’t take long, it depends on how well we match each other. Like we might find alot of things we have in common, the chemistry might be strong. I mean there are so many that comes to mind but at the end of the day it depends on that man and…[Read more]

Am to scared to date military or law anything that has something to do wit the law I can’t. Its so much they can get away wit that I wouldn’t trust it.

Its hard period because at times we grow so much love for that person that we have no at times but to deal hoping and praying that this person would change there ways, how they live, or their lifestyle. But am not going to sit here and put all the blame on us. You men are sometimes very cruel to us when all we do is make sure that u have the…[Read more]