Future motherhood questions
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I am a godmother of two beautiful kids one boy who is a newborn and a girl who is 7 and I love them dearly. But I recently got a puppy the first two weeks was hell for me because I was up all night because she wasn’t potty-trained and every night all I would get was 2 to 3 hours of sleep and it drove me absolutely nuts. And I know that you can’t compare a puppy to a human being but it really got me thinking can I actually be a mother of a child because I was so stressed just taking care of a puppy and I eventually want it 3 kids but I think I only want one now I don’t think I can handle more than one at least not all at once. Is taking care of a child more difficult than a puppy I no its a weird question but I really wanna know
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@rebecca I’m sure that looking after a young pup has its challenges, and sometimes they may be similar to caring for a baby. But I don’t think that getting up multiple times a night to prevent the puppy messing the carpet is quite the same as caring for a newborn! In some ways, it’s more stressful. When the time comes, you’ll discover that parenting is both easier and harder than you ever imagined. Even parenting more than one small child is possible. I raised four children, all spaced closely, and three of them with special needs. My youngest will soon turn twelve – which I think is proof we can live through such nightmares, LOL! If you want to have a big family, you will find the means to make that happen. Just remember to be patient with yourself, because most of parenting is trial and error at first. You’ll learn what works for you, and soon you’ll be an old pro <3 |
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The answer to your question is a definite yes. Human beings are much more demanding then animals. You can’t even begin to start comparing him two they are way apart. A pup just needs a month or two to take care of, whereas a baby will take years on end to take care off. Children’s will always be kids to their parents forever so parenting never comes to an end unlike pups once they grow up they can depend on teselves even without their mother’s. So don’t be scared you can make it others have gone through it and have survived. So you won’t be the first or the last |
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