Addendum: I am so happy to tell you that a reunion is a union of happy feelings .It is where we can see big smiles and loud laughters of our relatives. It brings back good relationship.Through it, we would know some strengths and weaknesses of the family members and relatives. It is also the right time knowing our relatives never seen before.Once having this, you always aspire to have it next time.There is a great advantage having a family reunion for it time of joys and sorrows, our loved ones will always share their supports.You will always feel you are not alone.We need to get closer to each other in our family or in a great clan. Happy are those doing this yearly. In our family, we too have this once a year with 600 members , family members and relatives.

Addendum : Let us be responsible for our actions in the net sites this time. Anyway, we already have some hints how to detect scam.Before a scam was not detected, there were so numerous victims. In fact, me too, encountered many scams on line. There were 6 foreigners wanting to scam me hahahaha, I told them you can never scam me, you die fist. At first they lured us and they seem real. If we do not know from others experience of scam, most probably, many would have been victimized by the thieves on line. There are so many of them this time especially i a dating site and other sites that assure everyone business genuine and how do we know they are not genuine? When they ask money like membership fee, free trial with a fee? Nonsense business then, that is only a mere fabrication of the fervid imagination of the scammers on line we have to get rid off.

Indeed technology made each and everyone be addicted to it. Most people now, can’t seem to live without internet even fr a day. It has become their bloodline, so much so that they have more time being on internet than conversing with their love ones.
People should see to it that these social media , online earning site and other things done through te internet shouldn’t hinder the quality time each one shoud be having with ter family.

Good article. I can see how technology can be a blessing or a curse. We have a great tool that is available to us in many ways but wise use of it is the key. Another side of technology that I wanted to mention is the ability to work from home. Many companies are hiring people to do work at home. I, personally, work from home. It has it’s pros and cons. For a person to work at home, discipline is a strong factor because the comforts of home can distract anyone. Yes, Thank God for technology but count the cost in the long run. Thanks for sharing.

@Dina, yes true, there are so many addicts of technology through the access of gadgets like netbooks, cellular phones, computers, lap tops, plus those that access us like Twitter, Viber, Skype, Instagram, Facebook, Line and more that makes life interesting and promoting for we always feel happy seeing and connecting with our relatives, friends and the supposed friends abroad.There is no boring moment when we are in Facebook. We know what is happening to our loved ones who are working in other countries. Media sites are so useful and helpful others never experience because they still like the backward life and never aspire to learn .

@Caleb, Hi? It is a pleasure meeting you here and sharing your valuable time to share your very nice comment. I really appreciate it. Yes, very well said, technology helps many earn some at home through on line work at home.It is also true that our family members are not sometimes felt their presence because we focus on our work on line.Let us only spend some hours for our family is the first priority, Somehow, the need to earn extra is useful to us because there is always something we can turn to in time of need.Though the earning may not be big, but at least, it is considered a hard earned money worth to spend wisely too.

Thanks for dropping by very much appreciated.

So many got sick of love and I am one among them.Right love is hard to find, yet love remains beautiful and even worth to die for only those stupid hehehe.Why? It is simply because many committed a suicide because of love. They cannot control their sorrows and loneliness caused by their lost love and dream. yes, it is not easy to feel the betrayal. It seeks like killing you instantly. You even want to kill just to have your rage find remedy to see the person who cheated you perished and never lie to you again. There are so many instances lover kills his love, that is why many agree , and I, too agree that : LOVE KILLS.

Love is the answer

Yes, true it is love itself to heal man’s misery. Love inspires one’s heart and it gives us reason to wake up for the next day.Love gives long tolerance , but when it is fed up, it will fly away forever and never come back. Love is the greatest feeling of all the feelings human has. There is no room for sadness when we are in love, but when love betrays, its impact almost kill the self and willing to fight for revenge,that is why love is labeled as killer to man hehehe.Those who like to kill themselves because of love are cowards. They should give themselves to love again though not so instantly but later in a year to distance from the broken dream and heart.

I agree with the author when she concludes we must find love back again and heal from every pain we shall have had in the past.

Love is not bad at all, on the contrary, love is the best thing on Earth that is worth living for! Sometimes we get hurt, but not because of love itself, but because of our own choices and love has nothing to do with it. Love is there to guide and inspire, and unite the world in only one breathe and heart beat!

Thanks for the blog Cely! That was wonderful!

@Manoel Fernández Neto ,Hi? Thank you so cu for your nice comment,very much appreciated. Yes, love is not at fault for man’s failure of love.It is destiny itself or choice itself for love is what we make it to happen. There are those serious in love , giving all their trust never thinking about life that may break the feeling and if not ready because f too much trust, then tears and pain will happen.It is man himself that makes love ugly or not.

At least I have this chance to voice out some experiences I meet every day in my life. there are so many times I meet people texting and driving, texting and reading, texting and eating, and texting and watching TV unmindful of the call of someone.In the classroom for example in the university were I teach. I keep of telling my students whoever is caught will be charged 20 pints deduction, Despite this, still they text and have their hands inside their bag hahaha, so stupid people, That is why every meeting short quiz to remedy the problem. There are also many students in our campus doing selfies and they never afraid to do selfie even at the top of the mountain, What can we call to them? Stupid and stubborn , right. So the youths now are the products of the technology and sooner or later many bad things would happen to them like health problems and mental
problems.

@Dina, hahahahaha I am laughing here, yeah you are right those who always take selfie think that they are beautiful. I noticed that those who take selfies are women not men except for gays hehehe. It will be awkward to see a boy for exam taking a selfie of himself,LOL.

Love is so beautiful yet others ignore it. They just want to experience love without feeling it in their heart.they just have it felt that way just for the sake off calling having in a relationship, but in reality no feeling called love. That is one reason to f]be hurt when yours is true and the opposite is fake. It is hard to detect if the feeling of your love is real or fake. there are so many great pretenders in the world, they just want to abuse your kind and honest ways. Never allow them to come into your life. Destroy that feeling if sense the love of the opposite is fake in the earliest time.

Love conquers all.If you found your real love,Embrace and never let go.True love is hard to find.In this generation,People take advantage to ones weaknesses. They often come and go.So if you have a good and strong relationship today.Do something to keep it working and never give up.
Find more ways how to deal with the ups and downs,Sit back and talk to each other sometimes.This way you will find your self growing old together till the end.

Kath , Hi? This poem is for someone else not from my own experience. I just wonder why he cannot forget hie past. All the things he has all in color blues. I told him why are you that way all in blue. Never be blue, cheer up, Do not look back, look at yourself. You are alive and having life you have to exhaust for life is too short you to be wasted by feeling life miserable. Yes, true, we cannot trust anyone as true to his / her feeling. Lucky are those whose loves of life are genuine.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings, very much appreciated.

So sad, many of the people who have better work failed to protect their income trough some savings.there is no guarantee that during retirement,the body is still strong and healthy. Health declines as we age , so while you are still young do try to save some amount for your old age. It should be to pay yourself first, that is supposed to be done by all of us before everything else because we work hard for the money and money is hard to find this time. There are insurance companies that offer better services during old age. In my case, I already purchased health insurance through Kaiser Philippines and pension plans from SSS which I pay at the maximum. I have from GSIS since I am employed in a government run university as an associate professor. The feeling is better if there is security during old age.

Thanks for reading guys.

That is very good of you having savings for the old age and rainy days. There areso many I knew retired broke, Why, because they sold in advance their retirement pension. So bad that the friend of my friend, has to work hard despite sickly and old. He was so pitiful. He also had a vice that brought him to land below the ground forever because he has no money to go to doctor and buy medicine, his children never care him for they were so mad at their father why sold his pension just for a plan to open up a business which he never had experience. His money to be used as a capital was not spent in the buying of the goods by his own nephew, instead left their place and brought with him 1 million pesos.Too sickening reality…to late to repent.

A child is more than gold , so those who are married and having children , I believe are the happiest individuals in the world for they are able to have fruits of their love.However, there are some parents whose attention are not solely focused on their children. They just leave their kids to their nanny making the child less mature and mind less developed because the house helpers do not have the genuine feeling for the babies.In fact, there are news about abuses and mal treatment of the house helpers to the kids under their care. That is one reason why some children feel so aloft and insecure. Love at home is a very strong foundation the children will cherish for life.

That is so very true . Love really begins at home . If a child sees that her parents are loving to each other , soft spoken , God fearings and reapectful to each other, she would grow up to be one also, even if you didn’t tell her to be . And of course good mannets starts at home too. So at an early age the child shoud be taught how to give respect to elders specially with the use of the “po and opo” .

Very true

Family is where really love begins.It can make your day happy and bright.Specially when you see your kids laughing and giggling.It can even be your greatest stress reliever.A very good reason to rush home after a very busy office work.Family means everything,And a the most important reason to live.Stay happy always and love your family

@Dina, Thanks Din for your nice thoughts about this blog, If all people on earth know the meaning of love, they will surely feel happy and never to fight the laws of the land. This international terrorists for example they never had felt love in their lives, for they n=are not afraid to kill or behead their captives, They do not have conscience to stop them from a gruesome killing. Those who kill are not born criminals, but thy lack attention from their parents and entire family members. Their lives became so shaky that they want belongingness.So, they seek people to accept them and to have someone to be always sympathizing his feelings. Pity are those who do not know how love is felt in the heart.

@Newton Munene Kaibiria ,yes, thanks for dropping by to my post, very much like and valued. Our family is our inspiration to survive and they are also our happiness. But ad, there are broken families and children’s dream broken, How nice if both hubby and wifey have cold heads so that they can realize the value of living with children with them so when they grow up, they become truly human,

Self- discipline is synonymous to self-respect.yes there are times that we forget to respect ourselves. We just but in to a topic we are not part hahaha,Sometimes, we just join an eating spree despite not invitation, to mean a gate crusher.That is part of life we have to avoid to gain some respect from people around us.Just a simple smile and make believe to have smooth and peaceful relationship in an office and in a family. Self-discipline brings us to glory for it is this manner that we gain some praises from people we know.
There are also those who are happy go lucky persons and never care at all. they just go with the music and they are happy at that despite others despise them.

Thanks for reading.

A person who has discipline will earn respect easily from her peers or his friends.
Specially, when t comes to discipline in eating healthily , a lt fails and that included me my dear.
Though, i know that burger isn’t a healthy food , i always crave for it and sometimes gives in to it . he he he
Though , i compensate by eating fruits when i arrve the house .

@Dina, Yes, you are right my friend, if we want to be respected, let us also do actions for people to respect us.There is no problem eating much if you are not high blood hehehe because the more the blood will be triggered by other matters added to their location.That is also true that sometimes we lack discipline in eating despite stomach full we still desire to eat more and that is already beyond the control, thus body expands more hehe.I do not eat burgers. I read about them, bad for the body and creates bad cholesterol. It is advisable to cook our own food for we know well the contents of what we cook. But we lack time hehehe, so eating outside is unavoidable.