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I walk away becuz if I stay then I know me……..I know my attitude. Am going to come back at u like u coming back towards me. When I feel like things between me and my dude have calmed down then we can talk about it. Other then that if its something really bad then that means that am not gon talk to u period.
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I guess it depends on if its something we really want to do at that time becuz in reality if your in your 40’s and 50’s then that’s really to late to be having kids if your in your 30’s still and your having them then kudos to you. I have babies right now and I had both of them in my 30’s but I have alot of patient. You just got to when to stop and am quiet sure it will be when ur ready. |
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I resemble my mom becuz she always took care of the family and she also took care of us. But my attitude, bad month, very bad temper all came from her. She was very out spoken and will have no problem wit tell in u what is on her mind….jus bold in her own way. She was also smart and very wise. Am thankful that I did have her the time she was here. |
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Yes, I do believe blood is thicker then water but sometimes water is thicker then blood but its only becuz your family can be assholes and treat like u don’t mean anything. I am going thru that phase but I don’t care becuz what don’t kill it’ll make me stronger in da long run. |
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I feel like it depends on the spouse or the wife. In my eyes a husband and wife is suppose to have each others back regardless of what the situation is but don’t get to comfortable wit jus sittin back and doin nothin becuz we as women can only support or men for a certain amount of time becuz we have to take care of the kids becuz am the only one that is supporting the family at the moment. So I feel its OK but we wouldn’t be able to survive like that forever. |
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Yes, people use all kinds of excuses of why they can’t do this or can’t do that but If u put ur mind to it anyone can handle their own. That’s why their is a such think called independent meanin take care of your own and do not worry about anybody else. U can give people advice, you can be there as much as u can but its up to them to either take your advice or try an figure it out on there. I mean you can only do so much.
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Everyday I have to improve myself jus by bein independent. If I don’t be that way I will never learn how life is. I would jus be this lost puppy that never succeeded in life. Then my kids won’t know to defend for their selves and they would always depend on family, friends, men, women, etc.. I mean jus people that don’t care about them. But as long as I live that won’t ever happen becuz am goin to make sure that they learn to work hard becuz life itself is not an easy task. |
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I have had a family member betrayed me becuz they had sex wit my baby daddy and tried to make it seem like everything was cool between when it wasn’t. So I don’t talk to that family member any more. Then another one of my relatives tried to talk to my fiancée at that particular time and I stopped talking to them as well to. So am done betrayed by friends and family. All I do now is jus stay to myself and don’t even fool wit my family. The way I dealt wit betrayal is to seek my justice by lettin god handle my light weight. |
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Every relationship has its equal share but I wouldn’t want to be compared to any female becuz I would be to busy focusing on my issues that am having wit my own self but I know when I get that relationship wit him he will be happy focused on the fact that hopefully we can be as one wit our life together and enjoy our kids etc….. |
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Yes, there are some wrong doing but the same time we need to stand up and say no more that’s enough. We can’t keep sacrificing and be in stuck wit nothin. If we continue to show we will do anything to keep or have him then him, family, friends anybody that feels u will come to there rescue…..each and every time they need u they gon call, try to run into you….everything.
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I believe in love at first sight, command law marriage, etc. These things I hope to be one day. I feel it doesn’t take long, it depends on how well we match each other. Like we might find alot of things we have in common, the chemistry might be strong. I mean there are so many that comes to mind but at the end of the day it depends on that man and that woman. |
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Am to scared to date military or law anything that has something to do wit the law I can’t. Its so much they can get away wit that I wouldn’t trust it. |
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Its hard period because at times we grow so much love for that person that we have no at times but to deal hoping and praying that this person would change there ways, how they live, or their lifestyle. But am not going to sit here and put all the blame on us. You men are sometimes very cruel to us when all we do is make sure that u have the things that your suppose to have far as us be in the back bone but we’re sometimes token for granted all becuz we are taking care of our men and children but work hard at the same time. But its only when the cheating, the lying, disrespect, stayin out late..etc. When all that takes a toll on us we say screw it enoughs enough…..we done |
