May 26, 2016 at 12:23 am

Ever have one of those days where you feel like crying and you just don’t know why?  Or maybe some one said some thing to you and you get your feelings hurt, but on other days it wouldn’t have bothered you?  Or maybe you just need a little TLC?

I’m having one of these days, I’m upset over something trivial, but yet I feel I have a reason to be upset!  Most of the money goes to bills around here.  The MIL and hubby both have nicotine habits.  They both spend about $100 a month on what they call a “necessity!”  Now, I have no tobacco habit, as I quit 3 years ago, so I feel “cheated” that NO money goes for me for a “necessity.”

May 26, 2016 at 4:26 am

@JoDee  I do not blame you for being upset. It definitely isn’t a “necessity” so to speak. I would consider tobacco a luxury since you don’t need it to live. I think you should get to have money for something that you would like that is not a “necessity” but something fun for you or something that you would like to have or do. It is not fair for them to not let you have something. Maybe their “necessity” needs to disappear and you get the “necessity” then see how they like not having one. Lol

I hope you feel better and there is nothing wrong with having a good cry and rant once in a while. Does a body good.

May 26, 2016 at 6:32 am

@4cryingoutloud/

yup it is pretty unfair that those 2 people had the “right” to have their addiction paid.

You should fight for your rights too.

Either you cut down their addiction from $100 to $70 per month, get those $30 to pamper yourself.

My dad used to have his tobacco addiction too.

He used to buy 14 packs in a week.

Then he cut down to 10 packs, then 6 packs and finally 14 sticks in a week.

It has been 20 years that he had quit smoking because he had high blood pressure.

Sometimes, our words do not enter into their stupid brain.

Only disease would make them listen!

As for me, I want an external hard drive to save the Korean dramas I loved to watch.

My laptop hard drive is fulled.

I had been requesting for hubby to buy me one, I can pay but he refused to let me use my own money.

He said “WAIT” and that wait that i had been waiting for were 2 years ago until now.

Just ain’t fair that he had his own external hard drive.

Where is mine??