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    jarik started the topic Joint force againt terrorism in the forum Group logo of A look into Nigeria and Boko haramA look into Nigeria and Boko haram 8 years ago

    From my point of view, I think that if there can be whole hearted joint force against terrorism, then it can be eradicated but not when of  the political powers are encouraging terrorism, it doesn’t work that way.

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    jarik posted an update 8 years ago

    The only way to live a healthy life is to have Jesus christ dwelling inside you.

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    jarik posted an update in the group Group logo of Inspirational/MotivationalInspirational/Motivational 8 years ago

    People will HATE you, RATE you, SHAKE you and BREAK you but how strong you stand is what MAKES you.

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    jarik replied to the topic Living in love in the forum Group logo of Inspirational/MotivationalInspirational/Motivational 8 years ago

    I strongly agree with you, LOVE rules it all, without love we are nothing but the world we live in today even HATRED is confused for love. Where there is no love evil rules.

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    jarik wrote a new post, OVERCOMING ANGER 8 years ago

    DON’T BE A FOOL FOR ANGER

    Anger is a reactive behavior due lost of calmness and control over annoying situations or misunderstanding. There is a strong spirit behind anger that make sure it end with […]

    • Sure if any think about being a fool if they get angry,they won’t to be angry.

    • If a truly malicious and wicked person knows that you have a problem controlling your temper, they can use your “weakness” to psychologically manipulate you and get you to do their dirty work for them. Some folks call this process “mind games” or “pushing the right buttons”. I call it dirty, dark and nasty. Learn to exercise self-control. People who have anger issues, often have regrets. People who exercise self-control very seldom have regrets. Don’t turn yourself into a fool and don’t let other people make a fool out of you! Your anger is an emotion that can be controlled BY YOU.

      • jarik replied 8 years ago

        @Yvette, You right from a very good sense but we should try to excercise our faith and endurance. We can be angry but better excercise calmness. The reaction and end result can never be determined of excercised anger, many dead from reaction to anger didn’t know it would end that way. There are better ways to show that one is not a fool when another displays anger over the other. If a man begins to shout and the other is quiet, people will see the shout man as a mad man fighting himself.

        • My name is not Yvette. For some reason, your reply to her comments are appearing as a response to my comments. (O.o) (???)

        • Hello Jarik.

          I completely agree with you that we should rely on our faith and endurance when dealing with anger. I use my faith more so than anything. I do not get angry quickly; as a matter of fact I try my best to stay away from situations that I know that will anger me. My faith is strong including my person. I find that when a person humbles themselves that is one of the best remedies. Believe me when I say that I have had to humble myself many times; whether it is at work, out in public or at home. It is definitely better to quickly react calmly to a situation before it can get out of hand or control. Thank you for your response, I really appreciate your information.

    • I still remember my moms qoutes when she’s still living, she always reminds me that “anger” means “danger” due to uncontrollable emotions we tend to be wicked in some certain scenarios in our life and later we will realize the foolishness that we have done and regret it afterwards. Let’s face it, nobody’s perfect all of us is imperfect but we are trying to be a better person from all our mistake that we have done in the past. It’s important to control your emotions and calm yourself down for your own sake as well as for the sake of those around you. If you’re experiencing overwhelming rage, though, it could be damaging your mental and physicalhealth as well as your relationships with others. Uncontrolled anger can be indicative of
      underlying problems, such as anger management issues or mental disorder.

      • jarik replied 8 years ago

        In line with what you wrote, there is the animal side of every person but it if how good we manage it. Many people do not know about their animal side untill they meet someone in their life that forces it out and this some become very glued to you that he or she is unavoidable. For example it could be a lover that lies and holds onto it even when the truth is clear and you are the type that lies irritates, due to this you react angry in such a manner that after it all you begin to wonder if you were the one who actually acted like that. But walking away could also be a remedy for overcoming anger, but we need to be sensitive to situations because they varies. If we are sensitive to situations arising to anger, we will always know the best management method to apply at every arising anger stimulated situations. Sometime a little sorry can calm or end it all. It implies that we shouldn’t see say sorry as being cowards because every person have their likes and dislikes, do and don’t, wrongs and rights from their own point of view. So if someone says this you have done displeases me, a simple sorry can resolve a devastating angered ending result.

    • It has a lot to do with one’s mental health. After all it is an emotion and those who cannot control it surely must be having health issues. When a person gets drunk you often find them either getting angry or the other way around – happy and cheerful. Some need drinks to be in that state but some already are mentally affected.

    • Anger is a VERY POWERFUL emotion that can take you down the wrong path if you’re not careful.

      • Sure you are very right, anger can destroy a man easily because anger cause lost of self control and a man without control should be feared like a car on motion without a driver or a lion on the lose. When a man is angry, he makes only the wrong decisions and the followe up action always end in a regrettable result.

    • In order for a person to overcome anger, that person has to deal with the root of it and the issues behind the anger. Think about when a person becomes bitter they have not forgave people that’s hurt them. Also, they’re still living in the past and haven’t moved on.

    • The best thing to do is to think many times before doing it. Do not decide when you are still in the height of your anger because you will not get good decision and outcome. Sometimes its really hard to overcome anger and I think only few people can hide it. Most people show their anger and cannot really control it. But with bible verses, I think it will help a lot.

    • Respect to all but we all get angry now and then. Whether it is a little bit or a lot. First there are various tools that make us angry. It could be something that a child, teenager, friend, or loved one did. Humans are filled with emotions and if we did not have emotions I would think that we all would be robotic. Some may say no I do not get angry but that would be a untrue statement because here is an example. A friend is having a wedding and a certain lady anticipates that she will be the maiden of honor; she finds out that someone else will be. I am pretty sure that this feeling will bring on, not only hurtful feelings but at the same time she will be angry. Most likely hurt will over power the anger but still she will be angry. I face this feeling at times (anger). Not everyday but some times and the society that we live tends to provoke you feeling angry. Another example; someone who has abruptly cut you off in busy traffic or someone who is road raging. We will most likely feel anger because this person might have caused an accident and could have been an accident in which someone could have been killed. This world has gotten worse with so many various issues that we deal with on a daily basis. I find strength with my belief in God and as that saying goes; “Keep my circle small”. I am not a hard person to get along with but find it challenging to join certain circles in life. Believe me when I say that I am not perfect and none of us are but I prefer to stay tranquil and if I do not have this in my life then there is a problem. Anywho! I found this to be an interesting topic. Any responses are greatly appreciated. Have not been on here in a while. Working my butt off. God bless all.

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    SuperD wrote a new post, Who Wants To Be The King And Queen? 8 years ago

    Do you think it’s the contest for the most popular person in the city or town? In fact it is not meant for the most popular or the most beautiful person in the city. Not even the most beautiful person or the h […]

    • What is the money used for? Is it donated to a charitable work?

      • Usually, the generated money is used for the fiesta activities like prizes on different sports activities, buying things needed for decor in the whole community, for snacks during the activities, or the whole amount can be allotted for a certain project in the village like repair of barangay hall or cementing of road.

    • Philippines has many king and queens maybe because it was a part of our tradition, of our cultural heritage, and of our interest that lives on even up to this day of the modern age of technology. As we look back in this past years, philippines has been dominated the beauty pageant around the world with their own unique beauty, to show the world that we are not only beautiful inside and out but we have the eyes to see people who are in want, to bring equality to all, and to inspire people to never give up and stop dreaming, to follow that dreams, and make that dreams into reality.

      • Truly this is part of Philippine tradition. We have been like during the Spanish colonization of our country. Our rich culture and traditions also credited to our colonizers which we still practice until now. Our village fiesta are so enjoyable because of this traditions we have.

    • I have the same question as @Treathyl FOX has. What is the money for? Choosing a king and queen based on how much one collects does not seem to be a justification for that.

      • Yes, I forgot to mention about it. The accumulated money is used for fiesta activities or can also be used to fund certain project in the village, depending on what the village officials had approved.

    • Ha ha, that is true, we are all king and queen to our own way. We are the royalties without the protocol and without the wealth.

    • We call kind of thing beauty contest and name it something like miss or Mr so and so naming them from where they come from. Some of the things you ha e mentioned are similar to what we do back in our country as well They ar3 usually asked questions regarding the place they come from and if the judge’s are happy with their answers then they ar3 crowned with a tiara for the girl with flowers and so on and so for the. Then a celebration follows.there after.

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    jarik posted an update in the group Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 8 years ago

    I like to know if I earn from posting or sharing on social medias, also what earns me more.

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    SuperD wrote a new post, Moral Recovery Program 8 years ago

    So what now, what the Philippine have made hundreds of thousands of alleged drug pusher and drug user voluntarily surrender to the police, what will happen next? What will the government do with them after […]

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    jarik posted an update 8 years ago

    @lovern, Its seem not to be spinning right yet, i need some more guidelines on how to move up here. Thanks

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    The increase rate of corruption in many developing countries in Africa.

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