Yes. Communicating with them is better than hitting them. Aside from the physical pain that they will feel, they will also have the emotional and psychological scar that they will never ever forget til they get old.

i have 2 kids, 1 a school age child and a teenager.

You can scold, you reprimand them but never hit them because it will cause bad impression and memories in their head just like you had.

Kids are hard to control when they are rebellious because they don’t understand our hardship

Through times, they will understand when you talk to them when…[Read more]

That’s a nice song indeed! That’s Louis Armstrong’s song right? Try listening to his song “When You’re Smiling”. It’s relaxing 🙂

Why can’t musical instruments become cheap then ourmom could buy one for each person, then we coyld enjoy music

@kaka135 The bathroom basin is very small here, and would not fit even a newborn! But many parents will bathe very small children in the kitchen sink, as it’s similar to the sink where the nurses show parents how to bathe their babies in hospital. We did that for many months with our children. Most of them were bathed in the kitchen sink at least…[Read more]

Indeed God heals it is never easy taking care of a sick person it takes a lot of courage and patience but am glad that despite the carrying and the needle pokes your mum is well.

In 2012 my mom had sudden stroke after a fall. She was fully paralyzed until my bro seek a acupuntutist to poke needles into her limbs.

My bro had to carry her from house to car to the tcm shop to seek treatment.

He was pressured by her weight ,money and worries of her recovery.

Fortunately thru prayers n treatments ; 2 years later she…[Read more]

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I had normal birth delivery, not cesarean , so I can move about the next day.

my mother in law wanted me to learn how to bathe my baby as early as possible

Furthermore, she cannot squat down often, she had knee caps problem

I don’t know how to bath a newly born, but I am watching at my mother when she is doing it to her grandson, my nephew. It is hard from watching it as you will be scared to hurt the baby and the skin of babies are so delicate that you would prefer to use gentle/mild soap, that are especially for babies because it will hurt their eyes and leaves to…[Read more]

@ruby3881 I did not know such jugs exist as well. When my baby was in the first month, I bathed him in the basin in the bath room. Well, I actually put a small wash bowl in the basin, held him with my left hand, put him inside the wash bowl and use a handkerchief to “wash” him. As I was going through the c-section surgery, it was not convenient…[Read more]

@kaka135 In my son’s case, it’s part of his autism. But I know a lot of kids don’t like water to get into their eyes or around their mouth and nose. They become frightened that they will drown or that their eyes will burn. It panics them, which just makes matters worse.

There are now some specially made jugs for bath small children. A friend of…[Read more]

@peachpurple That’s really quick you learned how to bathe your first baby. Was it just the second day after she was born? I was going through the c-section surgery and my wound still gave me much pain, so I just learned to bathe my first baby after the first month.

I heard about using “black tiger beer” to bathe the baby, and I always thought…[Read more]

@shavkat There are some prenatal courses for expected parents, hence I think bathing the baby might be included in the course.

Yes, it is really wonderful to watch a kid growing up, especially when you watch her from a newborn baby, then toddler, young kid, and later growing up to be a young adult, etc. I always agree that the first three…[Read more]