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    Marx Yuddy posted an update 7 years, 9 months ago

    Back to work after a long Chinese New Year Holiday. Back to Reality or earning money.

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    Marx Yuddy wrote a new post, Should a person follow the common practices by societies or in a group? 7 years, 9 months ago

     

     

    I was wondering most of the time in the previous years, should a person follow the common practices by societies or in a group?

    The common things I see in my life is that, gender differences. Different g […]

    • The blog does not apply to the modern women. There is no such thing as gender discrimination in the society. A lady is not expected to confine herself to a house and do the activities relating to cook, childcare, cleaning the house etc.,

      It was during old days distinction was made as to the tasks meant for females and males. The task meant for ladies were not attended to or given to males. This is due to the weak body constitution and the natural sensitivity to attend to more difficult and tough task. The males were to attend to the difficult task and to do hard work. They were all treated with respect and honor as they are supposed to bring good name and fame of the family and keep up the family/s name in the society

      Today nobody is asking her to confine herself to the sensitive and delicate work at home They are attending to all types fo work efficiently than all men. They are fighting for their rights and financial freedom They are even fighting for their entry into the temple on par with men. We do not know whether it is for good or bad.
      Nobody is stopping her from moving freely on the roads and reach home like all males.

    • It is not as serious as now. Unfortunately there are some minor gender stereotype still happening. Things that we cannot see in the public but internally. My surrounding, there are still people living in this kind of gender stereotypes.

      To me IT IS REALLY RIDICULOUS. We should respect each another and why have to tell them what they MUST do?

      Indeed there are a lot of modern women, but there are still men and women being view in a different way in the society. SAD case.

    • As to men who are not into crying, I don’t think it would lessen their manhood to cry. I admire men who cries when they must because they show their human side.

      I think the case of women just staying at home and helping their mothers are of ancient times maybe. Even my mother, didn’t experience that whenever she tells us of her stories of her growing up years.

      And it didn’t even happen to me nor my sisters when we were growing up. Though our parents assigns us task as to who would wash the dishes in the evening and after breakfast and lunch, but never to just let us stay at home, but just let us play with our playmates outside. They assign us those tasks because they teach how to help at home even if we have a helper to clean and cook in the house.

      • Yup. Those guys who know how to express their feelings, I too admire them. At least can look at the human side, as you said. They are transparent to everyone and not hiding behind the mask. They are not ego to show out their inner feelings. I dislikes those guys who pretended to be very strong but actually, somehow, they are upset inside. As a friend to them, we too would like to comfort them but when looking at them trying to pretend even though in front of friend, I just feel that that guy does not trust me as a friend. Friendship won’t last long without trust.

        Moreover, if that guy is our family members, we will be even upset when knowing there is something wrong in him and he keeps on hiding. We wish to help but the guy refused to be helped.

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    Marx Yuddy posted an update in the group Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 7 years, 9 months ago

    I am new at literacy base. My main concern is to write blog about Children and Parents Relationship. Usually we could see blogs or articles about how much parents sacrifice for their children but seldom mention about children and childrens’ feelings. I want to let the readers know that as parents, it is important to concern and take care their own…[Read more]

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    Marx Yuddy wrote a new post, A Child’s Suffer (PART 1) 7 years, 9 months ago

    We always come across with those short video clips , movies or drama about how parents sacrifice for their children and how much they had done. This mostly produces by Asian countries. Indeed we need to appreciate […]

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    Marx Yuddy wrote a new post, A Child’s Suffered Silently (Part 1) 7 years, 9 months ago

    We always come across with those short video clips , movies or drama about how parents sacrifice for their children and how much they had done. This mostly produces by Asian countries. Indeed we need to appreciate […]

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