Oohh my you have absolutely shocked me when you say that Jamaicans bleach! I have always upheld Jamaicans in high regard for the way they embrace their culture but this has definitely down graded them close to zero. Nigerians are known for this things ever since time in memorial. They are the queens of bleach, there is this one time a friend of mine told me that man from Congo and Nigeria bleach themselves and I refused but as time went but I began to see it for myself. My country is also becoming addicted to this bleaching agents Nigeria being the top supplier. Am sorry to say this I don’t mean to offend anyone but it’s the truth. We can’t really blame them, if someone wants to be white let them be. I just fail to understand that people never learned from what Michael Jackson went through may his soul continue to rest in peace. This but suffered so much in the name of being white, to the point of his death and people still bleach themselves? Lots help us. What is so good about being white, when the whites are busy trying to ten themselves blacks are busy trying to bleach themselves why can’t we just be content with who we are? This thing about people bleaching so that they can get better jobs or better looking husbands or wives or trying to get rich is all absolute nonsense. People need to wake up to reality that even if you bleach yourself it’s only the outside that changes the inside will always remain the same your blood will never change it will always remind you that you were a black person once in your life and you will always be. Not unless you want to die and ask God to ressurect you as a white person. This really kissed me off be happy with yourself don’t try to change to somebody your not. BLACK IS BEAUTY ENJOY IT!

It is unfortunate that in the countries like Congo, Nigeria, Mali, Nigeria, and Jamaica people are after going for bleaching their whole bodies whereas in European countries the whites in their eagerness to appear black and brownish are going to beaches with creams meant for tanning their skin. Looks very funny
The statistics reveal that it is only Jamaica which is a big supplier of bleaching products and the good market to use them are Congo and Mali just for getting good positions in the jobs
But, they are not realizing the fact that BLACK IS ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL. Lord Vishnu is black in color whereas Radha is fair. Lord Shiva is fair and Parvathi is black in color as per the description given in ANCIENT TEXTS. It is right to say that the bleaching can be taken up to make bodies white but there is no product that can bleach inside.

I honestly couldn’t have said this any better myself.

If a man is judged by the woman by his hand what is a woman judged by is it the man at her side too? Just thinking. We have been taught in our early ages that we should not judge a book by its cover right? But do people ever take that seriously I don’t think. Judging a person because of their status or who they are is wrong, you may judge and get very disappointed that what you thought was good turned out to be the worst thing ever. People have often said that a man will take a beautiful girl out on a date so that his ego can be boosted or so that he can have status, it may be true but is it right? We need to know what it is that we want in our lives, if you have a lady who you think is not good enough to be seen with you in public do your homework and make her be what you want her to look like don’t look at other women and say that your girl is not beautiful. It’s your duty to make her beautiful. Another thing when you look at someone you cannot judge them by the way they look, that may say very little about them what matters is what is within. He or she may look gorgeous or handsome on the outside but what about the inside does it have love it hatred it’s all a matter of choice so choose widely.

Some interesting things do happen in life In the case of Karen she misunderstood Dave who treated her only as a friend. She should know about that when she observed him taking a light of things. But, blindly followed him. She only assumed that Dave is liking her going a little bit further in understanding friendship.
In the latter case, Joan was used of. Frank used her with selfishness He looked at her wallet and not her beauty He looked at the power of her money. She thought that the man is running after her just because of her beauty. What a funny and sorry thing One is involving misunderstanding and the other a simple PLAY. One should know that it is not the only man who plays off. But, there are women also who play with men nowadays.
There are women who play with men and use them just for fulfilling their desires.

You know a man and a woman are two different beings, we both think differently, and we all have our own ways of showing love. So the thing here is people need to communicate their feelings openly and directly don’t beat about the bush just say it as it is because there will be misunderstandings and someone will eventually get hurt. It’s really not about women misunderstanding themselves, it’s really about the men misleading the women. A man can make you feel like he is truly in love with you, he will lead you on and get you so comfortable to the point of you thinking that you are all that he needs, when In actual truth he is only using you for his own selfish gains. This is to the guys if you are going out with a girl it would be prudent enough to state your intentions right from the begining instead of wasting the girls time. And for the ladies please even if this but promised you th3 world do not fret to ask questions that will give you a hint on whether the guy is serious not. Never assume that a guy or a girl lives you be keen in the way they beha a around you and you will get some clues of you are in or out.

There are many cheaters in the world just to have money in return. Jobs done in cheats never prosper.There is no short cut in everything we do and like. Cheaters surround the world, in an office and even in a writing site where we can find many scammers/ spammers , they are idiots and idolatry is a crime.

By the way, I like you photo image which I also have in my discussions. I also noticed some of my photos are seen in some bogs. I plan not to include photo in my discussion.

That is why nowadays women are not leaving men and are becoming more intolerable. They are learning to be bold enough to come out openly with verbal arguments and if possible they are even engaging others to beat their man. This is how the relationships are existing now
Men, most of them are now on account of their social interaction with different people are learning the meaning of LIVING TOGETHER IN HARMONY and are treating women with respect both inside the house as well as outside
Of course, the bashing of women is still taking place. But, there are always people who interfere in such occasion and are not hesitating to take the man bashing the woman to task, even by lodging a police complaint

This thing called marriage is getting more and more complicated owing to the fact that people are getting married at a very tender age and most of them are not actually ready for that commitment, we keep hearing of early divorce, there is the abuse, no one knows when to be submissive or when to compromise When a disagreement comes up everyone raises their voice, and what ends up happening us a lot of noise coming from either side. It’s quite unfortunate. Men who go discussing about their marital or home affairs to other women definitely have a problem. Most of the time man would keep quiet and try to deal with the problem in their own way. He will not even take his problem to a fellow man for fear of being taken as a coward. That is what a grain man would do. Butbthe young one’s will not even think twice about going to tell their friends about their arguments. So I think she has everything to do with it the older you are the better, you will handle things in a more mature way. There are those men who will confuse in another woman after thinking so hard about it. And they will only arrive to this decision when they feel talking to a woman will give them a better incite on how to deal with the problem. There is also a way he will approach it not by bashing the wife or calling her names. He knows that he needs to accord her all the respect that she needs.

Do you have any suggestions for this problem?

It is a psychological problem. It proves the person has not over come or understood the event.

In life there is always a downfall where you feel like giving up to the dreams of yours you were fighting for but when goals seems unreachable for you there is always a tendency that you would feel helpless but this difficulties should not be a hindrance but a test how far you can go to succeed in life. One should not lose hope but face the challenge with positive attitude, strong motivation, and perseverance to surpass them all in order to achieve the victory of success. Its more worth if you succeed with your own determination to succeed inspite of the many hardship your going to face in your life’s battle. In every difficulties that one person will encounter we should take it as our training ground to mold us into a better character to fight for our dreams, to aim high, for us to high high and reach for the stars that you’ve wanting to have.

There are people who exhibit this ego openly and this is very bad. They can not control their ego. The only thing they know is to show their superiority
But, what is the reason for this temperament? A thing to be examined. The reason may be due to internal problem

Some people remain cool They maintain a balanced posture irrespective of the nature of the position they are involved in. They always succeed and win over their enemies even.

Making enemies deliberately means the person is suffering from some psychological problem He should contact a doctor at the early stage itself

The reasoning or rationale for why a person would intentionally set out to make enemies eludes me. Can’t follow the “logic” at all. But for the record, even though we all know this, I’d like to state that some people have deadly enemies and they did nothing to bring on the HATE! They were not even trying! They HAVE enemies. They did not MAKE the enemies! And these enemies are deadly! That means these people’s lives are in peril just because …

Just sayin’.