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Are you closer to your dad or mum?
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Most daughters are closer to mums because of the mother and daughter boding. Lots of secrets to share and jokes to poke around. However, I am closer to my DAD instead. He is the pillar of my strength and gave me lots of advices. He never beats me when I was a young child. So, who are you closer to, mommy or daddy?
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I was closed to both of them but talked more with my mother. Being the eldest my mother gave me more importance, (you know the elders are more useful for bringing things from market than the younger lot). But jokes apart I was her favorite and she talked to me more. My father was reserved in nature but he was too kind to my only sister 4 years younger than me. |
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it is common for mom to give more responsibilities to the oldest child dad always dote the youngest, just like my dad dote my younger bro thanks for yr comments |
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I do not have someone who are close with. I am open to my mother. I am direct to the point. I could be frank on both of them but I can be soft when I need to adjust from the situation. Lately, I have been keeping problems to myself but it doesn’t determine if I am close on them or not. I think we have this definite closeness that we are there when we need each other, just ask. Sometimes my father will feel I need some comforting so he starts it with himself, he will ask some stuff about me and I will tell him the partial truth, lol. Sometimes when I can’t bear it, I will able to tell them everything. However, it seldom happened. It seldom happened that they know everything about me because I grow old as a person who keeps problems to myself. I only tell them what it is when I can’t bear it anymore. |
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I’m closer now to my mom. My father was abusive and has since passed away. |
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When I was a small child, I was definitely a daddy’s girl. I loved my father very much, but as I grew older I found myself growing closer to my mother. I guess as you get older you need your mother for more girl things. I grew even closer to my mother after my father died and because I took care of her while she was sick. I feel more of the loss of my mother than I do for my father but not because I loved him less. It was just different and not something that I can explain. Even though it has been nearly 13 years since she has been gone, it still feels like yesterday. |
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I am closer to both of my parents, but since my dad passed away, I am now taking care of my mom. Thus, you can say that I am closer to my mom. |
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I’m like you: I was always Daddy’s little girl! My mother taught me to love learning and to appreciate nature. But I was always closer to Dad. |
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Oh, dear, that is hard on yourself. Aren’t you pressuring yourself too much? You will look older as you age due to depression. Try to open up, at least you would get some ideas instead of forcing yourself to produce ideas and solutions. You can open up to us or your dad, since he is willing to lend a shoulder to cry on |
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very sorry to hear that. But at least you are close to your mom. Can’t imagine abusive dad, would willing to do anything to to his kids I guess God is fair.
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yeah daddy is like a hero to me. A person whom I can rely on positive thoughts and give me solutions, a pillar strength
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sorry to hear about yr dad. When parents grow older, we tend to be closer to them than in the past, isn’t it? |
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thanks for sharing with us. I guess that when one of the parents had passed away, you will be closer to the other one, to cherish those precious moments. That is why, it still lingers in your memory, feels like yesterday.
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Yes sissy I think I am pressuring myselt too much and all the time. I try to solve my own problems, the disadvantage my parents think I can go on my own all the time that is why sometimes they don’t care about me but of course, they care but they are not vocal about it. @peachpurple |
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I’m the middle child – so neither. lol I pretty much keep to myself – I love both but I don’t have any favorite. I treat them equally well. |
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