opeloyeru luqman
@holapluz active 7 years, 6 months ago-
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That is true. Most people who have the 5 weekdays to work, hates it.
But honestly, I love it. I do love Saturdays and Sundays too. But during those days I see to it that I had my relaxation and that includes visiting my parents every other Saturday. I clean our bedroom, change the beddings and after that, I really would take a rest.
Sometimes, I would go to the mall alone. I don’t like tagging my husband because he complains that I roam around the mall so long. But that’s what makes me happy, roaming around the mall and buy whatever there is a need to buy.If I will not be going to the mall, I just stay at home with my hubby. He will be at his desktop outside our bedroom , while I am inside our bedroom, watching TV or sometimes listening to CDs while doing online blogging such as here and myLot.
Sundays would be going to church and further rest for myself.
Having done these relaxing activities, I ready myself for Monday. I shampoo and condition my hair and take a bath in the evening. I choose the bag to use and fix my things on it. I choose what to wear for Monday and hang it already outside of the cabinet.
Hubby and I go to bed early on Sunday evenings and have a happy conversation before finally going to bed.
I am excited for Monday because it is a challenging day. When I am able to finish my job in a shorter period, I congratulate myself silently and come here and to myLot as a reward. 🙂
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That’s nice, you are very organized so you do not have to rush during Monday mornings. People should really be like that; they should plan things ahead so there’s no cramming and no troubles and stress during Monday mornings.
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Employed people should be thankful, they are blessed because they are given the opportunity to prove their worth, to be productive to support their families.
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Agree with what you say that having gainful employment is a very important thing for anyone be it man or woman. There are many companies who are neutral to all and look at all categories and show no favoritism when it comes to appointments and other benefits. There are many other employers who because they are giving a job try to control the employees, pay them low wage, make them work more time, do not appreciate talent all such things put off the employees. If the employees do not want to work and would want to change the job they would not allow them to go.
While job is a very important thing and one has to thankful for having a job it should be fair both to the employer and employee no one should feel shortchanged and both should not feel they are doing the other a favor by doing what they are doing. Both should understand it is give and take and demand and supply at work. Appreciate the interesting blog post.
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Thank you Krishna for your nice reply. Both male and female employees should have equal employment opportunities based on their qualifications; but female employees, like you said, should be given equal treatment; equal rights by her employers. Discrimination is not acceptable anywhere.
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Yes, we really have to be cautious and we should not easily trust anyone. There’s a lot of scams around online and offline, trying to lure you to give in. You always have to think twice or make a research before believing in something, especially opportunities that promise you to give a huge income, but it will just waste your time and effort, or worse, that you will release money for nothing. We have to be vigilant all the time.
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Thanks bluelion for your reply. It is best to be cautious than sorry. We should not allow the scammers have a thriving monkey business of fooling innocent people. They can easily do it especially online; they can pretend to be so kind, but they are not. We should not fall into their trap.
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You are right, Michelle; do not easily trust anybody you do not know especially on social media. They are pretending to be so friendly, but then they will scam you.
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The old adage “not to trust any strangers” and that “there are only two kind of people in the world, the one making fool of other and the one being fool” is quite true and assume real importance in the Cyber or Computer Age.
The same is true with the line of the poem “Desiderata” to that effect to “remember that the world is full of trickery”.
One must really be cautious in his or her worldly affairs not only online or in the virtual world but in the real/physical world itself outside of the internet.
If is too good to be true then for sure there must be something fishy that is going on.
The approach of any scammer or fraudsters for that matter is to appeal first and foremost to human frailty and weakness—the love of money, greed and selfishness and the easy-quick-rich approach.
For who don’t want or need money? For who don’t want to quickly get ahead in life or to be an instant millionaires for that matter?
This is where human weakness lies that is being exploited and will continue to be exploited by any fraudsters or scammers against the unsuspecting victims or potential victims.
I often tell others that if anyone for that matter is asking money online even for a single cent then for sure it is 100% scams or fraud.
It will be otherwise if they are the one who will immediate handed to us the money and not the other way around.
Any scams, fraud or swindling is as old as the presence of evil in the world. We must always be aware of this fact and be on the alert to open our eyes and mind.
Remember also that it is better to be safe than sorry or have a regrets in the end.-
Very well said, Arnold Cruz. You have explained it so well, that “if something is too good to be true,” then do not get into that bait. Scammers thrive because of the frailties of some people who get into such get rich quick scheme.
And yes,it happens even offline; those pyramiding scams or ponzi scheme where many people got fooled.
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Those are very good projects in your country. I wish there could be one like that here in our place, so that the poor can have a share of their wealth.
The beneficiaries should first be evaluated by the organizers to see if they really qualify to be given assistance.
Thanks for sharing this beautiful event for the needy in your place.
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This is a recurring problem worldwide of drug abuse and misuse and taking banned substances. It is very difficult to control such people as the drug abuse has taken total control of them they need help. According to me the husband may have had the right intentions when he told her what he told or he also may not have had any such intentions. But in my view the first one seems true because when they are not under the control or influence of drugs they are find and mean well. This is the same with alcohol too.
While it is a bad situation for the therapist. Since she has taken the task and put her husband in a rehab she has done her basic duty. Now it is for her to decide what she would want to do. As she would be knowing the case better. In my view she and the children should stay with her husband only after the complete recovery till that time maybe she can keep contact. Once recovery is done she has to take a undertaking of the family’s safety and see that he is working at a place from where he cannot go out and again do drugs. The money should also be given to her if he means well for the family.
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Maybe you are right that she should reconcile after he got reformed. However, in his kind of work, a carpenter, there could be so many temptations to drink liquor or take illegal drugs again. It is his self-control that would be in question.
He also have to avoid bad companions, but in his kind of work, he might not be able to do it because he cannot choose whoever he wanted to be with.
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@acelawrite ,
In my opinion, she should not take back her husband anymore, even if he has been rehabilitated. Once an addict, always an addict, although there are cases of drug addicts who really was washed of the drugs. But maybe those are the cases wherein the addiction isn’t that deep yet.
She has been threatened to be killed by her husband, why should she risk her life again by taking her back. She’s better off without her husband, even if it means doing all what she can to provide for her children. God will help her. She just have to do what she has to do and ask God to help her.
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Good thing your family sought a second opinion. It is so saddening that some doctors would just decide on conducting an operation on the patient without considering some of the perils involved.
We should also be careful with our diet to avoid such ailments, or the so-called lifestyle diseases.
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From then on, we know already that we should always seek second opinion when it is a serious ailment.
Good thing that now our daughter is already a doctor. We can always seek her second opinion since she’s not here in the province where we reside.
Indeed, even at an early age, we should learn how to live a healthy life without depriving us though, of the delicious foods. The key is to eat in moderation, exercise or being so mobile and having a happy disposition in life.
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Some people do not take their jobs seriously, like that project engineer who allowed the installation of the ceilings without the wirings yet inside it. He should know it was his fault.