chalana de zoysa
@chalanaj active 6 years, 9 months ago-
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My warmest congratulations for having that solid tie with your wife and family.You have a very strong relationship.The good thing is you are both educators and if parents are teachers , they are also good fathers and mothers to their children.Cheers!
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First and foremort I have bend my head so low in respect to a great marriage.Your announcement in church of the three important words after 44 years is another milestone. Not yet man,raising children from age zero to above 30 is not a mean achievement. No,making most of your children have their own famililies make you a super dad. Hail to the dad of the year!
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What you have been really making me happy for a person whom I have known in the cyber world is apt to praise honestly. Thank you for that. I know you have a great and terrible experience when you lost a son. Am I not correct? As a dad like me, you have so much concerned for him. In your own humble way, you are also a great dad for your family.
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Wow am so moved with your story of persistence and challenges. In this year’s that we live in I
It’s so unusual to hear that a couple have loved together for 15years and overits usually a maximum of 10 years and that’s it. Am moved and encouraged that marriage a do work for those who want them to work. It takes a lot of courage and determination to go as far as you have. Let me just congratulate you on your 44 years of marriage that’s a milestone. How do you keep up with the vortship part? Do you take her out on weekend nights or still but flowers how do you do it. I would like to have a heart and time to do that for my spouse and grow old together. Maybe you shed some light on the courtship part could be a big lesson for most of us am sure. Thanks for sharing your story and I wish you more loving years together.-
I have a lot of things to share about our love life, our great challenges in life, and our happiness that is indescribable but for God’s term is love. Everyone has their own way of making their life as it should be, that is, for their happiness. Man is here to search for his happiness and it could only be found in God’s humble way. And I have proven it and have found it.
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What else can be more happier than being in love always to the person we always be with. 44 years are already golden to me, that will never doubt the pure love in the hearts.
I know, sometimes, the rocky road is within you but what is important is how you walk through to that path of your marriage life and you have proven how love can conquer all the trials and problems in your marriage. Many families should envy your marriage, but more than that, we should follow your footsteps.
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You are right there were “rocky roads” in our first to two years of marriage. We had said to ourselves that we couldn’t mend it anymore. Our family would seem to be broken due to personal reasons and pride. But we all trust the Lord and He provides what we need and most of all, we learned how to be forgiving and how to accept our own faults and strengthen them.
I am, of course, happy to know that you are going to follow our footsteps. Our only secret is communication among ourselves, communication to our Heavenly Father. If you could do it, I am sure you will reach the happiness what we have had today.
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Yes, you say right that marriage is the second name of mutual understanding between husband and wife. Marriage is also called the of soul compromise. There are many benefits of marriage first you find a life partner for talking day and night. I say woman is a talking bird on earth who sings for husband and children for whole day.
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Continue (or perhaps revive) the courtesies of courtship in your married life. Successful marriages do not just happen they must be developed. Don’t take each other for granted, or the monotony that results will destroy your marriage.
Keep love growing by expressing love for one another or it will die, and you will drift apart. Love and happiness are not found by seeking them for yourself, but rather by giving them to others. So spend as much time as possible doing things together if you would get along well. Learn to greet each other with enthusiasm. Relax, visit, shop, sightsee, eat together. Don’t overlook the little courtesies, encouragements, and affectionate acts.
Surprise each other with little gifts or favors. Try to “outlove” each other. Don’t take more out of marriage than you put into it. Divorce itself is not the greatest destroyer of marriage, but rather, lack of love. Given a chance, love always wins.
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Maybe this is also called bullying. Lots of people think they are the only people who have pride. When their feeling was hurt or affected, they resort to insulting other people.
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It’s too bad that there are people who feel offended when someone talks about Christianity. Why they do that beats me. But the thing is we all share different ideas and different thoughts about life. We only need to be careful with what we say on social media,it could either break us or make us depending on what it is. But if you were insulted because of why you shared that was wrong you were only raising an opinion and that should not make someone become abusive it’s very wrong. Anyway I hope that does not repeat itself again if someone doesn’t like what they read it’s better keeping quiet about it other than giving negative thoughts or replies about it.
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The man did not do good. He must mind his own business. You are totally free to share your views and experiences with us. Insulting others is not an option rather we must learn to encourage others. In my opinion, it would be a better use of our words.
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Courting even after 44 years of marriage is indeed the secret of a happy marriage. I hope many will read your blog. I am sharing it on FaceBook
I do not believe if you say that both are born in the same year, same month and the same date. How can it be?
I do agree wit you. It is the communication that keeps the entire thing in an activity. It makes the process to continue . The more you communicate with each other the more opened the doors of love. This is the greatness of expression that makes the communication great and lively. Mere communication will be dull. It should be spicy and sweet. Everything goes perfectly with a spicy communication and gives an opportunity to open ourselves freely and frankly. It removes all the hurdles in life and makes it a heaven to live in.
What else can be more meaningful in this life but to find the fulfillment of feelings. We loved the love that also loving us. Living with him/her for the rest of our life. Doing the things that make her happy and she is doing the doing that makes you happy. Love is the happiness that can only be felt by our heart when that someone is also loving us.
I am happy to read this kind of happiness.
Wow you’re is an inspiring story. 44years is not little time for anyone. You amaze me that you still court your wife even in marriage tell that to th3 generation of today no one will even want to think of taking your word for it. We are living in times where love has become a game of catch and Chase then release. No one seems to be taking marriage with the seriousness that it so demands. But am just smiling as I read your story it’s challenging to some of us who have not yet jumped into that river of marriage. I have always believed that marriage can be a beautiful thing if understood. We are told that man don’t oftenly tell their wives that they love them orally all the time but it’s shown through actions. So you are just confirming it to me that a man doesn’t have to keep telling a woman that he loves her all the time. You have also talked about communication which is key to keeping aartiage or a relationship going. Nowadays that has become like a nightmare to many couple because oneay feel like that are being bothered with questions, the other may feel like talking too much is not a good thing. But the truth is talking clears out any doubts that one may have about the spouse and it also brings out the real feelings of an individual thanks for sharing your lovely story.