December 5, 2016 at 4:24 pm

I cannot forget this question raised to us in the classroom by our teacher in Philosophy and Ethics.At first all answers were negative. I told the teacher to give his students some moments to think and ponder about this topic. How come immoral made legal. After some minutes everyone seemed ready to share our stand. It was a very exciting class for our teacher was a lawyer, so nice, charming , brilliant and so handsome hehehe. Human as I am I cannot avoid to have a crush on my teacher single at that time, and I was a teenager , erratic and unpredictable hehehe. So , there was one sexy classmate who shared her answer this way. She said” Sir, will it be immoral to fall in love to a teacher and will this immorality e made legal hahahaha! What a happy moment and everyone laughed aloud that my teacher turned pale hahaha. My classmate was sexy and so beautiful and she told me before that discussion that she had a crush on our teacher.She was so brave in sharing her feeling to the teacher implicitly. The teacher answered No, it is not immoral for that liking has no physical contact,LOL.

Then it was my turned to share. Our teacher called me to stand in front. I was so afraid.I thought I had done something immoral hehehe,No, he just wanted me to answer him in front of the whole class, and they all cheered at me,LOL.

Well, I said, there are instances when we  consider an act of man immoral , but legal. When we say immoral, it is against the law of the land and God, therefore punishable by law.Whereas, when we say immoral, yet legal this means to say, that the society accepted it for there is concrete reason.One concrete is, the wife suffered ectopic pregnancy and she needs to submit to the recommendation of the doctor to abort the baby.Though abortion is immoral and illegal, but in the eyes of the society and the law of the land, it is legal for what is saved is mother’s wife.

This kind of pregnancy creates pain to the mother’s lower art, so no other choice but to abort the fetus that is few weeks old. She will not be punished by law.

Wow, my grade at the end of the term is flat 1.0. What a life during college I cannot forget. I had lots of fun with friends and teachers.

What about you, what can you share about this issue? Thanks for reading  my friends.

December 6, 2016 at 8:29 am

That’s a funny story of yours. I do think there is nothing wrong to physically attract to a teacher. When I was still teaching in a classroom setting, I humbly say that some of my students got a crush on me.lol Eventually, I had a relationship with my former students but I waited for her to finish the said short term course. I did this for the sake of decency.

One thing that makes me feel so disturbed, when the Roman Catholic church is allowing the married to couple be separated. At first, I was so surprised that it was being implemented. Since birth, the Roman Catholic people had been inculcated into their mind that if being married it should be forever. But now, things had changed. My granny is freaking out about this fact. She is really a devoted in our religion.

December 6, 2016 at 5:13 pm

@Shavkat, I like to write short stories, so I just based my short story writing to my college life experience hehehe.Yes, somewhat funny hehehe for that class was so noisy and funny too because our teacher was so handsome.

By the way, I am so amused about the love of your life your former student hehehe.That is norm al friend.Me too, I had a relationship with a student during my first teaching in college. I cannot avoid my feeling.I was 5 years older than him, but he told me that age does not matter to him for age is just a figure. I do not know why I was madly in love of him. He can sing well.He was the campus orator and he hired me as his trainer despite I am a Math and Physics teacher.He won first time as best orator and received an award cash and trophy.

During college I also won oratorical contests representing the Math and Physics department.I cannot forget my happy memories during college.

Congrats friend to have found the love of your life, whew!!

December 6, 2016 at 5:23 pm

Let us not be carried anyway by our emotion. We have to weigh things side by side to avoid shame and regret. Also, it is not easy to carry the blame our family may keep on saying to a wrong doing done in the past. Sometimes those immoral acts are what most people like to plunge. What they are after is their happiness, their sexual desire without thinking about their family especially the better half and young children. Plus, there is no wrong doing that be kept forever for there is no forever, lol.

There are many immoral acts  yet made legal on the eyes of God and laws on land. Plus we have to remember that our conscience  is the ultimate norm of morality. Yes, our conscience, no  matter how we cover our face and close our eyes, our conscience is implanted in our brain, thus, it will remain there as long as we live.

Let us always be wise. Let us not allow temptation to ruin our family, to ruin marriage, to ruin everything.Once commit a mistake, it be forever in the minds of the people that once a cheater remains a cheater.

Let us all live in the moral and legal way.

December 6, 2016 at 7:24 pm

@lovern My love story is zero.lol It was a flashback from the past.I don’t want to find someone at this point in time.Things are not in the right constellation. lolI would rather be single for now.I don’t want to feel the excruciating pain and no need to overload my heart.

December 7, 2016 at 6:41 pm

@Shavkat, aw, hahaha, I thought the one you told who is still on schooling will be your future wife. My advise to you friend is find someone, marry and multiply, LOL. Life is lonely if alone. There is something our life needs while still on earth. Though I have a foreigner partner, but so sad, he is not anymore okay due to his Parkinson’s disease with complications.

Well anyway, it is so true that life being single finds no trouble in life. There is no one to feel zealous about.There is always happiness to be yet somehow, loneliness strikes. Man must not live by bread alone,LOL.

December 8, 2016 at 7:08 am

@lovern I wish the right person comes along. If not, then I will just embrace the singlehood.lol I had seen some of my friends, they seem happy and proud to be single in the group. The only apple in my eye laid only to a family where I am in. I can’t foresee the future at this point of time. It is a blurry vision to anticipate into having a relationship.

December 8, 2016 at 3:56 pm

@Shavkat, hahahaha, you are so funny my dear when you said that your future for future is still blurred in your vision.Well, anyway, life is what we make it, even me I never long to marry. I want complete freedom. I do not like someone to dominate my life. I want liberty and singleness of my decision.

There are marriages too that did not last for years.Many marriages are broken so there is no reason why I will believe that marriage means happiness. Although there are those who prospers in their marriage, but I do not believe that there are no times  they do not quarrel.The source of that quarrel is jealousy. I do not know why there are over jealous husbands and wives. trust is very important in marriage., In the absence of trust living under one roof maybe like living in hell. Jealousy kills a relationship.

That is why, I cannot blame you if marriage is still not in your mind.We might have the same observations to our Friends whose marriages turned blue and shattered. I will just wait for the right time though I thought for awhile that my foreigner bf is my final man.He changed his decision from being marriageable to non- marriageable,The only reason is he is now sick with Parkinson’s and he has a doubt that after we marry, I will divorce him and carry with me his wealth which is wrong. I just want to become resident there in NZ, but sad, we have different principles.

Thank you so much for reading.

December 8, 2016 at 4:56 pm

There are so many immoral acts that are considered legal and moral. That is why , we should not judge a person right away as immoral for we never know what is behind the issue that made that person immoral. Despite no perfect man in the world, but, when a person creates something we consider immoral let us investigate first.

I already cited a very good example, the case of a pregnant mother and required her to abort he fetus for she suffered an ectopic pregnancy.Another is the mercy killing which many believe as immoral and illegal but there are countries that allow this to happen to a very sick person, therefore, whoever conducts the mercy killing, that person in a hospital won’t be charged with murder for prior to that act, consensus by family members was done first, before the execution follows.

There are so many acts of man in this world we Christians consider immoral and against the law of God, but in the law of land, they are moral and legal.Thanks for reading my friends.

December 8, 2016 at 10:15 pm

@lovern I had experienced so many heartaches from my past relationships. I got immune to such situation and started to believe that it is really difficult to find the right person. As you had mentioned, marriage cannot last for a lifetime. Some of my friends didn’t last of being married to someone. With such situation, I am still glad to be single and never tried to go through difficulties in broken vows. If ever I didn’t find the right person along the journey of my life, I can still live with a reason and learn to love myself more.

December 9, 2016 at 4:18 pm

@Shavkat,Oh my, such a devastating experience of love.Love is so beautiful if there is someone to love and beloved, but that beauty turns like a rotten leaf if betrayed. Sometimes I do not know why there are humans that like to play love and life. They do not realize that there is karma and God does not sleep.Those who hurt us would also feel the same way we do.

Love finds  a way, so let us just wait and see, hehehehe. But many said that we have to help ourselves to make like wonderful and fulfilling.Yes, I told my friends, so easy to find, but the outcome is no seriousness, only playing the emotion of others, which is too bad.

That is why chaos never ceases on earth because there are so many bad elements that do not know the meaning of love.They do not know how love is felt in the heart. If they do, there will be no killing and no cheating.

December 10, 2016 at 7:34 am

@lovern I may not find true to someone but my heart is always going to the immediate family. It may sound a cliche feeling. They are always there to support and love me. That makes me feel as a whole person despite the betrayal of my former partners. Despite the failure in relationships, I became stronger and need to love myself.

December 10, 2016 at 5:25 pm

@Shavkat, Very well said my friend.yes, it is our family where we get strength from them. We get inspiration and hope for them, in fact, we are willing to fight back for the sake of our fellowmen hehehehe. The love of our family to children is also immeasurable and we always find happiness and contentment in everything we do because of our family,

Our family loves us deeply and truly; unlike love from the opposite sex,anytime, he/she may turn sour and the victims turn blue.Our family is also so caring to us and always put the things ready for us.

In short, there is no boredom felt if love dominates love and souls.Thanks for reading friends.

December 10, 2016 at 5:32 pm

This topic shares us the veracity about morality and immorality. There is also legal and illegal. There are cases like these making illegal, legal and one must know first before condemning  a person. We are thankful because we have not committed anything psychological because that is one ground for people to call you immoral.

Sometimes, it sounds unfair if act that way to be judgmental, but this time, if you are vocal and know the enemies as the true sons of God, only they are deprived by the right to live in a descent way. Thank and have a good evening here