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    kaylar wrote a new post, Abusive men never really Change 7 years, 9 months ago

    This is a true story, the only thing I change are the names.

    Trevor came into Sonia’s life like a hurricane.  He virtually swept her off her feet. He seemed to love her so much and she didn’t love him that much, […]

    • It’s sad that she has to be with him again, hoping that he will change. The fact that the second wife next to her eventually left him also, means he hasn’t changed but have the same ways.

      It’s even more sad that she has to really study why is he doing those to her. She is not after all an intelligent woman. The husband is, because he can really make things to abuse her.

      • No. The fact was, she had done a retrospective so she was not shocked or surprised. She believed he had never changed and was proven right. His attempts to annoy her were assumed before she arrived, and proven right.

        One of the most important things an abused wife must internalise is that she was an abused wife. That none of the evil was ‘her fault’ that she didn’t ‘jump to conclusions’ that she didn’t ‘give him a chance.’

        Many women suffer for years in the belief that they were wrong or misinterpreting. Because she had done all that mind work before she left, had gone over it during the years apart, when she saw him again he was as able to hurt her as a snowflake falling two blocks away.

        She returned home in a state of bliss because all her ‘assumptions’ were not assumptions.

    • Unfortunately, this is the experience of many women and it is a sad fact that emotional abuse eventually leads to physical abuse. Few understand this until it is too late because the emotional abuser leaves the person wondering if they are really over reacting or to blame.

      • Exactly right. Without the first steps of emotional abuse, the physical would be immediately reacted to.

    • To some point this story makes me laughed especially when I read how Trevor was making a fool of himself. Would i be right to say that he was in a competition with himself? It sounds so silly, but again it’s very unfortunate that women go through this problem so many times. That’s the reason why people are always told to attend marital counselling before they get married, that way they would know how to deal with issues that come their way in their marriage. It was a good idea that Sonia was able to know who she really was and put a stop to the emotional abuse that she was facing. I like the fact that Trevor got just what he needed in the most unsuspecting way. Men should know that when they do wrong, women can do some pretty bad stuff to them but they choose not too because they know what will work for them or against them.

      • Trevor didn’t realise that Sonia saw through him. He could have been mad of glass. He just made a clown of himself.

        To run a paper shredder at night… no one does that… esp. not when someone had to get up early. But he, in his evil did it until he realised, he has to get up even earlier…he has to drive Sonia to the airport. She can sleep in the car. He can’t.

    • Most abusive men cut their wives off from their friends and family so he can operate without witnesses. The process of domestic violence wears down the victim to the point where she doesn’t realise she is a victim.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Why Does Trump Hate Mexico? 7 years, 9 months ago

    I thought it was me.  That I was seeing a prejudice that wasn’t there.  But I’ve done my searches and find that I am not having fantasies or fabrications.   Donald Trump does hate Mexico.

    Some say it isn’t re […]

    • No one will really know why he hates Mexicans but al i can say is, no matter what happened, even if it was a deal com bad with Mexicans there is no need to hate them all.

      This is the reason that i think he is just plain racist. He hates a whole culture and that is just one of the many. I am pretty sure he hates more cultures and has some kind of excuse as to why.

      • Trump is racist. He made no bones about that and his supporters, save for the idiots who don’t have mirrors, are racist.

        He chose Mexico to be his scape goat. Happily, he hasn’t notice Jamaica yet. He is bully. But Mexico is going to come out better; they’ve replaced the American car manufacturers with Chinese.

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      thanks for the sharing.

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    kaylar replied to the topic Commenting on Blogs add to your earnings in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 7 years, 9 months ago

    Yes, I happily found out that communicating on these forums and leaving comments on blogs counts.  It isn’t just a wrist flick.   This is a very good place to communicate with each other, learn about other countries.

    As long as people are honest and appreciate the differences between us and the similarities, we can have a really good interaction.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, As a Dog Returnth to it’s Vomit; another Episode of Twin Peaks 7 years, 9 months ago

    When you live in the 3rd or 4th world, you don’t get much television.   You miss thousands of shows.  Then, you learn you can watch television programs on line, you jump into the fray, watching those shows y […]

    • I think there is value in being able to watch a series all through and see if it actually hangs together. People miss a lot if they see something week to week and think the series is better than it is. Twin Peaks is not one I ever watched and from what you say, I don’t think I will bother. Youtube is a good source for old series. I have been watching “Upstairs Downstairs” about a family and their servants in the 1800’s. It is an English family and gives an interesting insight into a period in history.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The BBC; how the mighty have fallen 7 years, 9 months ago

    There was a time the BBC used to broadcast on our local station from 8 to 9 in the morning and 8 to 9 at night.  People would gather around the radio and listen to every word.   The British Broadcasting C […]

    • I too think the BBC leaves a lot to be desired now. It was as you say, a way people learned to speak proper English and I also believe the standard of reporting has gone down. It is a shame, but I doubt things will improve any time soon. It is all about money for most things these days and I doubt the BBC is different although I hope I am wrong!

      • It was a serious news agency. The people took it serious. Now, it’s been watered down to sound bytes and propaganda. I know there was some shake up and they now have rubbish broadcast over and over again, one can’t listen to it steady.

    • In old times BBC was good. Then social justice warrior news taken over. And now news channels are just propaganda machines. I wonder how this quality has gone down over the years.

      • To me it was a way to cut costs, cut information, and go for the quick news, than a bunch of blah blah. Which, I don’t listen to. I know that there’s stupid interviews, but outside of hearing the ‘topic’ I shut it off. What is needed is another station to pop up being the old BBC…

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    cely wrote a new post, Having Enough Sleep From A Stressful Work , Lets You Feel Many Things 7 years, 9 months ago

    It is so important to get enough sleep from stressful activities at work. If we are so busy and tired, we feel our heart so stiff and never feel the usual beating. Our heart is felt like a stone seldom it beats […]

    • If I don’t get enough sleep, I’m moody, stressed out and suffer from terrible headaches. Sleep is always the best medicine to help you feel refreshed and ready for any challenges ahead.

    • @Tracy,I agree with you, our blood pressure will be affected if we lack sleep , and we cannot also sleep right away if stressed.The feeling is different if having enough sleep at least 8 hours per sleep per evening.But sad, I only have 4.5 hours sleep hehehehe.

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    I was paid by clixsense and opinion outpost.

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    cely wrote a new post, Would You Believe That Time Heals A Broken Heart? 7 years, 9 months ago

    I often hear people saying this line that time heals a broken heart. I believe those who say this have lots of experiences of life. We can never say something without varied experiences. Let us not forget that […]

    • I do think time can heal a broken heart. Although one has to help himself. He has to fully eradicate the incident in his mind, although this is easier said than done.

      Some would find another lover, when broken hearted. However, over time he too would realize that he is just fooling himself, by trying to make herself believe that it is love that he feels for the new lover, when all the while it is just to occupy his mind.

      True, time heals a broken heart. But it takes a long time and even if it is already, the incident will be refreshed when you see the person again.

    • @Dina, Hi friend? Thanks for dropping by, I am yes to your answer that time really heals a broken heart thought not instantly but it will really work for the concern person.It is also true that despite years and despite heart healed, but time comes that it will be refreshed due to some memories, yet during that instance, you will only remember the boy , but you could no longer remember the feeling anymore ( excerpt from a son),LOL.

      The painful experience wold also serve as a lesson so by the next time around, there will be no more broken heart.

    • I think time helps a broken heart heal to a certain extent in a case where you lose a loved you, but it will never truly forget them. Although I think a broken heart in the case of a break up heals completely after some time and the strength to move on and past the heart break.

    • Well, my heart having been broken, I can tell you that the love of God and time mended it. I think we all have at least one time of life where things fall apart. You do not forget, but you can always be grateful if there were some good times. One way I got through was to tell myself I was not going to forget or reject the good times because someone else might never even have had that experience. Keeping my good memories meant the whole of a marriage was not negated. It helped me to forgive and move on.

    • I think a broken heart can be healed with time but for this to happen you first need to accept that. After having a big heart break we do need to find a way to console our hearts. Sometimes it isn’t time but just acting out for a while and changing your lifestyle helps also.

      Everyone has their own way of dealing with heartbreak and everyone requires time, but time alone is not enough. Wanting to heal your heart is part of the process and not closing it up to new opportunities.

      Sometimes a good healer to a heartbreak is find that one person that can patch your heart up and make you feel whole again.

    • @Tracy, Thanks for your nice thought about this blog, very much appreciated. Almost all human beings cannot escape to experience heart broken. Our heart is so vulnerable and weak that it just feel that way when something leads a heart to break. Thank you so much.

    • @Jacky Hughes ,Thank you so much, very well said. there are ways to avoid feeling the pain all the time for we can no linger think of the best solution. It is only us who can solve our problem and mend a broken heart. Time indeed heals.

    • Sarah Freitas, Thank you for your inspiring and comforting words very well said and I thank you for that. I will also share this suggestion to my friends whose heart also broken because of love.

    • The reason why time heals a broken heart is the time.yes, there will be many times the person encounters and of course, he or she cannot concentrate well if keep on thinking about the cause of a heartache. Every day, there is hope and there is a challenge to face. There are also many things we can see that disrupt the retention of the sickening feeling.The more if avoid thinking about the cause of your heartache for you will surely feel the changes of your feelings.We are the only one that can solve our multiple problems in life. Emotional problem is truly different from financial for the latter can easily be soilved by loaning some money to friends, but love hard.

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    Kelly Dutton started the topic I know many sites to make money. in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 7 years, 9 months ago

    You should take a look at all the posts that I have posted here at literacy base.I suggest many moneymaking sites.

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    Kelly Dutton wrote a new post, Kelly’s ways of making money online to help pay utilities and for savings 7 years, 9 months ago

    For all the people on literacy base wondering about ways to work at home and make money online,I know lots of ways to make money online and paid to post is a good way to make money online.I make money with paid to […]

    • The firstc online paying site I went to is Neubox. However, it is so boring, that after I was already at myLot, I stopped. Then a myLot member referred me to Bubblews. I earned a lot there and was so happy. ALthough, I wasn’t paid for about $300, I was thankful for that site for making me earn so much.
      Then, I came back to myLot when it is again paying and that was many months before Bubblews finally shut down.
      The spammers and scammers are what eventually made Bubblews go down.
      So, we should report people who scam , spam and palgiarize so LB will always be here.

    • I think i personally don’t side with the PTC. instead I think the best way to spend your time and money is in writing articles or doing something that does make money.

    • I guess we have met before then on MyLot! I think the one really good thing Bubblews did was get people wanting to write. People who had never written any kind of article before found something to say even if it was what they had for breakfast and that kind of thing can develop into an appetite for composing other, better things. I am back looking at blogging on these sites after a long break. I missed the instant creativity. At least writing your own article is less boring than clicking on some random ad you never wanted to see anyway!

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences. Indeed, this site is great because it pays you to post your blogs and comments thru groups, as well as forums. Add to that, the wonderful people that you get to meet with a load of talent. May I add to your list–The content authority? This site offers money and while I am not promising anyone millions, I will say this–If you are not afraid of good old fashion hard work, it will pay you! One thing to bear in mind is the grammar. They are very strict with the grammar but if you pass this hurdle and meet their requirements, you can make some money with these guys.

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    Kelly Dutton wrote a new post, Double payday Tuesday from clixsense and opinion outpost 7 years, 9 months ago

    I want to share what happened on Tuesday with my online sites.I was paid by clixsense and opinion outpost.Opinion Outpost paid me $10.70 by paypal.Opinion Outpost is an online survey site and I redeemed 107 […]

    • i like clixsense for long time i m using it, but opinion outpost is not working ther are no survey all the time and i dhave only 20 point for long time not what to do is there any key to

      • I tried both sites, clixsense , nver pay me double for 4 years now, maybe the double only for some countries as all the sites, also theere low payment is 0001 or 001 which too low, so htey are not really my favorite sites, the other site is point site and it needs long months make

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    cely replied to the topic Good news, Literacy Base paid me $30 , Cheers in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 9 months ago

    @Krishna Kumar, Thanks for the good news on your side. Actually I ws too late to know.I was paid February 17. It’s better late than never hehehe. yes admin thru Support helped me and I have asked an apology for sometimes I lack patience. That is what I want to change in my life. Let us hope that everything will be fine here.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Watching the Next Episode of Twin Peaks 7 years, 9 months ago

    I decided to watch Episode 1 of Twin Peaks, having waded through the ‘pilot’.

    I had heard of this show, referenced here and there and for my own curiosity satisfaction, went back to the original 1990 series.   […]

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    cely wrote a new post, Know Some Deadly Facts About Toothpaste 7 years, 9 months ago

    This was the issue before that toothpaste can cause cancer. My goodness, what will be the odor of the human breath? Why was this became the big issue in the pasts months. I think competition is the main cause. Two […]

    • I think I have to use another toothpaste of long ago hehehehe . From the standpoint of the old generation, tooth brushing using guava twigs can be useful for a small twig part can kill bad smell and stop tooth decay. I do not know how true is this.LOL>

    • These are some interesting toothpaste facts. I have changed so many toothpaste I didn’t even knew how many I used and thrown.

    • @Mahesh,I think toothpastes manufacturers making bad images to their competitors because mentioned in the media and others that Colgate is not a good toothpaste for it contains much triclosan. When we use the other brand, it’s taste is the same and I do not think so that only Colgate contains triclosan;likewise other brands.

    • Thanks for sharing this information. I knew most of the low cost toothpaste might contain some chemical that caused oral cancer, but just not sure the name of the chemical. Thanks for telling on that name, Triclosan and Sodium Lauryl Sulphate, the latter is can be found in most of the shampoo or cosmetics.
      Thus, I have quit all the cosmetics currently until my son doesn’t know what is lipstick. He thought it is sticky glue. What a cute boy is he.
      And, I try to use those organic toothpaste but it is much more expensive, about 4 times of the low cost toothpaste. But, we have no choice as we might swallow some toothpaste during the teeth brushing process, right?
      I have not sure if the medical doctors or the medical board of the country should ban those harmful manufacturing of toothpaste or not. In fact, most of the chemical stuff of the cosmetic products are not good to our health and skin. Try to avoid it if possible.

    • I do not know much about this, but the other day I was sick the moment my toothpaste touched my mouth and I still have not found a brand that doesn’t make me feel ill. Somewhere I read you can just use bicarbonate of soda. (Baking soda.) I am planning to research that.

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    cely wrote a new post, 17th Century Baroque And Rococo Architecture And Arts 7 years, 9 months ago

    Before this period, there were many emergencies of artists. All their artworks were based from Greeks.  Greeks had many contributions to the world like Mathematics, Politics, Physics, Medicine, Philosophy, […]

    • I am lucky enough to live near Oxford in the UK and it is easy to get to London, so I can wander round the art galleries a lot. I rather wish I had paid a bit more attention to this period when I did art history at University, but I was more interested in modern art back then. It was certainly an interesting age.

    • It is one of the most interesting periods and it yielded very beautiful architecture and painting. I consider it one of my favorites and I hope to be able to visit all the places that have famous buildings in this style.

    • Jacky Hughes, I like the baroque Architecture, strong, opulence dynamic, strong.This time there are many modern arts, but they cannot bet the architecture in the past that brought glory and fame to the world, Without them, there will be no true bases of today .

    • t z,Thanks for dropping by, yes true, this period had many interesting creations of their architecture even some of the architects this time applied.They looked so elegant and discernible.

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    cely replied to the topic I miss to write long blogs, but I won't write this timer, no payment yet in the forum Group logo of Thinkers GroupThinkers Group 7 years, 9 months ago

    @Dina, hehehehe, I do not have a mole in my buttocks,lol.Those closed sites have reasons to close not for bankruptcy reasons but others to venture or diver their business.

    This evening I am going to post two blogs hehehe. I hope to see and read your blogs here. Thanks for your sharing activities, very much pleased here.God bless.

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