August 8, 2016 at 5:07 am

Forgive yourself so that you can begin to move on with your life. There is no point in beating yourself up over people who were never even strong enough to put up a fight for you in the first place. And just because your love wasnt fully appreciated and reciprocated back in return, it doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. We have a bad habit of blaming ourselves for other people’s issues and insecurities. There isn’t anything you can do to stop someone from running away from you. Some do it out of fear of being hurt. Some do it from issues stemming from their past when they were a child, and some people do it because the power of love is just too heavy and scary for some people to carry. You need someone strong enough who you can put all of your love on and they wont budge when carrying it. You need someone who would rather give more than they took from you. You need someone completely comfortable with their emotions, not someone scared of embracing what they are feeling. You need your equal. You need someone who is ready for love just like you are.

August 8, 2016 at 5:20 am

In every walk of life, there are so-called mistakes. But then, our lives will not stick there.  We need to forgive ourselves and find ways to resolve the problem. If can’t do this, then we live in misery. Positive outlook in life will totally shatter into pieces. Thus, we need to face the problem and deal with it.

October 28, 2016 at 11:48 pm

This is something women are guilty of. We are always blaming ourselves for things that are not our fault. Like when your husband comes home late, you cooked and secided to eat before he comes because you were hungry, is that a bad thing? I dont think so. Now when the man comes into the house he’s a little grumpy so he behaves like he doesnt wantbto chat or you serve gim food and he behaves like you have hurt his feelings, what does the woman do she starts to think that shes the one who has wronged him and thats why hes the way he is. If he is frustrated from work, he could actually try to make you feel or look bad. So we start blaming ourselves for not being a good cook or for not waiting for him to arrive so that we can eat together. This small small things make a woman not to forgive herself therefore leading into self pity and doubt.

October 29, 2016 at 9:35 am

There is no one who could love you as what you are except Jesus Himself. Though, He doesn’t give any chance for a sin to give what is due to the sinner, but He has still the open arms stretching out for those sinners who had forsaken their sins and made themselves for not doing them again. They’d undergone the process of repentance and committed themselves towards their perfection, though it is hard and difficult but it is possible.

Forgiving yourself has to go to the process of repentance. I know repentance has several things to do. First, you should have acknowledged that you have sinned. Second, you have to be sorry about it. Third, you have confessed or made a reconciliation with those whom you have offended or you have to return what you have taken to the rightful owner. And the last, you have to commit absolutely of not doing it again. And for sure, you will be forgiven.