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    kaylar wrote a new post, Arranged Marriages; They do work 8 years ago

    Imagine parents, who love their child, searching to find a life partner.   Parents know their kids, (if you are a parent, nod, if you are kid, trust me your folks do know you).

    I am not talking about parents […]

    • For my entire life I have only known of two people in “arranged marriages”. One couple stayed together and as best I can tell are happy to be with each other. The other couple ended their marriage in divorce. Don’t know if the guy was happy but the lady was relieved. She said love never developed between them even though they had a child. She did not divorce until her son was old enough to take care of himself. So based on my observation I guess the chances for a successful arranged marriage are 50/50. 🙂

      In my circles, we don’t really want to arrange the marriages for our children but we do hope and pray they will “marry in the Lord”.

      • What I have found, (talking to people who rejected the arranged marriage) is that after making their own mistakes they realised that they had looked for the wrong traits where the parents know what is important.

    • Marriage is marriage be arranged or love marriage because if you think that marriage is a sacred ceremony and a solid process of birth for someone because you married a girl now you will marry your daughter to pay your debt of nature.

      But I want to clarify what we’re talking about when we think of “failure” in marriage. Many people might think that failure equals divorce, but for others that is not so. There are many people who stay in marriages for decades, living unhappy lives and being miserable in their relationships.

      I wouldn’t think of this as a “successful” marriage. We might call it a marriage of convenience, a union born of and sustained in fear of living separate and independent lives, or an alliance rooted in and perpetuated by certain patterns of being and relating that are deeply ingrained and that the participants are afraid to challenge much less break.

      If we look at the couple as a unit, as an organism, we might say that the couple either “succeeds” or “fails” in being able to grow, as a couple, allowing for the growth and development of each partner in the couple

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, Nail Art Essentials Practice Makes Perfect 8 years ago

    Nail art is not only a fashion but true art – think of it as miniature paintings that you can carry with you around. Essentially you can use every single nail as a separate canvas and make miniature work of art. […]

    • Applying neat, even layers of nail polish is extremely tricky. Getting a clean and crisp nail polish line takes practice, patience, and a steady hand. If you happen to paint outside the lines, you can always clean up your mistakes!

      In order to produce a neat and even manicure, you must first remove any old polish from your nails. Acetone nail polish removers dry out your nail, and cuticle. If possible, use a non-acetone nail polish remover over an acetone nail polish remover.
      Place a cotton swab or ball over the opening of your nail polish remover. Make sure it is completely covering the opening of the bottle.
      Tip the bottle upside down and wait a few seconds for the cotton swab or ball to become saturated with the remover.
      Rub the saturated cotton swab or ball over your nails to remove the polish.
      Re-saturate your cotton swab or ball as needed.

      After removing your old nail polish, devote some time to clipping, shaping, and buffing your nails. Locate nail clippers, emery board, and a gentle buffer.
      Use the clippers to trim your nails, if needed.
      Smooth the edges of your nails with an emery board nail file. File your nails into a round, square, or rounded-square shape.
      Run over each nail with a slightly abrasive buffer to even out the surface of your nails.

      Once your nails are clipped, shaped, and buffed, take a moment to relax and pamper yourself. Retrieve a basin and fill it with warm water and a squirt of your gentle facial cleanser. Use a gentle body scrub to exfoliate your hands before soaking them.

      Submerge your hands in the warm, soapy water to remove the body scrub. Soak your hands for three minutes. Remove your hands from the basin and dry them on a clean towel.

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, Nail Art Essentials Starting with Manicure 8 years ago

    I do not fancy installed finger nails, gel nails are not my thing. The first reason is that I don’t  find that claws natural. It is easy to spot that lady has false talons on her hands. When fake nails outgrow […]

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, Selling Memorabilia, DVD, and Movies on eBay 8 years ago

    Everything related to celebrity is big business, people want their photo and their movies, autographs and  even clothing. Fans go so crazy that sending personal things like love letters and  even clothing ( y […]

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, The Cult Vintage Computer Atari 800 8 years ago

    This is another very old computer, even older  from MSN Companion which was produced distant 1999 and discontinued in 2003.

    Atari is a cult vintage computer which was produced in 1979 and stopped manufacturing […]

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic Woman is Trouble on Earth in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    @evilelf I think he do speak about his household because none of us omnipresent and can see other people life,  other than maybe  soup operas ( LOL).

    For what I noticed today is that some of my comments exist in history but do not add up in my point total so I think that these discussion he made will not add to our points even if we reply to th…[Read more]

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic Woman is Trouble on Earth in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    @evilelf I think he do speak about his household because none of us omnipresent and can see other people life,  other than maybe  soup operas ( LOL).

    For what I noticed today is that some of my comments exist in history but do not add up in my point total so I think that these discussion he made will not add to our points even if we reply to th…[Read more]

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic LiteracyBase my point counter is not moving in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 8 years ago

    Hmm, this is weird, now it moved for new discussion.

    But for comment I no moving.

    In history I have  noted new points but in top counter it is not added?

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    Your Seldom started the topic LiteracyBase my point counter is not moving in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 8 years ago

    My point counter in right up corner not moving today.

    Yesterday perfect occurrence of points with no fail.

    Today nothing is moving. I made  comments but no movement.

    Is anyone else having   same issues. or noticed something wrong?

    Is this cleaning for yesterday spam attack, we have so many fake comments?

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic Woman is Trouble on Earth in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    @kubera

    No. Support asks who that writer who post against women is, I give them link to him.

     

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    Anitah Gimase replied to the topic People who hate women in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    Any man who does not regard women with respect is someone who has issues with the female gender. If you follow his steps you will find that he may have been raised in a family where his father never regarded his mother in a good eay. Or maybe he never showed any kind of respect to his wife in front of the kids. And that can cause a lot of harm un…[Read more]

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic Why do Women Change Lovers? in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    Personal life of other is none of your business, nor it is yours to say who is useless and who is not based only on their private life.

    I don’t understand how do you expect anyone to believe in things you are saying when you have no other thing to backup your statement or logic but only your false beliefs.

    Society has no usage or misusage of my…[Read more]

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    Your Seldom replied to the topic Why do Women Change Lovers? in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    @sauda

    That is why is best to avoid gender studies because all this is futile and it  puts shame on both genders, plus these negative absorbents of darkness give the liturgical slap to whole human race on every corner, you can bet me on this.

    I guess this is not who has many lovers, but how to different a human being, man or woman, from a s…[Read more]

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    Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Why do Women Change Lovers? in the forum Group logo of Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships 8 years ago

    I think that question should havebeen asked in the reverse. Why do men have so many lovers. Me being a woman i wouldnt want to have more than one lover. Why because when a woman loves she looks at only one person and she will do whatever she can so that she can keep that one man in her life until death tears them apart. Women are loyalto their men…[Read more]

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    Anitah Gimase replied to the topic THANKSGIVING in the forum Group logo of Food for the thoughtFood for the thought 8 years ago

    In our country we dont celebrate thanks giving but we celebrate Christmas which is a fun time for everyone. We usually have dinners and lunches that involves the family members cousins and other relatives and friends as well. There is usually a lot of eating singing and and genearllt just catching up especially for those who have been away.

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, MSN Companion – Microsoft Windows Personal Gadget 8 years ago

    I agree that technology is last sphere where should I put my foot in, but some things are too interesting not to be described.  I am sure you will like to know what a very old personal computer looks like, yes? […]

    • The computes made by the Microsoft Company is peerless but it will get popularity with the passage of time because spreading its fame all over the world will take time when people will use it and will declare its better or worst results before public of the whole world.

      As mentioned in the above article that its result is not good that is why this Microsoft effort goes in vain because it practical filed its result are not good. Its downloading is not so nice as of laptop downloading.

      After this slowly and slowly such types of computers vanished from the computer markets due to incorrect functions of the computers. the buyers of the mini computers complained that the functions are working well.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Don’t Get Mad, Get Everything 8 years ago

    The title is a quote from Ivanna Trump, a previous wife of Donald Trump, in relation to her divorce settlement.

    It is advice that serves women well, especially when the reason for divorce is adultery.

    Often […]

    • Yes, but you forget one very important thing. Ivana was married to rich man, lived in status where women are respected and have rights, and had something to put into her pocket. Many wives in world put out with drunk with no property, keep taking violence like a good morning coffee and even verbal violence and beatings from relatives simply because they have no resources to escape situation and nobody will help them. How will a victim of domestic violence cope with emotion if everything is against?

    • I wrote a number of articles as to how to deal with Domestic Violence on this site, which answers your questions.

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, Disturbing Misconception About Marriage and Family 8 years ago

    It is an easy thing to consider that a marriage is something bad if you started it from some bad reasons.

    Human beings are social  and communicative, they are inclined to live together – not separated from […]

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    Your Seldom wrote a new post, There are too Many Differences in the World 8 years ago

    When I read some opinions in my discussions and blog post I wrote, I see how much different my culture is from that culture on the east, or from some groups in my country. I don’t know. Maybe it is not a culture, […]

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    Your Seldom joined the group Group logo of Lovers Of BeautyLovers Of Beauty 8 years ago

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