December 11, 2016 at 12:20 pm

I need your reaction on this statement of  Fyodor Dostoevsky which states that :With love, one can live even without happiness.

This statement is true to life. Yes, it is because of love why we suffer, why we sacrifice , and why we are able to fight some odds of life. I do believe that only Asian countries are agreeable on this line considering the kind of relationship to a family we have. Asians have close family ties, and there is also extended family that is the answer or explanation to this statement. Yes, despite wrong to have this kind of tradition in my country, but the long tolerance feed extra, and the acceptance to our society, makes this worst tradition  auto culture of the Filipinos. This kind is one reason why Philippines remains poor. Extended family makes the family poorer for there will be additional mouths to feed, thus, the parents , no matter how hard for them to feed extra, they do not have a choice, or else endless conflict follows .

Because of love, we also sacrifice , and this sends us to a mortal destination of worries, loneliness and eternal sufferings while on earth. It is hard to drive our married brother or sister out from home. It should be a common sense that after marriage, our brother or sister much leave home and create a family of their own whether they will rent or buy a place to live, but so sad, it is just an ordinary thing for some members’ retention despite space and financial matters.

Yes, we could still live at this even without happiness. Agree or disagree?

December 13, 2016 at 5:19 pm

I believe that many are victims of this quote:

With Love, One Can Live Even Without Happiness ( Fyodor Dostoevsky)

Why I say so because no one reacts to this post to agree that they too sacrifice more because of love though that love does not give you happiness at all. Perhaps those who are not from my country never experienced about extended family where a family member despite married continue living with family and worst is there  additional mouth to feed. I call it worse, sorry for those whose hearts vulnerable and fighter for life. For me this is too much to bear sufferings of a family member that does not want to stay away from his parents and plan a family of their own. It is not easy to keep the sacrificial love.

There are so many victims of this willing to sacrifice in the name of love. We may call them martyrs. I think they are just too coward to tell them straightly but in a refine way so those string  attached won;t get hurt. The parents must have guts to tell their children before they marry that they are going to impose a law that once married they must leave their house and  build their own. They have to be independent after marriage.

If parents cannot speak our in frankness, they will suffer more once the married family member will have child or children. It’s up to you what to do if happy with them living with you, fine,LOL.

December 13, 2016 at 6:40 pm

Love is nothing but a fantasy of mind and hallucination of empty soul. I do not believe in love but I call it  a spiritual understanding and nothing else. Today’s love is full sexual emotions and that is why modern love is fake and false. Those who pursue love are without aims and objects.

More than love better  to marry someone will refine life and love destroys life if it is without marriage aim, Many clients ask me about love and love marriage on Fiverr.com but I advised them do not follow love but follow marriage has a purpose to increase your issues and generation.

Face book love and internet love is false but in rare cases it proves true just like as salt in the flour. In my opinion love a child of negative energy and positive energy leads men to positive aims. Modern love releases a negative energy that leads women and men to destruction.

I say to my humble friends you must love your being hat will never deceive you in life and love nature that is your mother full of loyalty and sincerity. Those who love their beings raise their status on earth among men and man kind.

December 13, 2016 at 6:52 pm

@jhsayyar,the love that is meant here is real love for one is willing to sacrifice, and yes, they continue living without happiness at all. It also happens to husband and wife after a wife or a husband having an affair with another, and after asking of forgiveness , and continue living under one roof, that is now the entry of continue living because of love despite not happy at all.

I want to hear others opinion if they also agree on this that they continue living with too much struggles because of love despite they are not happy at all.