Unconditional Love Leads in Christian Marriage
Selfishness is being” too much concerned with one’s own welfare or interests”. This is one of the love killer points in marriage. A situation where a husband or wife loves his or her own life, food, clothes, vehicles, money etc more than the life, pleasure and wellbeing of his or her spouse respectively. This attitude makes the other spouse suffer beyond expectation. The other spouse turns his or her partner into a slave and beast of burden for the family. Selfishness retards family progress and creates hatred between spouses and their children. Their offspring’s recognize their parent who is interested in their welfare .Their heart clings on that parent more than the other who is not concerned about their welfare. Other relations also note this character when the couple is exposed to the society. It is very good to find out a selfish spouse before marriage. How do you do this? Before marriage proper, ask your would be wife or husband to handle a specific task that requires money, time and commitment. Two of you should share in the task. If your spouse pulls out of the task with any excuses, drop him or her immediately. Tell your would -be -spouse to lend you money for treatment of your family’s member. Request that your spouse should sponsor a dinner in a semi suburb restaurant. Tell him or her to buy under wears, clothes and shoes out of his or her salary. For the man, pretend that you have no money, but tell your wife- to- be to go and stay with your sick mother or sister in the hospital. For the woman, request from your husbanSELFISHNESS: A LOVE- KILLER POINT IN MARRIAGE
Selfishness is being” too much concerned with one’s own welfare or interests”. This is one of the love killer points in marriage. A situation where a husband or wife loves his or her own life, food, clothes, vehicles, money etc more than the life, pleasure and wellbeing of his or her spouse respectively. This attitude makes the other spouse suffer beyond expectation. The other spouse turns his or her partner into a slave and beast of burden for the family. Selfishness retards family progress and creates hatred between spouses and their children. Their offspring’s recognize their parent who is interested in their welfare .Their heart clings on that parent more than the other who is not concerned about their welfare. Other relations also note this character when the couple is exposed to the society. It is very good to find out a selfish spouse before marriage. How do you do this? During courtship, ask your would be wife or husband to handle a specific task that requires money, time and commitment. Two of you should share in the task. If your spouse pulls out of the task with any excuses, drop him or her immediately. His or her withdrawal shows that he or she is selfish. It is selfishness that makes a husband or wife to eat in hotels leaving the entire family hungry. A selfish husband or wife buys things only for him or her and is insensitive to the needs of his or her spouse and other members of the family-to-be that you need money to prepare for your birthday celebration. His or her withdrawal shows that he or she is selfish. It is selfishness that makes a husband or wife to eat in hotels leaving the entire family hungry. A selfish husband or wife buys things only for himself or herself and is insensitive to the needs of his or her spouse and other members of the family.
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wow that is so and fully true, selfishness is horrible thing in any relation, realy kills all the fun all the love all the life, and that is why com edo not know how to keep it theri life go on , really good work their and will be nie if peole read it and tried to do one tepor two at a time. as human we do have some selfishness and that is ok but to control us is not, that is really main point is marriage over, both are stubborn and that is no. one reason for separation that is your point is the second reason, also there is the ignorance and that is really slow kill both the man and the woman in couples and family relations