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| Today I reminded myself of something I had learned as a child. If you need, ask. Very often people will help you without busting a sweat. Sure, they’ll say as if, ‘is that all?’ Do you ask for help or a ride or anything? Or are you a bit afraid?
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| In my whole life, I cannot count how many times I asked for help. In times I needed a comfort, I go to my mom, tell her my problem and asked her what will I supposed to do. In times I felt so sad, I go to my best friend and asked her to be beside me. In times I need material things that are necessary for my studies during my school days, I asked my parents for it. In my daily life, I asked God for His guidance for me and for my loved ones/families.
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| There are lots of things we cannot do that we have to seek help from other people. We cannot deny that we have some difficulties in life. We cannot do everything. Without the help of other people, we cannot be successful. Without our beloved parents, we cannot stand on our own. Without those people surrounding us (friends, siblings) we cannot be encouraged to do things better. | |
| A lot of people don’t ask for help. They need it, but they feel they can’t. | |
| Maybe those are the people who don’t want to lower their pride. Or maybe they are shy to ask it, or they think they might be rejected. We do not know. They have their own reason why they do not ask for help. They want to solve things on their own even if it is really hard for them to do so. | |
| I think it is a false pride. An attitude that “I don’t need anyone’s help!” So they stumble and fall and don’t let other people help them. | |
| Absolutely. But we cannot blame them, maybe their is a reason behind it from the past that makes them not trust others help. | |
| I think they have one of those egos which will harm them in life. I think if they just opened up and were a little less pretentious they’d see that people are not as bad as they think. | |
| we are all social being. As a social being, one should have a proper appreciation of others and there should be mutual understanding and respect for each other. But we can not judge a person immediately. It can not be done moving closely for 2 hours or just even for 2 days. But, how to judge the person’s social behavior or his personality? Just ask for something? Will he oblige or not? Just ventilate a problem and see his reaction. Whether he is really feeling sorry for your problem or not and is ready to extend the needed advice or help. I just had a very nice experience during my tour in Uttar Pradesh. Wehn I visited Varanasi very recently I met a person. During the conversation, I had informed him about my knee problem That man to my surprise took me to a person who treated me without taking even a penny. After the treatment is over, that man took me to his house went inside and came with some homemade ointment He applied it on my feet and covered it with a nice Doctor Tape I really felt happy to have his acquaintance. Within a short period, he became my close friend. He ordered for the dish I liked most through his servant and offered me and got one more packed to have as dinner during my return journey. What should I call it? It is just a casual talk that proved his personality Actually, I had no idea of testing his personality at any time. Even then, he proved himself worthy to be my good friend and a perfect social being. Soon after reaching Hyderabad I contacted him over the phone and conveyed my gratitude. | |
| Many people will be kind if you give them a chance. I always ask for help and almost always get it. | |
| If i need help with anything then i’ll just ask. There is no point in being afraid for asking for help. The worst that can happen is get a “no” as an answer. If that happenes just ask someone else. Easy as pie. |
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