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June 16, 2016 at 8:23 am

@shavkat I think sometimes breaking up is the best decision a couple can make. Not because people should ever give up on true love, but because too many people who are in relationships are with people who are not suited to them at all.

June 16, 2016 at 9:17 am

@shavkat/

well I would say that long term relationship would become rocky sometimes.

But when it is more than 8 years of relationship like my fellow cousin ( guy), his girlfriend refused to let him go because of her age.

Guy is 42 age while lady is 43 age, both are old hens.

Guy don’t mind letting go , hey guys don’t lose anything, right?

But the lady is already an old hen, 43 years old, too old to lay eggs and no other rooster is interested in her either!

 

Of course there were arguments, broke off, attached again, so on and so forth.

But still not married….

 

June 16, 2016 at 9:47 am

@ruby3881 I agree. If things are not really working out, then it is not healthy to continue the relationship. It is just like playing one’s emotions.

@peachpurple That’s the downside for women who are in long-time relationship and age is one of the consideration. You are right that men will not worry if breaking up with someone despite the old age. I had seen some women cannot push way themselves to their present partners because the age beyond youth. I am a man and I feel them with this kind of situation. It is like there is no other option and nobody will going to like the woman with its old age.

June 16, 2016 at 10:59 am

Friend…sometimes it happens,I saw one happened last year also, inwhich they have been dating for good two years. suddenly, things change and the lady said she is tired of the relationship the guy just take heart and proceed in his life but I don’t know who normally cause the brake up maybe is the female or male?

June 16, 2016 at 5:13 pm

@jonzyent I hope the woman had initiated the break up. At least, the guilt from a man is lesser. Loving someone is a bitter-sweet at first, but then it turned our to be bitter after the break up. That’s the reason why some individuals changed their behavior towards somebody: a man hater or a woman hater. This kind of people are afraid of opening their life for another chapter.