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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Boss From Hell Goes Too Far 7 years, 11 months ago

    Everyone who worked there was used to Mr. Lou Cipher.  He was the King of the Bosses From Hell.

    Over time, the staff, as any staff which works for a BFH, had learned how to ‘cope’.

    Everyone knew how […]

    • Noses can be such a disappointment. There are those that you can tolerate but there are those who are unbearable. I thank God that through my work experience I haven’t heard a boss who has been over bearing to the point of shouting or hawling at people. Am one of those people who cannot stand a noisy or abusive boss I don’t think I can contain all that rubbish. I mean am just as human as you are why can’t you treat me with respect just like I do to you. What people forget is that even though you are my boss, that should not give you the mandate to walk all over me like an nothing. Most of the time if you find such bosses walking all over their employees most of those employees are usually more smarter than that are. If this kind of treatment goes on for long the best thing is to leave that company before you are sacked for being rude. You ar3 better off out then being in a situation where you cannot even grow because of negative treatments all through.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Rice laddoos simple and yet delicious – a Christmas goody 7 years, 11 months ago

    Here in this part of the world where I live there are traditional Christmas goodies and among them is the rice laddoo. Here is how it is made
    Ingredients

    Boiled or red rice 2 cups
    Jaggery 1 cup
    Half […]

    • Thanks for posting. Reshared to my foodie blog.

    • If you like coconut and jaggery this is a great snack. You must be having an interesting food blog. How is it faring?

      • To date, my Food Ways blog shows 30 published posts. I used the Blogspot platform. Just recently set up a foodie blog on Tumblr for more sharing of more food-related stuff. That’s where I shared your post. Well I don’t know if other people like the blogs but I like them! There is always the goal of successful monetization. However, if I were to draw on my past experiences there are only 4 possible outcomes for my blogging adventures: (1) the blog will be deleted by the site owners, (2) the blog will be allowed by the owners but won’t get any traffic, (3) the blog will be allowed by the owners and might actually get subscribers and followers, and (4) I’ll die and my surviving family members will delete all of my online activity OR let it stay online but ignore it. They ignore what I do now anyway! 🙂 🙂 You’re sweet. Thanks for asking. 🙂

        • I like your logic about what could possibly happen to your blog. I hope your point No.3 is what will happen to your blog. I too have a couple of them there but I also know hardly anyone in the family would be interested in retaining them when I kick the bucket going by their lack of interest in knowing what I do when I am living (lol)

          • LOL. I enjoy talking to you. 🙂

            It’s the strangest thing but when my mother passed away, my brother was going through some of her things and found her handwritten notes. It was a collection of quotes she had written down over the years. They revealed something about her character and nature that even her children didn’t know. He read some of the quotes at her funeral service.

            Comparison? The thing is … I don’t think my own children really know me that well. Also, I have grandchildren and a great grandson. One grandchild I see regularly. But as for the others, circumstances keep us apart and so we don’t really know each other. Perhaps they might find my writings online and read them to learn a little something about me. Who knows? Maybe my work might connect us in some way. It might guide their steps if they need advice, or encourage them or cheer them up, if they feel down.

            That’s my hope. It’s a prayer. 🙂

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    kaylar replied to the topic I reach the threshold here, I will redeem tomorrow in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 7 years, 11 months ago

    I had about $11 or so, put in for $10, leaving the $1.+ to grab more.  Now I have $14.+ and will, at 1 Jan put in for $10 so that if I balance myself I will always have $10 to put in.

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    kaylar replied to the topic I reach the threshold here, I will redeem tomorrow in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 7 years, 11 months ago

    My view is to try to post 3 items a day.   When reaching $10 wait until the beginning of the month to put in for only that $10 even if you have $13.00  this will enable you to ‘start’ with $3.00 in your account for next month.

    So… you join in June, you make 7.45, in July, after the 10th, you reach $10.00, by August first you have $11.00.  …[Read more]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, The Joy of Putting Up the Christmas Tree 7 years, 11 months ago

    Then we have the ritual of putting up a Christmas Tree. There is no noteworthy reason why this tradition came into being but suffice it to say putting it up does once again give one an opportunity to get the […]

    • I think there is some truth in your saying. Once the conifer branch is cut and after a day it becomes a dead wood But, it is coming as a tradition. Bringing the entire family under a tree is a great idea It is this idea that has to be viewed with appreciation. A sense of togetherness is involved in decorating the Christmas tree. No doubt the tree will be decorated with many other items also. But, one has to honor and appreciate the interest shown in decorating the tree
      Even in the Hindu religion, there is a similar tradition. Here the people worship an AMLA tree during KARTIKA MASAM
      They actually have to worship the Amla tree lighting a lamp under it. All relatives are invited and they dine as a group sitting under a tree
      During Kartika Poornima, it will be followed very meticulously. They name it VANABHOJAN.
      But, in cities, it is possible to perform such activity.
      So, most of the people purchase a branch of Amla Tree and place it in the prayer hall. They light a lamp under it. They arrange all food items under it. Sit around it and dine along with all the invited guests. After the ritual the branch has little value and it will be thrown out.

    • Christmas is one of the most important religious ceremony on earth because it reminds all of us Jesus Christ’s arrival and departure from this fickle world. In modern age every religious ceremony has become the part of old tradition and lost its religious spirit due to our materialistic thoughts.

      We must ponder over the importance of Christmas Tree reveals the mysterious death of Jesus Christmas. I think all religious festivals must be made with full pomp and show to make alive the dead spirit of religion all over the world.

      • Christmas is the day to celebrate the birth of Christ and I am not sure if the tree has anything to do with religion per se.

      • Christmas Tree is part of Christmas celebration, Since the birth Jesus Christ is wonderful in which the wise men came to worship Jesus Christ as the savior of the world.Jesus was being honor by these people. I think by raising Christmas trees, we are honoring the birth of our Lord Jesus Chris.
        He came to die for us, the raising of this Christmas tree is more than tradition

      • I totally agree with you..I enjoy this time of the year. It seems like no matter how bad your years been Christmas always puts joy in everyone’s heart and puts a smile on there face and best of all brings the family together. Don’t you just love it!!!

    • Sorry to hear about your father but I am sure he will be happy if you continued the tradition. And as for relatives that drift is felt the world over.

    • It is time to thank God through our Lord Jesus Christ who had accepted to died for our sin and rose again on the third day, so raising the Christmas tree because we are celebrate the the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ is worthy to be doing.
      Any living soul who know the important of Christ’s coming to this world will raise Christmas tree for Him

      • @timothy I understand and believe Jesus was sent here to die for my sins. You mention Christmas tree for Him being born. Wouldn’t a Christmas tree be better suited for Easter in your line of reasoning as it would signify the wood of the cross that He dies on for our sins? I do have a Christmas tree put up and do it for the Christmas spirit. But am trying to understand your argument

    • A thought has just crossed my mind why do people put up Christmas trees and decorate them? I know I am one of those people because it was a family tradition during Christmas to cut a tree and get it into the house then decorate it with all sorts of ornaments. Come to think of it we never really use to think about thedudus or aunts for those who may not understand dudus. I remember my brothers going around theestate looking out for a nice tree that they would cut down and bring to the house regardless of whether they had ants or not. Anyway at least I can say that we never had any issues with the ants they were clean trees. Once the tree was in the housewe would go out of our way to decorate it with lights and cotton wool to bring out the feeling of snow, the little balls and the star on the top of the tree. Back in the days having a Christmas tree was a big deal so if you didn’t have that would make you feel like Christmas will not be nice. So it was like a mandatory thing back in the days. Nowadays this things are not so much in people’s minds.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, The Joy of Putting Up a Crib – Yet Another Activity at Christmas Time 7 years, 11 months ago

    In the good old days when socialising was at its minimum children got joy mostly during Christmas time as that was considered to be the best season for everyone.
    Planning started days ahead. While there were […]

    • Christmas is one of the major religious gala of the followers of Jesus Christ but people clever priests has turned it into mere a tradition and thus Muslim Eid, Hindus’ religious festival and Christian’s Christmas all have lost it religious spirit in broader sense. Hollow hearts are making religious festival all over the world that is why moral sins are prevailing on earth all over the world.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Cones Stuffed in Jackfruit Leaves – Yet Another Christms Goody 7 years, 11 months ago

    This is a food item that is prepared during Christmas time. Atleast my mother added that in the list of several other food items she prepared specially on this festive occasion.

    Stuffed cones are steamed and […]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Precision is the Word While Making kokis 7 years, 11 months ago

    Kokis is yet another food item one only sees at Christmas time. Although the ingredients are simple one needs to be careful while dipping the kokis form in the batter and there lies the secret of making a perfect […]

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Spent a Day With the Mentally Challenged and Felt Rewarded 7 years, 11 months ago

    Each year we throw a party for poor kids at Christmas time and this year I ventured to have a party for the mentally challenged. I was not sure how it would turn out specially when their behaviour would not be […]

    • It would be a great idea to spare some time and to have the company of these little souls. These souls just need our attention.

      Spending some time with them will surely mitigate their sufferings and sorrows.

    • This is really touching. I love hearing about how others care. And it’s good to show this special kids that there just as special as anyone else. Yeah they may seem different but at the same time they still have a heart like we do. And it truly touches my heart to see others caring for the special needs.they should receive the same attention and respect as we do. If anything we should show kids like this just a lil more attention. Care for them in everyway we can. Don’t treat them different because their different. They still deserve a chance in life. It’s okay to hug them show them love they need it more than we do…Most important their still humans and we as people should never forget that.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Understanding How to View Being a Senior 7 years, 11 months ago

    As you get older, and you reflect on where you came from, life becomes a kind of drama.   You realise that you are at season 60,  while others have only begun season 19.

    You know how the story is going to go, y […]

    • Growing old is part of life. And we learn about life as we grow. We learn the right from the wrong the best from the worst. You have to experience thing in order to learn the truth and the right from the wrong. There so many paths to take in life and as we grow we gonna experience alot. We learn how to love better than we did before we learn how to care better than before.we all going to grow old one day and we have to accept it. We can’t stay young forever. When you grow old things will begin to get less frustrating, because you know how to deal with and manage things better. We’re all gonna make mistakes as we grow. But it only helps us become better people and better at the things we do. So live life to the fullest. Never back down if you can’t get something right don’t worrie, you’ll soon become better and better at what you do..You can’t get everything right.

      • The reality is that once one reaches a certain age, few people want to take any advice or guidance and when you blurt out something, either they get angry or play they haven’t heard it and make their own mistakes.

    • You are fortunate to live in a society where Seniors are prized and respected. In other parts of the world, alas, that is not the case.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Believing the Worst About People 7 years, 11 months ago

    People want to believe the worst about those they don’t like.

    They will misread, mishear, and over-react. It is almost like practising ‘mind-control’ when you can manipulate a person into making an idiot of th […]

    • You may say the Macedonian kids did not break any laws. Sometimes people who lie don’t break any laws, but they sure cause a lot of damage! It brings to mind the fable of the boy who kept “crying wolf”. Only in the story when the wolf was a real danger, nobody believed the boy. In our case, you’re saying the kids “cried wolf”, a lot of people believed, but there was never a real wolf.

      Whether or not there’s a connection between the Macedonians and the Russians … there’s a great probability or possibility that Russia could be a real wolf!

      Americans are anti-Russian? Or will an investigation expose that the Russians are anti-American? The history of our relations shows that we were never “happily married”.

      If a government of a country doesn’t take action to protect the citizens of that country, who will? If there is a possibility of wrongdoing, it needs to be checked. Whoever is in charge has to make that call.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Person You Don’t Want To Be 7 years, 11 months ago

    I am going to use an Actor because it is the easiest example. The behaviour of this person is not unique. You can see it at work, in the supermarket, at a party. You see it on the bus or at a sport’s m […]

    • Very good discussion. It can be a reflection to others. This might serve as a wake-up call to them and do good than what they used to do. Be humble than losing friends. Fame is useless if you don’t have friends.

      Nice discussion. It inspires me a lot.

    • True self introspection and being humble one to keep his feet on the ground. Many a time fame, status and wealth play the spoilsport and build a false ego and attitude in a individual. This affects the growth of the individual in different ways. People would not want to interact and tolerate the nuisance which that person would be.

      Many would like the company of other who are better and be happy with using their services. Rather than people as the above character. One more thing is I have observed if we try to help such people by pointing them the issue so that they may reform they will take it as a offence and get annoyed with us. Hence it is better to keep a safe distance from such people and not be one like them. Thanks for the share.

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    kaylar replied to the topic I reach the threshold here, I will redeem tomorrow in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 7 years, 11 months ago

    If you read the rules, if you put in for a redemption before the 10th of Month One you will be paid in Month Two on the 10th.  That means that if you put in for a redemption on the 17th of Month One it will not be looked at until the 10th of Month Two and you will be paid the 10th of Month Three.

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    kaylar replied to the topic What is the national dish of where you're from? in the forum Group logo of Food for the thoughtFood for the thought 7 years, 11 months ago

    In Jamaica, we know about Pepperpot…the Amerindians, in our case, the Tainu, did it.   Our national dish is ackee and saltfish.

    Ackee comes from West Africa, saltfish was the preserved fish from Britain.

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    bestwriter wrote a new post, Foods That Give the Christmas Feel 7 years, 11 months ago

    There are some food items that are only made during the Christmas season. Each country and even each State sometimes have their own delicacies. The aroma that fills the house while making these goodies truly […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Simple Steps to Keep Your Computer Safe 7 years, 11 months ago

    Another Hack attack. It’s in all the papers, on the radio, everyone is hysterical. Why am I not surprised?

    Years ago, way back in the days of Windows 3 land, the kids used to hack into it as a ‘rite of p […]

    • There are always two sides to ever coin. If an honest person can hide their computer activity, a dishonest person can too! You wouldn’t leave your door wide open, go to sleep, and simply believe that your home will be safe from intruders. Your computer is “your home in cyber space”. DO whatever you have to do to protect it from unlawful intrusion / invasion, without breaking the law yourself of course. Good safety tips! Thanks! 🙂

      • You have to think of your security and focus on it, just as a private person. One is astounded that any agency/organisation would take they security so lightly.

        • Well here’s the thing. The companies and corporations hire people they believe are qualified and will apply their knowledge, skills and abilities to keep the records safe and secure. From the CIO (Chief Information Officer) all the way down to the lowliest programmers, each is expected to “do their job”. When they don’t, bad things can happen. But sometimes, even though they did do their job, there was some malicious attacker out there who took aim and managed to break through anyway. Haven’t we seen buildings and banks with sophisticated alleged “burglar-proof” security systems but they were still broken into and robbed? Like you say though … you got to try to put up some kind of barriers. It’s business and it’s personal!

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Learning How To Make the Best of Things 7 years, 11 months ago

    When Sonia’s marriage collapsed, she spent awhile crying her guts out. Then she stopped. She said, “I have a Second Chance.”

    She did a ‘reboot’ and went back to being 19 although she was 25.  She return […]

    • Wow I really enjoyed reading this topic. Marriage plays a big role in our lifes.its great to have that one love forever.but must a say it takes to too make a relationship not one. Your husband or wife is suppose to be your partner in everything. You want always agree with everything but you must learn to listen and understand your partner. Your partner is suppose to be your best friend at the same time. If you don’t show any effort that your trying at all then yes that can ruin EVERYTHING. You gotta show you care and give each other a chance. Don’t set boundaries that you know are impossible or one of the other will eventually get tired and start pulling away. Show each other that you care and wanna make the best out of every situation.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Award Ceremony; and How Soon Come Works 7 years, 11 months ago

    In a previous article I mentioned how I used the propensity of Jamaicans to always arrive late to my benefit.

    In the article I touched on an Awards Ceremony, but it really deserves its own article, as it is a […]

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