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March 4, 2017 at 8:10 am

Gentleness is often overlooked as a personal trait in our society.

Power and assertiveness gain more respect, even though no one likes to be bullied. Gentleness is love in action — being considerate, meeting the needs of others, allowing time for the other person to talk, and being willing to learn.

It is an essential trait for both men and women. Maintain a gentle attitude in your relationships with others. 🙂 

 

March 4, 2017 at 3:25 pm

Agree with what has been stated in the article above. Generally anywhere in the world people who are sensible and gentle are usually pushed around by people in the society. Usually those who gain respect genuinely and out of fear are of two categories. The first kind are the ones who are haughty, have an attitude, throw their weight around, show their power and are happy being assertive. In the case of these people they are feared and hence people listen to them and not out of any respect or love for them.

 

While the second kind are the ones who carry a big stick with them are powerful and assertive but rarely use the stick and generally are kind and concerned of people around them. They also has traits of compassion and love towards their fellow human beings. These are the people who are usually respected universally across the board. They know the ways of the world and are mature enough to have a balanced view of the world. That makes them successful.

March 4, 2017 at 4:01 pm

Absolutely, @ Krishna Kumar. That is the real scenario that is happening around us. Deny it, but being gentle and sensible as you have said is being pulled down by other people. However, still we need to be gentle but be assertive and powerful in a way that we do not step on others feet. 🙂

People need to be strong against others. And I believe that we can never be strong and can never gain respect if we don’t ponder our life with God. 🙂