Yes I know although I was not rejected directly. However, I am thankful for her indirect refusal/rejection because that gave me chance to meet my present wife who is as beautiful and even more intelligent. I feel it is kind of blessing in disguise. She is still my friend and unmarried even after decades have past after that incident.

Yes i have been there too where a guy decided to leave me for another woman, reason being I was not ready to fulfil his needs. To me i felt that was a blessing in disguise because the minute he left I was free like a bird, I didn’t have to answer to him, and that felt so relieving. I always say if something is someone is meant for you let them free if it’s not yours they won’t come back but if it’s yours it will come back. Never hold onto something, it will bring you a lot of pain and frustration.

Rejections come in different forms not necessarily by a partner. The present generation is noted for rejecting those who are of no use to them any more.

As the cliche goes, always expect the worst. Rejection is a part of growing up for us to be wiser in life circumstances. We cannot please everybody but do things for our own growth and maturity. Sometimes looking for someone to care for us is really hard to find but with constant prayer and guidance from God i know sooner or later you’ll find that perfect one that was intended for you alone.

There are nipa huts being sold in our community,the prize is P10,000. its so happen we are only seeing them in the backyard.