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| Caring for someone doesn’t mean you receive a thankful reaction, instead, you receive a bad reaction. Which is which? To care or not to care others and let them be?
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| yeah. I totally agree with you Caring for someone does not mean the reaction will be an appreciation. Sometimes the reaction may be negative also Nowadays, one has to be more careful in taking care of someone. There are peculiar persons we come across in life and we should be more careful with them. They need not appreciate for our caring, better it would be if they do not point out us giving different interpretation I think you had a bitter experience of it. But, what I personally feel it that if we decide to care for someone let us be bold in facing the consequences also. We should not think about the reaction as appreciation or a blame. One should have guts for that. | |
| I totally agree with you sir Shivamani. My story goes this way; I have a relative who have a 2 years old son. His son is sick for almost a week. One morning I, I saw his son crying while coughing and vomiting. I got angry about what I saw. I rushed into the boy, calm him and gave him lukewarm water to drink. After a while, the little sister of his mother was there to see the boy so I asked her if where is the mother, and she said she went out for an early Christmas celebration. Okay, so that was it. She left his son who is not feeling well. I also feed him because accordingly, he did not eat breakfast. That day, I and the little sister took care of the little boy until his mom came home at almost night time. I told her what happen that morning to his son.Then I said to her,” please next time don’t leave the child with that situation he has now. Or at least feed him and give him a medication first before you leave him and inform us if you have something important to do so we take care of him.” She replied with her voice loud saying it’s not her fault because she told to her little sister what to do. She really looked at me with a facial expression that something like she was saying What is your problem anyway?,who are you to say that to me? I don’t know what was wrong with what I said, what I expected was for her is to say sorry to her son and tell him not to leave him again with that situation next time. But I was wrong, she hated the idea of giving her advice. Until now, she always ignores me. But whatever her reaction is, I will still care for her child. | |
| Being aring is not a demand but a choice. You can choose to be caring or a dont care. But in this life that we live in we all need one another, we need to watch over each other if you have a problem to day, its more than obvious that tomorrow i may need you to help me with something. So caring should be something that comes naturally its not supposed to be forced on anyone. When you care for someone don’t do it in the thought that uou will be paid or you will be given something in return do it willingly and let God be the one to reward you for what you have done. If the person you have helped does not regard you or is not appreciative for what you have done for them, don’t sweat it yoh will get your reward from above and it will even be better than what you may have been paid by the other person. So always do good and it will come back to you double and better. |
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