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| Errr.. my best friend was crying a while ago when she called. She is saying they broke up with her boyfriend for an unknown reason. I asked her if why is it, but she said I don’t know. According to her, the boyfriend asked her if it is okay for them to break up? And because she loves the guy so much, she said yes if that what’s make him happy. I’m so sad for her, she can sacrifice everything just for the man. She even sacrifice her happiness just to see him happy. Hope she’ll be fine.
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| Because she wants to keep him happy to said ok? It is quite surprising. She should not have approved it In that case, the situation would have been different. I think her boyfriend is quite tricky. He just wanted to get approval from her and then simply avoided her. There are varieties of people playing tricks to escape and switch over to others. Finally, why this lady should feel so sad about this guy? At least now, she should realize the actual intention of her BF and should never allow such people in future. | |
| I think so. He don’t deserve my best friend, so it’s good that she said okay about the break-up. She is sad now, but sooner, she will realize how good is her decision.
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| They say that when uou love someone you should let them free, if they are meant for you they will come back if not they were not meant for you. So your friend shouldn’t feel bad she will soon get over it and get on with her life. I have been there before done that and i have been sad but life has to move on regardless. I used to have a boyfriend who used to do me wrong most of the time, and all i used to do is be quiet because whenever i asked or confronted him he would always tell me lies so all i did was give him time. But a time reached when i could not take his lies anymore i walked out of the relationship and moved on. I remember when i had my current boyfriend, if we met somehow he would remind me that i left him and u would tell him it was all tour doing so deal with it. I have moved on and i am not turning back. So ask your friend to move on and forget about the guy for her own good sake. | |
| @Nemzie Bayawa, That is unfair my dear. The girl should know the reason why the man broke their relationship. I am not agreeable on her decision by just saying yes, okay for the break up. If I were on her shoes, I will surely cry. She has to know if the reason is so strong so she will not suffer. It is not easy to deal with a broken heart. That man, too her ex is no man enough. What kind of human being is he? What kind of love does he know why it was easy for him to forget, and easy for him to ignore the aches and pains felt by your friend. That guy needs a lesson .Someday, Karma would fall upon that boyfriend. Confucius said: Don’t do unto others if you do not like others do unto you. I hope your friend has recovered from her painful experience.Tell her not to cry over a spilled milk. She should be thankful to God for she learns the true color of the man she loves. Do tell her to forget the man and find someone that is worth of her feeling.She should not waste her tears. Tell your friend that she has to rise where she falls. | |
| @sivasubrahmanyam shatdarsanam, I like your advise to Nemzie’s friend, very well said.Yeah that guy did a trick to the girl to escape from guilt.I am so sure that the boy has another girlfriend.He is not a gentleman. That declaration for a break-up is at the wrong time. The boy should have shown her some actions to realize that he is not anymore in love to the girl.His decision was so sudden like a machine gun that just rat -tat-tat-rat-tat tat,lol, so unfair. Nemzie,please get a shot of the advises of the bloggers here in this discussion and let these be shown to your friend to lessen her pain. The injury she carries may take months to heal themselves. What a pitiful girl. Tel; her not to cry, but stand up firm and strong so the man will tell himself , he is wrong to judge his girlfriend as weak and not worth to love. | |
| Maybe it was for the better as if she loves him so much; she could have married him and have kids and then he could have divorced her. It is better to get over a boyfriend than a husband you shared everything for however many years.
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| He sounds like she wasn’t his only one. I hate men who use women for their own pleasure and quickly discard them at the drop of a dime. Women give all of themselves to these fools. I hope she will be okay. You should invite her here so she can write about any build up emotions she may have. | |
| @ anitah, my friend is now feeling better. Sooner she will move on from that unreasonable break up she had with her bf. | |
| Ma’am Cely, you are correct. It was very unfair. It will be easier for my friend to move on if she only knew the reason behind that break-up. But it was too obvious that the boyfriend has another girl, maybe that’s why my friend did not ask any explanation, instead, she said yes. I was so thankful for all of the advice from all of you, my lb friends. I was able to comfort my friend with those pieces of advice I received from all of you. | |
| @jennifer, yes I agree. The earlier they found out that their relationship won’t work, the better.
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