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 Anonymous Topics: 120 Replies: 853 Rank: Newbie | I am an introvert person since birth. I tend to be alone most of the time and not feeling lonely. I just wanted to feel all by myself moment. However, I am also flexible depending on the situation. If the group of people I am with is outgoing, I can go along with them easily. At my previous regular jobs, I work by myself if it doesn’t need to consult with the team. Are you a flexible individual in dealing with people?
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| @Shavkat I used to be one myself but the job I did change me entirely. I still like sitting without speaking to strangers but once the ice is broken I can go to any distance. | |
| I am a people’s person but now I have cut down a lot keeping in touch as that is how everyone around me does. | |
| @bestwriter I don’t think that is the case but you will have to take a step forward to encourage them. | |
| @suny Actually I am now contented with a few. I have had enough and more of interactions in the real world in times gone by Virtual world is taking most of my time now. As you will agree there is a time for everything. | |
| it depends on my mood. there are moments when I feel good alone but there are also times when I feel the need to be surrounded by people. anyway I wouldn’t have a problem with spending a day on my own | |
| @bestwriter I agree with you as the same is case with me too but I never leg behind when someone look at me for my help or in some cases I myself offer my help with waiting for someone to ask for that. And then I go back to myself. @alina I think we all are same, more or less. I sometime feel like go talk to people even with whom I am not comfortable at times but I stay within myself at most times. | |
| @Shavkat I am just like as you mentioned. I can be alone too and with other friends and family. Honestly in past I was used to stay alone only, I didn’t used to enjoy crowd around me, but now I don’t feel awkward anymore. I can freely talk with anyone in the group. @suny As you said about your job, even for me it is same happened. After my college time and job time I have changed lot. I can now freely talk with anyone without hesitating. Before than that I guess I was very shy by nature. But I have improved lot after my work. | |
| @suny Helping is an on going process. Be it neighbours, family or anyone help is always given. | |
| @Anand It ceratinly depends on nature of your job. Being a marketing professional I had to shed away my initial habit of staying happy in myself but I am still the same inside. Even while I am talking to others I am better off while I am alone. | |
| I can also say that i was an introvert when i was younger. but as time went by i started embracing the idea of me being around people. then i got a job that involved supervisory work that made me like wake up from my sleep. i started talking so much and i think that really helped me in the long run. now i am free and i can interact with anyone even for the first time. | |
| @Anitah Gimase That is very much normal as one changes with the time. I have seen people who were too talkative have stopped talking and the ones considered too shy have no hesitation whatsoever. | |
| Anonymous Topics: 120 Replies: 853 Rank: Newbie | @sunil I must admit that I am still missing working with the local people. I like doing some community projects and train the local people to acquire some professional skills. Professionalism made me talk to strangers. It is basically a work-related conversation. @bestwriter I am also a people’s person too. But it is more on job-related matters. I don’t usually open about my personal life. It is not an open book for them. @anand I can easily blend with people. However, if I had seen something not acceptable attitudes, I would rather shut my mouth and ignore these people. @anitah In my younger years, I must admit that I have my own world. The starting point to break free from my comfort zone is during my college years and until I got my regular jobs.
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| @Shavkat in my case I have been traveling over the world being a marketing professional so get to meet hundreds of different people on my work. I have no problem interacting with anyone or any particular one in any way. | |
| @ suny WEll, for me it wasn’t marketing job, I am doing programming as you know, but still I wasn’t meeting people outside regularly before, but after that whatever I experienced, I can say that I have changed bit. I guess even small change is good for me. @Shavkat Yes sometimes keeping our mouth shut is better idea. |
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