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| Many people come and go to our lives. They may be a good or they may be bad. Sometimes, we give our full trust to them, but in the end, we’ll get hurt by them. When misunderstandings came, they back fight you through wide-spreading some of your personal life, or they just walk out from our lives without resolving problems. It is really hurt when you think that a friend you’ve given your trust ruined everything you’ve pounder for the friendship. Do we need to be hurt, when all we did is to give them our full trust?
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| @nehemia bayawa, Of course, it is hurting for we believe that our friend could be trusted. Let us not give our full trust to anyone in this world. There are only people around that can be trusted, that can keep a secret, that can be honest to us. There are friends who are only good to us if there is something they want from us. Because, we trust a friend, all secrets we share without mental reservation.We are having our black and white friend good only in front of us. I have best friends who are married to Americans and after 4 years she became rich because her husband is rich and he gives her capital for her on line business. her business bloomed and she is using my Facebook friends for I have almost 4,300 friends in Facebook,Many of them become her customers and friends. So sad, when my friend visited our city, we are neighbors by the way, but she just went back to California, and never did she tell me that she arrived in the country where I live. I only learned it in Facebook through her husband. What does she think by the way? Does she think that I will ask her money? hehehehe, she is a bitch no matter what she will do,m she remains poor, for she is not a good person. She does not look back to where she belongs. Image credit by Pixabay
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| Ma’am @cely, thanks for sharing. Well, it is true, we need to limit our trust. About that friend of yours, from that experience, you will know if she is a best friend and the hypocrite. You may not know the reason why she did not inform you of her vacation, but as a friend, she must tell you that she will be going home or at least visit you in your house. Anyways, there are people in this world who are pretenders. hehe | |
| Life’s lessons deal with trusting people and how to handle things when that trust has been broken. At first, we are hurt and probably go through a mourning phase but we soon get over it. Should we trust that person a second or even a third time? That depends on the situation and how forgiving of a person you are. You can always “charge it to the game” and learn from the lesson/mistakes that happen. Should it keep you from trusting others in the future? Once again that depends on you and how secure you feel about yourself. I once trusted someone but then she started telling me negative things about a guy that I liked. I told her that I rather not her negative opinions no matter what she felt about the situation. Now we aren’t on talking terms because she thinks she’s right and I have no choice in how I am supposed to feel. | |
 Anonymous Topics: 120 Replies: 853 Rank: Newbie | It is really hurtful to be betrayed by others.I had experienced this a couple of times. At first, I cannot endure the fact of betrayed.But then, I got immune and learn to deal with it. For so many betrayals by others towards me, I had learned to be vigilant. Nowadays, it is difficult to find true friends. It is up to us if we wanted to be consumed with the strong feeling of being hurt. It is normal to be hurt and feel the intense feeling of being deserted by someone. However, we still need to learn how to stand up after the betrayal. Being vigilant is the best thing to protect oneself with these people.
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| That’s true Ma’am EvilElf,.We can give a second or third chances to those friends who betrayed us if they are worth to give that chances. Yes, chances can be given again but the trust we gave them the first time will never be the same. Unless they make an effort to gain our trust again. | |
| @Shavkat absolutely sir. true friends are not easy to find. We can only find true friendship within our family. And through those betrayals, we become stronger as you did. | |
| Anonymous Topics: 120 Replies: 853 Rank: Newbie | I think that is the normal things that we need to do. However, immediate family is always there with us. Distant relatives can still betray us. That’s what I had experienced on my father’s side. But then, I do forgive these people and tried to move on and forget the bad things happened. |
| Indeed sir Shavkat. Sometimes, distant relatives do betray us. Some reasons include greediness or conflict because of unequal division of properties, which I usually observe here in our place.
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