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My partner in New Zealand is a happy loner. He prefers to be alone with his pet cat now.He has a son and is separated from his dad.But what I noticed that there is always association of word blue in his emails, Skype, Facebook, plus, his clothes ,brief, Polo-shirt, t-shirt, pajamas, pants, jogging pants, all in blue. I wonder why he likes but. I never dare to ask him why , but all I know is , he is happy to be alone.In fact, he changed his mind from being marriageable to non-marriageable. That made me sick when he told me that he changed his mind to remain a non-marrying type.I think those who like to live alone pretend to be happy when actually not happy. Man is a social being and he needs someone to talk to. Having gadgets and other things never equal the happiness felt when there is human to be along with, to be happy with and to share some thoughts, problems and heartaches.
All I can say is, I can never live alone. I will be lonely of alone living in a house. I need someone to be with. It is not enough to just watch TV and do on line activities, so weird, but I cannot blame those whose preference is to live alone. They are loners and I believe they are cowards to face challenges of life just like my foreigner partner.
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If an individual chooses to be alone even though they may have opportunities to have people in their life then surely they are a happy lo9t. To each their own. We cannot judge anyone and call them cowards.
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Living alone is an art This is the real meaning of life. Living alone is a challenge. One who overcomes it can take up any kind of challenge and achieve it with a great ease and comfort
Yes, I agree with you that there are many who are living alone and are happy. Living alone is not a sin. If we say that man is a social animal and he needs some company in life it does not mean that he should be in the company of somebody who will be hammering around him and picks up quarrel with him It is better not to have such company
In general, most of the people will have a company But, if by chance if one had to live alone he should equip himself to face the situation There are many things available nowadays. We can make a life quite meaningful living alone
One can do yoga, one can visit ground and watch the games, one can spend time watching T.V. Meditation is another way of spending time which gives good opportunity to realize the things in life Attending foreign languages class is another way of spending time nicely There we will have different types of people we can interact with. Spending time with like-minded people on Fb and other social media sites is also a good way of spending time lonely. There are many ways. One need not worry if one has to live alone-
Not many are blessed with company that is compatible or shares interests. In today’s world as you have pointed out there is so much one can keep happily occupied with .
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Oohh The joy of christmas, who doesn’t like the sound of carols. If anything carols are what get me into the Christmas mood when I hear a song in radio that imemediately stirs me up to start looking for my old cassettes that played Christmas carols because those songs from way back are the original thing so it brings out Christmas in a more natural way than what we hear nowadays. Its true that nowadays Christmas stats early some people even start it as early as the last week of November in preparation for the festive season. The only bad thing about this early celebration is true fact that when the actual day comes people are bored already so the day usually just comes and passed by nothing much is done.
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December 1 is the day when I start playing and yes by the time Dec 25 arrives they lose their charm (lol)
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What you have said here is universal. That change of scene is felt everywhere. But I keep to the old traditions and quite enjoy being that way.
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Thanks for posting. Reshared to my foodie blog.
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If you like coconut and jaggery this is a great snack. You must be having an interesting food blog. How is it faring?
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To date, my Food Ways blog shows 30 published posts. I used the Blogspot platform. Just recently set up a foodie blog on Tumblr for more sharing of more food-related stuff. That’s where I shared your post. Well I don’t know if other people like the blogs but I like them! There is always the goal of successful monetization. However, if I were to draw on my past experiences there are only 4 possible outcomes for my blogging adventures: (1) the blog will be deleted by the site owners, (2) the blog will be allowed by the owners but won’t get any traffic, (3) the blog will be allowed by the owners and might actually get subscribers and followers, and (4) I’ll die and my surviving family members will delete all of my online activity OR let it stay online but ignore it. They ignore what I do now anyway! 🙂 🙂 You’re sweet. Thanks for asking. 🙂
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I like your logic about what could possibly happen to your blog. I hope your point No.3 is what will happen to your blog. I too have a couple of them there but I also know hardly anyone in the family would be interested in retaining them when I kick the bucket going by their lack of interest in knowing what I do when I am living (lol)
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LOL. I enjoy talking to you. 🙂
It’s the strangest thing but when my mother passed away, my brother was going through some of her things and found her handwritten notes. It was a collection of quotes she had written down over the years. They revealed something about her character and nature that even her children didn’t know. He read some of the quotes at her funeral service.
Comparison? The thing is … I don’t think my own children really know me that well. Also, I have grandchildren and a great grandson. One grandchild I see regularly. But as for the others, circumstances keep us apart and so we don’t really know each other. Perhaps they might find my writings online and read them to learn a little something about me. Who knows? Maybe my work might connect us in some way. It might guide their steps if they need advice, or encourage them or cheer them up, if they feel down.
That’s my hope. It’s a prayer. 🙂
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