June 14, 2016 at 6:03 pm

That one is hard, especially if one or both of them are sensitive. I have been in the middle before, both of my closest friends had misunderstanding and they are not open to discussing it in front of each other. Both of them confide on me, just shared about their conflict but they are not open to resolving it. I am not good being a mediator because most of the time they are not listening. Pride is gotten into them. If you are good mediator, act as one. You need to talk to both of them, both of them in front of you and you literally in the middle, there will come a minute that they will start talking to each other for sure.

Since I am not a good mediator, I did not had a good job of getting my friends back together. Since they do not want to see each other, we gone our separate ways. I don’t want them to be the source of my stress so I got rid of them. One day, I learned that they patched things up and looking for me. However, I did not bother them anymore, I go my way. They made me feel I don’t have anything to deal with their problems so I go my way. If they are happy together, then I am glad, but I don’t want to be with them so I go alone.