Women tern to stick to their unfaithful partners on the following bases 1. when the partner is good in bed. women do not like to let go of guys who are very good in bed and who make them feel like a woman in bed.
2. Women find it difficult to leave their guys when they are the source of their livelihood. Without the guys financial support, they can not survive on their own so they have to stay by their partners no matter how much they get hurt.
3. Women will stay by their guys no matter how many times they cheat on them if the guys are celebraties and well known memebers of society. this are some of the few ideas i can share on why women still stay with their unfaithful partners.

In some cases, which I should really write an article about, women are in the relationship for other reasons besides love. Money, position, power. In other cases, the woman might have her own life which is hidden by his unfaithfulness.

I can tell a fantastic event in which a particular man who had a lot of lovers and was unbelievably unfaithful was ‘never caught’ by his wife who had a long lasting and loving relationship with the man who worked on the property.

It is but natural to admire beauty. Thus, if my husband would look at a beautiful girl, it’s okay with me as long as I know that it is just an admiration. I know fully well, that it is me he loves and that’s what is important.

As a wife, you can feel if your husband doesn’t love you. And when that happens you should make ways to regain the lost love. But if despite making that effort and still your husband’s love cannot be regained, then it is the time to separate from him and file annulment or divorce to free each other already.

What’s the use of being in a relationship when one doesn’t love the other already .

Actually this is mentally stroma found in greedy people not only in men but also in women.

I agree with you that this kind of behaviour is found in women also. You are saying true that the world is modern and women are pursuing their dreams and have an attitude of go get what you want. They are enjoying the freedom given by changing society, independence and may be a few of them are not so faithful to their partners but most of the women are more faithful and responsible than men.

It is never good if a partner is unfaithful or abusive and even ogling other men/women is bad in my book. The sad thing is that many people stay in an abusive relationship because they are so sure things will change. Most people try to leave three or four times before they do so. I think the fear of being unattached and alone and coping financially all play their part.

Me personally I would kick him to the curb. I think it probably differs for each women, they could be financially reliable on there partner so they have no where else to go, or they could believe the person will change or they could be to scared to leave them due to emotional and physical abuse.

Love, Love, Love!!
Love they say is the most powerful spell, most of the time this love keeps the victim spell bound, i call this blind love.

Some times, the women think this guy who is hurting them is irreplaceble, so they can’t imagine leaving.

But i don’t like relationships where a partner is unfaithful, if you are tired of a relationship. . you can call it off instead of hurting the feelings and emotion of the other spouse pretending you love her/him.

Some people are just to afraid to be alone in life so they decide to stay with their partners even if they are not interested or are being unfaithful.

These are the people with low self of steem and they think that they aren’t good enough to find someone better in life.

Sometimes these people also don’t have good friends to get them to see what they really need. They don’t have those people that tell them that they deserve better.

It is natural for most women to be so patient and forgiving though they had been abused physically or mentally by their partners. This makes them vulnerable to such maltreatment.

women like to move with gentlemen and sometimes it goes wrong. It does not mean they are not clever to choose their partners or friends. They believe mostly unlike male who will not mingle whole heartedly

Your question is multi-dimensional in nature. It is true that it hurts to see a behaviour which is not common. But the solution to it does not lie in blaming a person and sympathising with the helplessness of the other person. If we are really concerned the problem has to be seen in true perspective…and its solution lies in understanding and appreciating the various aspects of the same.

First, whether is it really a serious issue if a person gets attracted to the other sex more than normal. Or worse, has a tendency to get embroiled in shoddy acts. There are two parts to it again.
– Such attraction is a part of animal instinct. It is the role of the ego or the superego to channelize it into socially acceptable behaviour. Most of people succeed in this channelization. But this person is not. So the issue is not lying in his attraction but in his channelization which means the solution has to be found out in some other deeper psychological malaise hidden deep within his self. A prolonged and able counselling should be of help, provided the other person consents and co-operates. Otherwise too, the affected person may seek counselling to tackle the issue at the acceptance level.
– If the issue is not that intense and his ‘unfaithfulness’ is only a matter of perception. Say his seeing attractive members of opposite sex may actually turn up the hornet’s nest in the mind of the spouse. Many a times this is called possessiveness. In these situations, even normal behaviour of the person is perceived as dangerous to the spouse. This is another check, in that case it is the spouse’ insecurity which needs urgent addressing.

Secondly, if this issue is really serious, then what are the solutions?
– Whether it can be accepted and walked along with? If this can be done, then nothing like it, then focus on long-term healing by trying to get into the deeper problems by counselling or other means.
– If not then, go by laissez faire policy and let differences persist but instead of immersing oneself in the blues of betrayal, look at oneself with respect and pick up your strand of things which interest you. If the person has some genuine reasons for this behaviour, say overbearing spouse, a brief lull and allowance to the other person might well give the other person the much required personal space to sort things out by his own self. Of course, this may not mend that way if the other person’s ‘faithlessness’ is occuring out of some deeper problem in his psyche. In such a situation, the spouse must plan a life factoring in that allowance. It is well said, “When you cannot solve a problem, accept it.” The pains reduce to manageable levels. After all, it is not the problem which is the devil but the associated pain of non-acceptance which actually does the actual damage to oneself and also the relationship.
– Finally, if your conditioning prevents you from even accepting it, then the only solution remains is parting ways. Though psychologically speaking this is not a solution at all, but there is no other alternative if due to lack of understanding the intricacies, one cannot either solve the problem or can accept it.

(Sorry for the long post. In fact, this merited a full blog posting….haha)

Your question is multi-dimensional in nature. It is true that it hurts to see a behaviour which is not common. But the solution to it does not lie in blaming a person and sympathising with the helplessness of the other person. If we are really concerned the problem has to be seen in true perspective…and its solution lies in understanding and appreciating the various aspects of the same.

First, whether is it really a serious issue if a person gets attracted to the other sex more than normal. Or worse, has a tendency to get embroiled in shoddy acts. There are two parts to it again.
– Such attraction is a part of animal instinct. It is the role of the ego or the superego to channelize it into socially acceptable behaviour. Most of people succeed in this channelization. But this person is not. So the issue is not lying in his attraction but in his channelization which means the solution has to be found out in some other deeper psychological malaise hidden deep within his self. A prolonged and able counselling should be of help, provided the other person consents and co-operates. Otherwise too, the affected person may seek counselling to tackle the issue at the acceptance level.
– If the issue is not that intense and his ‘unfaithfulness’ is only a matter of perception. Say his seeing attractive members of opposite sex may actually turn up the hornet’s nest in the mind of the spouse. Many a times this is called possessiveness. In these situations, even normal behaviour of the person is perceived as dangerous to the spouse. This is another check, in that case it is the spouse’ insecurity which needs urgent addressing.

Secondly, if this issue is really serious, then what are the solutions?
– Whether it can be accepted and walked along with? If this can be done, then nothing like it, then focus on long-term healing by trying to get into the deeper problems by counselling or other means.
– If not then, go by laissez faire policy and let differences persist but instead of immersing oneself in the blues of betrayal, look at oneself with respect and pick up your strand of things which interest you. If the person has some genuine reasons for this behaviour, say overbearing spouse, a brief lull and allowance to the other person might well give the other person the much required personal space to sort things out by his own self. Of course, this may not mend that way if the other person’s ‘faithlessness’ is occuring out of some deeper problem in his psyche. In such a situation, the spouse must plan a life factoring in that allowance. It is well said, “When you cannot solve a problem, accept it.” The pains reduce to manageable levels. After all, it is not the problem which is the devil but the associated pain of non-acceptance which actually does the actual damage to oneself and also the relationship.
– Finally, if your conditioning prevents you from even accepting it, then the only solution remains is parting ways. Though psychologically speaking this is not a solution at all, but there is no other alternative if due to lack of understanding the intricacies, one cannot either solve the problem or can accept it.

(Sorry for the long post. In fact, this could be a full blog posting….haha)

There are so many different variables, it’s hard to say. I think that mostly, people who stick to their unfaithful partners, are simply lonely themselves.

Or, perhaps, their faith doesn’t allow them to divorce.

First thing its not only men who are backstabbers all the time and nor would I say that only women do it. I have witnessed both the genders cheating each other and that to in many cases. Now as far leaving the partner for both men and women its obviously wont be so easy. It would be hard to explain as you really need to be in the shoes of the person who is facing it. Because people speak both the ways if someone leaves the partner they will say he or she dint even give their relation a try and the other way round would be why don’t you leave him or her. But tell me one thing what will that person do after he has left his partner you know how the world looks at women who have left their partners. Life is not so easy for women without a man besides her side. With all due respect I am not disrespecting women from any point, but its really not easy to say that leave the partner and settle down elsewhere. And one more thing no matter how strong men might be but they always need a women for their mental support and that might be the reason they also might leave their partners who might be cheating them.

i dont know who stick to her partner if not faithful, they are few who do that women now are educated and know that there are faithful good men so they dot really sstick to unfaithful partner, and if they used to , now im sure they dont, who needs unfaithful partner? that is the base thing in partnership to be faithful, what is left is nothing if your patner is unfaithful, even if you have kids being without partner like that is much better and you may find a good one in the future, even though with out him life is sure better nd more beaiutiful, faithful partners make life even more good

It is too subjective. Women who are too inferior and infirm with their emotion have that tendency not to go against their will besides it is edified by their love for their husband. Men by nature is enemy to God. If they only know that, they would strive to overcome that tendency. Both men and women have their emotional frailties until they make them for good use everything would be okay.

By the way going back to the infidelity tendency of a man and the martyrdom of a woman. I said earlier that it is subjective for it all depends on both of them. Man cheats his wife because he has submitted himself to the temptation of another woman who is better than his wife. Or she was tempted for his wealth and personality. And it is the other way around too.

The only solution and I have found it is LOVE. It is the true manifestation of love is. Man or woman won’t cheat each other when their love is beyond measure, if not if they do their procreation and spiritual responsibility and accountability before the eyes of God. Pointing fingers won’t solve the infidelity among men and women. Loving them, telling them what is right and what is wrong according to the will of God suffice the best solution to that problem.

It seems difficult but it is possible. So be it.