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So is it only a dream or do you intend to fulfill your aspirations?
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too bad for me my dream will always be a dream. It will never come true. Why? Because I am old now, I have fiver children to support their studies. They are the most important thing in my life now. Their ambitions is what I am working for. Its not my own ambition now. I have been there and I think the dreams of my children is what I need to fulfill.
Its just sad that some dreams don’t come to reality. Many factors and reasons why you did not achieve that. One could the be hardship in life. If only we are rich or have money to support my ambition, it would have been easy. I am not complaining.
Anyway, I may not be chef but I am a cook, good cook in our house.
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do you think that still there is something wrong in aspiring to be a Chef? I do not think so. Even becoming a Top Chef is not as easy as 123. It needs a continuous hard work , determination, and devotion towards the work.
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It should have been great if I’m a career oriented person and my emotional quotient is lower than my IQ, its so happen that I’m a family man who can do cooking for my family and just helping the children to find their ambition. Anyway, maybe one of my child can be a great chef someday.
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Before I got married and started having children, I had planned to go to law school. I set that ambition aside and like you, worked on my family instead. I’m totally OK with that. But I will say that I met a lady who went back to law school at age 53, after she had raised her children. I know of a successful missionary effort that was started by a man in his 70s. So if you have your life, health and strength, and a desire to pursue your dream, then do it! If you no longer have the will or ambition, that’s fine too! As long you don’t spend the rest of your life lamenting that you never had the opportunity and did not fulfill your dream. That would be tragic!
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There is nothing wrong to become a cook. After all, even after earning millions and billions one will aspire for a day meal only. If that is not there with all flavors and rich taste what is the use of money. we know our place is already reserved in the graveyard. It may be some six feet or 7 ft and not more than that. Money will not come. If the money we do have can not give us food as per our taste and flavor what is that we are going to do with that money. Becoming Chef is not an easy task. He prepares the food with a lot of devotion to please his guests and family members. This is his selfless desire that food prepared by him should have good appreciation from all who eat it. Is there anything wrong in that? He is the first man to have the least desire
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Thank you very much for this respond. There was nothing wrong, only the timing was wrong. If it was given at the right time, I could have been the chef beside Ramsay.
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Looks like we share a dream the only difference is that my dream can earlier on and I did not pursue it for reasons best known to me. But I can say I achieved that dream only in a different way without the white cap and the white chef uniform. The only thing that I have with me is an apron. I also don’t have a large kitchen like the ones we watch on tv. That dream was realized in my own kitchen I am my own chef, because I cook for myself and my family. Am actually called chef by my family, friends collegues you name it. Whenever am home hosting visitors am usually the one doing all the preparations in the kitchen and when I get out of there everyone is always appreciative for the food that I prepared I have never disappointed. I started learning how to cook at a very tender age and that brought about a lot of interest for me in matters kitchen. No wonder I always have an interest in recipes and anything to do with food and healthy eating. I guess I can say I have a passion. So keep your dream alive you never know it could come to pass don’t give up wanting to know how to cook and bake that’s how people grow talents.
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Yes, as a I have said the passion keep burning in my heart. And though I have no diploma and certificate on that dream uniform, I am like you wearing an apron to have the best cook for my family. Its been my way of fulfilling my passion and though sometimes I am bit disappointed of what I have become but never really regret about who I am now.
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Your family is lucky in that you fulfil your dream by cooking for them. What a beautiful situation. May your tribe increase.
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Okay first and foremost it’s not only women who talk badly about their men even men do talk badly about their women. Women may be gossipers yes but men are just as bad in fact worse. Okay when you find a woman talking badly about her man she’s usually at a point of no return. We all know that women are caring beings and that they like peace and bring people together in harmony.But if you disrespect a woman and show her that she’s not worth your time you are giving her more reason to go out there and say bad things about you. Now if we talk about the men, if a man has a side dish (mistress) he will do anything or say anything to make her happy and make her feel like shes loved right? And this will include telling his girlfriend how the wife is a bad cook, she doesnt know how to dress and stuff like all in the name of trying to make a woman feel special now if that is not bad mouthing i dont know what it is. In most cases what men say is always lies but what women say always tirns out to be true.
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@anitah, i agree with your argument but you have seen it from only the angle where the man has a mistress. In a case like this she speaks bad of her to another woman and making a fellow woman more important. But i am speaking generally and i didn’t mean men don’t do this but you will rearly see a man talk bad of the woman he is marriade to and they still live together unless it has gotten to the point of no return like you said. I am an example, many years ago i was involved in a relationship, and i made family and friends see her as the best but after about 3 years i could take forgiving over and over for cheating, so when she went with thesame man i saved her from 3 years before i was devasted and felt used but she came back after 3 months because he dumped her again but i didnt accept her back this time. Family didn’t know why so they were against me, after much pressure i had to say why i can’t take her back and all she did, she was hated immediately. But then i was sure it was the end before i said het fouls. Many men do this but women sits amongst eachother and speak bad for their men, what they don’t do right, how they are not responsible but more about their misunderstanding at home and fights. This bring look down on their marriages. But sure between these women they don’t see these about eachother that same like they see their friends man, so she sees theirs also. But it a calamity when it breaks open especially from a quarrel between 2 friends and they insult eachothers men….. Woooo. There you hear them speak what they have gossiped about their men. This write up is to creat the awareness for women to understand that the other woman sees her, her marriage and her man just as she sees hers also and to stop external discussion of relationship conflicts, better they are settled at home or by a psychologist. Otherwise the relationships can hit the block because of this attitude.
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Depending on how superstitious you are, very often not to put a bad eye on someone you say bad things about them. You don’t brag you don’t commend. You tear down. In this way, you protect from the evil eye.
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This is why it is so interesting to read others’ post because you are being educated and learned of other peoples’ culture, belief and traditions. Just like now, I know now what is ablution. The cleansing regimen of Muslim. In Catholic, there is also the washing of feet but not the entire body and face.
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Wow this is unbelievable to know just how much muslims take to clean up. The amount of time that they take to clean up is amazing if we were all this dedicated on religion I think this world would be a beautiful place to be. We are always told to clean ourselves up wash our hands thoroughly before eating. Yet there are people who are doing this religiously every single day I must applaud our Muslim brothers and sisters. You have put it out so well for each place that we clean there you have mentioned him benefits of washing this is a good challenge for all of us.
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Ablution is one of the most important activity before every sacred work. Before saying Namaz every Muslims get ablution so that he or she get complete cleanliness. It is told by God through the Holy Prophet in all nations on earth.
The Main Function of Ablution (Wazu)
Every body on earth must know that the man who keeps link with God remains save and enjoys God countless blessings on earth and will enjoy in Heaven. When we intent to clean her self or himself it links man;s soul to God and thus man feels pleasure spiritually and feels freshness in his whole body organs.
When we make sins our link with breaks anon and God does not listen to our cries is a solid fact read the Holy Quran or the Holy Bible. Bit people consider the holy books just fiction and the tales of days gone bye.
Every holy soul anon links her being to God’s being sitting on earth and if any prays to God the prayer is answered anon and its result the prayer maker eels on earth.
Therefore we must remain holy 24 hours because we all are born to die not to live longer here. Our forefathers have gone and their forefathers have gone and their forefathers have gone….
None remains here for ever but immortal is the name of God and other all are mortal.
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Yes, i agree that President Rodrigo Duterte is much responsible for his actions than the past corruptive administration who did nothing for the growth, development, employment in our country.
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The economy went well during the administration of President Aquino. It cannot be denied because of the good exchange rate of peso to dollar that is just playing to P45 per dollar and yet now its already P48 to one dollar. Also the stocks market are on the diving view.
President Duterte is responsible to maintain this good marked in economy and not destroy it buy his irresponsible comment to the community and to international community.
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If not Duterte the president of the Philippines will have all the people converted to drug users/ traffickers and even digs might forcibly take drugs.There are million addicts on Ph. Celebrities are predicted 50 might take drugs, my goodness. This the figure assumption from the PDEA.There are so many bad images that are happening now through few senators. RIP to Senator Meriam Defensor Santiago. The country has lost a dedicated lady senator.
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That is true but the government is not just dealing with the drug users and pushers, government is also making the economy and strong and secured which the President seem lapsing to this duty. Let he fight the drug problem but let him not forget the economy. We are having good trading and business but seems this might lost if not given importance.
Anyway, there is no perfect country, there will always be a crime and such there will always be a drug pusher (remember in Davao during his term it was not fully eliminated) but make sure his countrymen have food to eat.
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Everyone of them has the motive of expressing that misinterpreted word, “sorry”. It is easy to say sorry, but it is difficult to amend it especially when it involves the security and the life of a person. The worst is the mistake made by President Duterte. Why? If that certain public official is being liquidated for the gross mistake, could his life be restored? In the case, of President Aquino, he didn’t say anything for he has the reason. By so doing it, he is like admitting that the security of the foreigners in the country couldn’t be protected. It’s better to keep quite than to commit mistake or being misinterpreted. In the case of President Arroyo, it is different, very different.
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In such cases “sorry” seems to be the hardest word to say from former President Noynoy Aquino and yet seems to be the easiest word to say from President Rody Duterte. That is true, this can be utter and not be utter depending on the situation But this could also be depends on the leadership and feelings of such person.
In my case, I can say sorry if I really commit the mistake. But sometimes, even its not my fault, I still say sorry, especially when it comes to my wife, he he. To avoid more circumstances.
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Of all the three, in my opinion, it is Mr. Duterte who is more interested in the welfare and health of his people. He is taking hard action against those who are more responsible in spoiling the bright future of the youth on whom the foundation of the country lies. Even if he does not say sorry it will be acceptable to the people who are really interested in the welfare and development of their country. How the Governor got the list of names, is the question. Did he visited each and every house and inquired about the people? If not, how can he come out with a list of names showing them in a matrix.? This is what actually happens when one is taking and toiling for the development of the country. Generally, in such situations people who are the powerful approach the Governor and got their names included in the list. When the President is making such a hard work why the persons like Governor should meddle in the affairs and spoil the situation which is coming into the right track. Mr. Duterte should not care the Governor and should go ahead with the plan. Mr. Arrayo is already dubbed as inefficient. He never cared for the people and never took any action against the pusher. Better we do not talk about him. Mr. Aquino never said sorry. The security of foreign nationals was at stake means that he too failed miserably in arresting corruption. No need to talk about this man. His not saying sorry does not make him a great man.
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I think each one of them have the reason to that word sorry: for Mr. Duterte because he accepted there was a mistake in the name of the former governor of Pangasinan, that means a lapses on his part. How about those people killed already in the drug war and was just mistaken to be a drug pusher.
Mr. Aquino as the hardest man because he never said sorry because of foreign relation. But I love your words, he never become great man of not saying sorry.
Miss Arroyo said sorry because of her mistake. Its an acceptance of her mistake and asking understanding from the people.
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Everyone is deserved to bear the fruits of our honest labor. We should be grateful with this kind of people to work for us with so much passion and dedication they never even tired of working for the best that they can be.
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That is right. Their services to the people are priceless, they devout they time and effort and sometimes own resources just to serve the people their their outmost.
We will all come to this stage of life. We will become a 30 year, 35 year and 40 year loyalty award. This might be a passion in staying for such a long time in one work and doing it for the rest of his life. Life is really amazing.
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That is life… for no work, no money,for no money so hard to buy our daily needs. Our daily needs are very vital.Love flies in the window the old folks said of stomach is empty, hahahaaha.
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Time really flies, and we will realize that when we are already old, when we retire from our work and all we do in our home is to sit in the chair while waiting for another sunset of the day.
Its hard, we value the value of time when we are already old. During our younger years, we devout our time in working and serving the people. Now that we are old, we are longing for it but seems they don’t remember our sincerity in our past work. Loyalty awards is such a great memory by then.
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Everyone who works in public service is legible for being paud their servi e money after servinv the government for years on end. I just don’t like it when people work for years and when the time comes for them to retire they are not paid their dividend that’s very bad
If a worker has worked diligently for more than 20 years they derse to be rewarded handsomely for their dedication, because it is not easy to sit in the same seat be in the and building seeing him same office setting every passing day for 20 years the leave there empty handed that’s inhuman.-
Sometimes I’m thinking why they don’t lower the retirable year for a worker so that they can enjoy the prime of their golden years. Lets say retiring at 50 years old or 55 years old. At least they can still enjoy their life by having some good vacations in other countries of eating good food. they have pensions to spend and that is really good thing to do rather than just by buying it medicines for their health.
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