Most old folks at your grandma age needed a special someone to help her. Family members are not familiar with the important guidelines.

However, some people do get a maid to care for old folks too.

Just to save some money on that pay.

I am sure your grandma will be blessed with many many years of healthy life.

Just keep her smiling.:)

I agree…as they say…Age is nothing but a number.

I think that if two people love and respect each other than age should not matter. People are more than a number and there are pros and cons in relationships even with those that are close in age. I am not sure if I would have a problem with it personally until the situation arises but if other people want it then it is not my business.

In the past I’ve dated men that were about 10 years older than me.  It just depends on the man’s maturity and interests.

I’m happily married to a man that is two years younger than me now.  So, I don’t think age should matter.

@peachpurple Now that I’m pushing 50, I can see certain advantages to dating a younger man! But in terms of companionship and conversation, I’ve always preferred my men to be at least the same age as me, or a bit older. (Hubby is an exception to the rule, being several years younger than me.)

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LOL @peachpurple That made me laugh…a miracle of love.

In Orlando California too, there was a shooting incident that happened involving a shooter inside a gay night club killing 50 and injuring 53 people in the scene, just after the killings of Christina Grimmie. I feel sad for this soul, it seems that their life was stole from them.

@oksummer/

for a man to date a young lady with an age gap of 15 years, it must be a miracle of love that had overcome their differences

For me, nope, I would rather date a younger man !

@grecy095/

another unfortunate crime that had happened in the same city?

I pray for this sweet angel’s soul to rest in peace and to forgive this crazy killer for his crime.

Guns should be banned from sale to citizens.

Really, how many more innocent lives would be lost each day?

@shavkat her brother fight back on the shooter so that no one will become another victim and they are both admitted to the hospital based on the comments, but Ms. Grimmie died there and yes, this is really a devastation.

good point. yea after that age, depending on where you both started it can get a bit weird. But if he keeps himself looking fit and young…no problem.

I am fortunate that I’ve never had to worry about meddling in-laws. My in-laws were my best friends, aside from my husband. For me, there is no choice to be made. My parents raised me, but I’ve long made my own choices. They generally respect them, but if they didn’t I would choose my husband.

I’ve never personally dated a man that much older, but at one time I knew several that I would have been happy to date under the right circumstances. I think 15 years is probably about as big of a gap as I’d want, though.