July 14, 2016 at 8:12 pm

In your opinion, “Is playing games more important than losing a friend?” There are some people tried to deceive other people just to gain something especially from their friends. The world is changing its orbit. People are changing its personality in betraying their true friends. It is like a game that betraying them is being a winner. “Where is the essence of having a true friendship?”

Personally speaking, I have a couple of friends who became so abusive to my kindness. At first, I pretend to be blinded with such circumstances. I always convince myself that they really need something and betraying me is a part of being understanding. But then, it is awaken when they tried to destroy credibility to other people and fabricates stories against me. That would not be acceptable.

July 15, 2016 at 4:35 am

@Shavkat   Whoever acts that way is no more a friend. I will never tolerate anyone exploiting my kindness no matter how close we would be.

July 15, 2016 at 6:19 am

@bestwriter I do agree on that. That’s the reason why I have only a few precious gems in my life. These people who had bad intentions towards me are all long gone. It doesn’t exist in my life anymore.

July 15, 2016 at 1:45 pm

That is surely not acceptable. Such things never come when someone is true friend. Better to stay away from such people. I don’t think true friends will do anything like this. And gaming is just minor thing in compare to friendship. So for me it is nothing but selfishness.

July 15, 2016 at 5:05 pm

@anand I definitely detached myself to them. It is not healthy to dwell with such friendship with these people. I can’t bear the bad treatment. I was not born to be treated that way. They had tried to reconcile about what had happened. But I had enough.

July 16, 2016 at 12:31 am

I think the wise thing to do in such circumstances is to get rid of any connections with such s0-called “friends” as soon as possible. It hurts a lot in the beginning to realize that the people you trusted the most had betrayed you, but those wounds of the soul will eventually heal and you will no longer crave for the company of such unreliable persons.

July 16, 2016 at 4:36 am

@Shavkat, this time, after robbed by a friend, I no longer trust a friend.I also choose who to befriend with.The other friend that I have which I posted in the other site was changed after becoming rich. She no longer replies  my FB messages, as if feeling her highness and power which is a shit.I do not care about her this time, what a fuc-?k-i-ng  s -h* i* t to her.

July 16, 2016 at 9:13 am

@sebaonciu You are right. I can’t bear seeing them. Even if they tried to reach me out, there is no second chance especially when they took advantage of weaknesses. They are not real friends.  I promised to be vigilant at all times in making friends.

@lovern I have so many friends like this. When they started to have huge money in their pockets. They forget the people that made them a better person. I ignored them and deal with my life without knowing about them.

July 16, 2016 at 3:02 pm

@Shavkat, there are opportunistic people, and because we believe them we give all our trust.They can fool us once, but they cannot foll us forever, and that is the time that they will remember our good deeds to them.It’s hard to forget the injury they caused,but at least we realized we are also wrong for we give our full trust on them. i do not know in your case if you give all your trust, me, yes I did.

July 16, 2016 at 9:03 pm

@lovern I do full trust to somebody. However, there are instances that I can see things that are not right. I will definitely have some doubts and eventually, true colors can be seen from them. I guess this skill had been improved after having this kind of people in my life.

July 17, 2016 at 11:47 am

Only those who are ruthless and aiming to win disregards friendship

July 17, 2016 at 3:07 pm

@peachpurple That’s the reason why we need to be cautious with this kind of species that created by God.

July 18, 2016 at 8:40 am

yeah gotta be careful

There are schemers here and there and hypocrites too

July 18, 2016 at 3:18 pm

@Shavkat, Eventually, we will forget those kind people who are only good if they want something from us.Sometimes, I cannot believe that there people like them.They do not deserve our attention and full trust.

July 18, 2016 at 4:03 pm

I totally disagree with this statement how can you gamble on friendship really? that would be absurd for anyone to do that. I also feel that there are friends who use others to their own advantage which is not good. I always feel friendships is the very essence of livelihood so why take it for granted? we all need friends to be able to live life if they were not there how would life be like.