The feeling is bad seeing your ex with another woman, oh life, we have to accept the destiny bestowed by us, though that said destiny many not be the supposed destiny should we only be wise enough to choose the right man, the supposed life with joys to be with in our life ,It should be the right one so both could withstand hardships and trials without turning back to escape any crucial experiences. Love should always be the strongest weapon to conquer whatever will happen along the way.

Yes, can’t agree more, totally will feel bad when seeing the ex with another one. Anyway, we should move on no matter how’s and who betrayed who at first.
Once left it behind, everything would be fine, and do remember never turning back..no point and will further harm each other.
Love ourselves is the strongest weapon, for move on for better future. We deserve it, for sure!

Ceci Chow , Thank you for your nice thought on this post, yes true, we have to move on and leave the past behind until it rots to the wilderness of broken dreams.We have ourselves to take good care of for if we are sick of the past, it is hard to cure.Acceptance is the best cure of all the had happened in the past. Thank you so much .

@Tiada, thanks, very nice thoughts abut this poem very much reiterated.Life is always that way and sometimes hard to understand life, yet we have ti fight everything for we are part of this world as inheritance of God’s creation.

Addendum: I am so happy to tell you that a reunion is a union of happy feelings .It is where we can see big smiles and loud laughters of our relatives. It brings back good relationship.Through it, we would know some strengths and weaknesses of the family members and relatives. It is also the right time knowing our relatives never seen before.Once having this, you always aspire to have it next time.There is a great advantage having a family reunion for it time of joys and sorrows, our loved ones will always share their supports.You will always feel you are not alone.We need to get closer to each other in our family or in a great clan. Happy are those doing this yearly. In our family, we too have this once a year with 600 members , family members and relatives.

Addendum : Let us be responsible for our actions in the net sites this time. Anyway, we already have some hints how to detect scam.Before a scam was not detected, there were so numerous victims. In fact, me too, encountered many scams on line. There were 6 foreigners wanting to scam me hahahaha, I told them you can never scam me, you die fist. At first they lured us and they seem real. If we do not know from others experience of scam, most probably, many would have been victimized by the thieves on line. There are so many of them this time especially i a dating site and other sites that assure everyone business genuine and how do we know they are not genuine? When they ask money like membership fee, free trial with a fee? Nonsense business then, that is only a mere fabrication of the fervid imagination of the scammers on line we have to get rid off.

Indeed technology made each and everyone be addicted to it. Most people now, can’t seem to live without internet even fr a day. It has become their bloodline, so much so that they have more time being on internet than conversing with their love ones.
People should see to it that these social media , online earning site and other things done through te internet shouldn’t hinder the quality time each one shoud be having with ter family.

Good article. I can see how technology can be a blessing or a curse. We have a great tool that is available to us in many ways but wise use of it is the key. Another side of technology that I wanted to mention is the ability to work from home. Many companies are hiring people to do work at home. I, personally, work from home. It has it’s pros and cons. For a person to work at home, discipline is a strong factor because the comforts of home can distract anyone. Yes, Thank God for technology but count the cost in the long run. Thanks for sharing.

@Dina, yes true, there are so many addicts of technology through the access of gadgets like netbooks, cellular phones, computers, lap tops, plus those that access us like Twitter, Viber, Skype, Instagram, Facebook, Line and more that makes life interesting and promoting for we always feel happy seeing and connecting with our relatives, friends and the supposed friends abroad.There is no boring moment when we are in Facebook. We know what is happening to our loved ones who are working in other countries. Media sites are so useful and helpful others never experience because they still like the backward life and never aspire to learn .

@Caleb, Hi? It is a pleasure meeting you here and sharing your valuable time to share your very nice comment. I really appreciate it. Yes, very well said, technology helps many earn some at home through on line work at home.It is also true that our family members are not sometimes felt their presence because we focus on our work on line.Let us only spend some hours for our family is the first priority, Somehow, the need to earn extra is useful to us because there is always something we can turn to in time of need.Though the earning may not be big, but at least, it is considered a hard earned money worth to spend wisely too.

Thanks for dropping by very much appreciated.

Love all the Jackie Chan movies, he is very dedicated and honest actor. Seems ur picture has gone upside down

So many got sick of love and I am one among them.Right love is hard to find, yet love remains beautiful and even worth to die for only those stupid hehehe.Why? It is simply because many committed a suicide because of love. They cannot control their sorrows and loneliness caused by their lost love and dream. yes, it is not easy to feel the betrayal. It seeks like killing you instantly. You even want to kill just to have your rage find remedy to see the person who cheated you perished and never lie to you again. There are so many instances lover kills his love, that is why many agree , and I, too agree that : LOVE KILLS.

Love is the answer

Yes, true it is love itself to heal man’s misery. Love inspires one’s heart and it gives us reason to wake up for the next day.Love gives long tolerance , but when it is fed up, it will fly away forever and never come back. Love is the greatest feeling of all the feelings human has. There is no room for sadness when we are in love, but when love betrays, its impact almost kill the self and willing to fight for revenge,that is why love is labeled as killer to man hehehe.Those who like to kill themselves because of love are cowards. They should give themselves to love again though not so instantly but later in a year to distance from the broken dream and heart.

I agree with the author when she concludes we must find love back again and heal from every pain we shall have had in the past.

Love is not bad at all, on the contrary, love is the best thing on Earth that is worth living for! Sometimes we get hurt, but not because of love itself, but because of our own choices and love has nothing to do with it. Love is there to guide and inspire, and unite the world in only one breathe and heart beat!

Thanks for the blog Cely! That was wonderful!

@Manoel Fernández Neto ,Hi? Thank you so cu for your nice comment,very much appreciated. Yes, love is not at fault for man’s failure of love.It is destiny itself or choice itself for love is what we make it to happen. There are those serious in love , giving all their trust never thinking about life that may break the feeling and if not ready because f too much trust, then tears and pain will happen.It is man himself that makes love ugly or not.

At least I have this chance to voice out some experiences I meet every day in my life. there are so many times I meet people texting and driving, texting and reading, texting and eating, and texting and watching TV unmindful of the call of someone.In the classroom for example in the university were I teach. I keep of telling my students whoever is caught will be charged 20 pints deduction, Despite this, still they text and have their hands inside their bag hahaha, so stupid people, That is why every meeting short quiz to remedy the problem. There are also many students in our campus doing selfies and they never afraid to do selfie even at the top of the mountain, What can we call to them? Stupid and stubborn , right. So the youths now are the products of the technology and sooner or later many bad things would happen to them like health problems and mental
problems.

@Dina, hahahahaha I am laughing here, yeah you are right those who always take selfie think that they are beautiful. I noticed that those who take selfies are women not men except for gays hehehe. It will be awkward to see a boy for exam taking a selfie of himself,LOL.

Love is so beautiful yet others ignore it. They just want to experience love without feeling it in their heart.they just have it felt that way just for the sake off calling having in a relationship, but in reality no feeling called love. That is one reason to f]be hurt when yours is true and the opposite is fake. It is hard to detect if the feeling of your love is real or fake. there are so many great pretenders in the world, they just want to abuse your kind and honest ways. Never allow them to come into your life. Destroy that feeling if sense the love of the opposite is fake in the earliest time.

Love conquers all.If you found your real love,Embrace and never let go.True love is hard to find.In this generation,People take advantage to ones weaknesses. They often come and go.So if you have a good and strong relationship today.Do something to keep it working and never give up.
Find more ways how to deal with the ups and downs,Sit back and talk to each other sometimes.This way you will find your self growing old together till the end.

Kath , Hi? This poem is for someone else not from my own experience. I just wonder why he cannot forget hie past. All the things he has all in color blues. I told him why are you that way all in blue. Never be blue, cheer up, Do not look back, look at yourself. You are alive and having life you have to exhaust for life is too short you to be wasted by feeling life miserable. Yes, true, we cannot trust anyone as true to his / her feeling. Lucky are those whose loves of life are genuine.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings, very much appreciated.