Good post
We mistake marriage for weddings, we spent so much on the weddings and forget the marriage, marriage is the main thing, here in my country, we are so guilty of this.
Some can even get a loan for the wedding, after the wedding, the couple start to suffer, of what relevance is that. We buy a very expensive wedding gown that after the wedding, we can’t wear again.
We need to think and start taking things that important seriously.

These indeed are good pointers and that thing about all may not like us makes sense. Even if we do no wrong some just do not like us.

yes, it is never too late to do anything if you try.
Very good tips you have pointed out

I was a victim myself and had to be hospitalised and treated for some fractions. The effect of it is still there in that I need to restrict certain movements.

You are right, we must always be careful and always pray to God to protect us 24/7. I am so thankful to God for the safety He always giving me.

I avoid the needy people in general; this is not because I suffer from the lack of the human compassion but because I truly can’t help with some specific questions and issues.
The thing is that I have enough of my own life issues and problems, and the of another person who will additionally put the pressure on my energy and good will is just something that I can’t afford.
Sometimes is the best to let others or faith handle this.

If only people tapped their own resources life would have been better for those around. There are some who will perpetually seek help even though they have two strong feet to stand on.

There are many people who are like that today. They depend to other people always. It’s not bad to seek help from other people but do not abuse them. Most of the time, when you give your helping hand to other people, they will abuse you.

The worst is when relatives are involved -relatives that kids look up to. It is best kids are warned about to avoid anyone touching them in appropriate places and if that happens they should immediately report, no matter who that person is.

We have just learned at home my nephew a drug addict and he surrendered the lay, am feeling devastated. About your post, children must be protected.They must not go alone, plat alone. If possible, they have to play only inside the house.