I just don’t want to give my id data online and regret it. Now I know one more page where I can not participate because they ask personal ID card. Bulling online – click and delete contact, very effective.

Online bullying is something that has been with us for such a long time. Many people don’t realize it until it’s too late. There is some unusual I formationthat people ask for and that should be suspicious enough to make someone know that things are not right.

I generally take the bull by the horn and show them their right place.

Please, is there any body that would guide me through this litracybase?

I hear various arguments FOR and AGAINST social media and also “in between”. I use social media for my home business projects primarily because it’s a an audience and it’s like “free advertising” (unless you want to pay for more followers and traffic). The fact that I meet new people and make new friends is an added “benefit”.

Zuckerberg (Facebook), Page (Google Plus) and all those other tech geniuses have allowed everyday people like you and me to create social accounts free and you get to connect with people you may not have had a chance to communicate with otherwise, and possibly grow a customer or subscriber base for your websites and blogs.

In my humble opinion, there are more advantages to using social media than disadvantages. But I do agree with you that it’s not necessary to spend a huge amount of time on those sites. That can be counter-productive.

Every new innovation will have pros and cons. The cons when it overtakes the pros then the problem starts automatically. It increases not only our stress but also creates stress among others.

Recently I have come across a post with hate speech against some section of the people of a Religion. It was a recorded video of a Member of Parliament of India. He was speaking totally thrash. Once we hear the speech one is sure to develope hatred against a particular community of a religion. Could we stop the person who has determined to post it and bring to the limelight the activities of the Member of Parliament? The person who had posted it should feel the social responsibility and see that such posts should not instigate hatred among the people.

The social network sites are nowadays being used for effective interaction by the terrorists and other anti-social elements. Both educated and uneducated are using these site for their own purpose.

These sites are taking sides in the matter of politics and making a big franchise for a particular political party. This is very bad concept. The members of political parties directly scold each other on the websites which will be quite funny to watch. Added to this some youth post dirty pictures and using these sites for pornography. Even ladies are hesitating to explore such sites. Ultimately they are being disappointed and forced to withdraw their account from the website itself.

As you rightly said it is only certain important and useful posts that need attention. Not each and every post of some Tom, Dick, and Harry.

You say right wise men earn everywhere on earth be social media or mart or other country because earning rests on birth qualities just as some have traits to be a doctor, some to be lawyers, some to businessmen, some to be leaders, some to drivers, some to be come engineers, some to be pilots, some to teachers…

Before you become famous online you´ve got to pick a platform, now if it´s money you´re interested in then YouTube is always going to be the place to start.

If it´s easy fame you´re looking for then Tumblr is the place for you and if it´s constant fame you´re looking for then Facebook is going to be a sure thing.

Twitter is one of the easiest sites to become famous on, but it´s one of the only sites that does n´t really have any value from being famous. You won´t earn loads of money and you´ll never be noticed.

Use face book, twitter, Instagram, tumbler, blog…but you me creative and you will earn very and get popularity among the readers of all over the world.

Oh confidence, this is the reason why our Miss Universe Pia Wurtzbach won the tilt because of her answer during the question and answer portion when she said she is “confidently beautiful with a heart.” Confidence is one of the attitude and traits that every Filipino must develop because most of us have low self-esteem. We are good and we are outstanding but we have little confidence in ourselves which always reflect in our face. I guess we filipino should have to develop this attitude.

Confidence is the cream of life. Whatever work we undertake and is given should be attended to with confidence. Though the term confidence is an intrinsic property of one, it should be viewed both as an intrinsic and extrinsic.
A boss will ask you to do a job because he chose you for doing that particular job. In his opinion you are a more suitable person meant for doing it than others. He is having confidence in you.
Now your job is to do it with dedication and do it perfectly reaching to the expectations of your Boss. You can not do it as per your own inner sense and submit something only to displease your Boss. Here your inner will not workout. You will not have the appreciation from anybody including your boss. Here you can not argue with others even if you are right in doing that job with your own confidence. If you do it and still argue about what is right as per your inner will then it will not be called confidence but only as an arrogance. People will hate you.
Thus confidence is both intrinsic and extrinsic. You can not break the confidence of your boss on you and do things as per your whims and fancies.
The confidence speaks about the perfection in making and attempting a work that is given and taken up.

If you are asked to take up some job you are supposed to do it with dedication , with due respect to the established norms and procedures. If you do it as per your choice and preferences people treat you either as a lunatic or as an Arrogant.
Sincerity , obedience, and perfection are the three jewels of Confidence.
As a social creature one should look to the social acceptance of the work done. You can not say ‘I go ahead unmindful of the criticism from others’ it does not carry any value. Take criticism as a positive aspect and try to analyze the work done whether it is actually suitable for criticism or not. If the criticism is correct one should accept it and making necessary corrections accordingly to the job done. Even before that have as many consultations with other experts and elderly people as possible and confirm whether the criticism is a healthy one. If it is so, then nothing is wrong In accepting the criticism.
Seeing positive side of criticism is another jewel of Confidence.

I like what you have shared very true indeed. If we listen to people and do what they want then we are loosing our self confidence thinking that what we are told is what is good. When you go out to look for a job do you always follow all the things that you are told? Am sure you don’t, why because you trust yourself to do the right thing. Confidence can come in different ways just the way you have listed them above but there are those people who will take it in the wrong concept as usual.

Life pleasure and progress rest in confidence and confidence comes from real knowledge and knowledge come from the holy books reading in depth.
Every human contains a powerful success mechanism, which is goal-striving. This power success mechanism only becomes activated when a clear goal is in view. Therefore, sit down and decide what you really want to accomplish.

Do not borrow another person’s dream. Set your goals and believe in their possibility. If you are not passionate and convinced enough about where you are going in life, someone else will succeed in convincing you to look the other way.

If you have not got a clear vision yet for your life, take time to identify what you want your life goals to be. Ensure that what you have chosen is in harmony with your talents and passions. You will not be able to endure in an undertaking beyond the level of your love and passion for it.

Make sure that what you build your life around is what you really enjoy doing. “A goal properly set is halfway reached,” said Zig Ziglar, the American motivator. One of the ways to properly set a goal is to make sure that you set a goal that you will be really looking forward to pursuing.

Unless you detach yourself from the false self, the true self, who is creative, energetic and result-driven, cannot emerge. Highly successful people are those who have tamed their ego and are willing to take the next available actions even in the face of fear and discouragement.

Their intention is to try many things and fail quicker so that they know what works or doesn’t work. Successful people are more passionate about success than their fear of failure or momentary disappointment.

Having confidence is indeed important. But at the same time we must not be so over confident that we enter into the habit of disregarding people and their ideas or be rude to people. We must try to maintain the balance of having confidence to strive for greatness and to achieve our fullest potential, being successful and being respectful.

I don’t think we need to worry so much on Relationships The very concept is totally fading away. Give me money, I will give you want you to want” is the only concept existing nowadays. To think about relationships and how to maintain them is of no use in these days of technological development where nobody will have time to care for each other. If you get a leisure, spend some time for them that too if the other agrees readily. Otherwise, each will have different timings and different routes which may sometimes meet some point provided they are not parallel routes….which never meet at any time.

In most of the cases, the Relationships are distant lines only. It is only because of lack of time and busy work. It does not mean they lack Relationship, love, and affection. But, for the paucity of time only. Still, they have not taken the route of Parallel lines.

The concept of Parallel relationship will be coming shortly and it is not far off. For this, there is no need to talk about anything like love and affection. “Because we are tied up with each other . we are supposed to live together for the sake of society.”. This mentality is developing in the society very much and it is gaining ground. Once it reaches to a considerable number then everything will be accepted and there will not be anything wrong living in a room but leading separate lives but respecting each other.

It is wonderful when wonderful friendship turns in romantically relationship and eventually after time in marriage. It has value at most to be stable because friends already know one another and they know to respect one another needs and way of doing things too. Lovers sometimes argue around trivial things that make life complicated and unbearable but are not important for life and that leads to nothing interesting.

Believer of Adam and Eve. Man and woman. Have a blessed day.

I firmly believe that friendship can be a solid foundation of any relationship where you can get to know each other very well, know your flaws, your strength, and weakness. While courtship is a prelude for ever lasting relationship. They it is much better to have a broken engagement than to have a broken marriage. If you’re looking for true love pray to God, and ask the Blessed Virgin Mary to guide you in your search of looking for a perfect partner to be with you for the rest of your life and you will see by the help of Our Blessed Mother in heaven you’ll find the perfect one that was intended for you alone. I believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. You should value your partner as a person of worth, accept everything about him, will stick to him no matter what, be loyal to him always. Most importantly, put God in the center of your relationship to make it work.

I believe in this reason, long lasting relationship are build with good friendship which rapport between them then molded in emotional, psychological and not just bind by a piece of paper. If only the couples can have this thing, their relationship would really last long.

Yes you say right but there is a great difference between friendship and relationship we must understand the difference so that our relationship and friendship could walk side by side in practical field.

A person can have many type of relations with another person either in shape of love or business purposes or friendship. And at the same times all are can be different from each others also. A good relation based on foundation of good understating, consensus, compromising and caring for each other either it is a family, love or friendship matter. Your collective behavior will decide the tenure of your association.

I find the main difference between relationship and friendship read these carefully:
Key Differences

Relationship is more wider term than friendship. Even friendship is emerged from relationship.
Relationship can be in two form natural or deliberate while friendship is always in deliberate form and people choose friends by their sole intention.

Good friendship is the sign of good relation as well but good relationship does not means that there exists friendship also.
Relationship always has legal aspect for example in case of dispute between business parties, family disputes or inheritance problems you can seek the help of law and enforce the legal values also.

But in case of friendship there is no legal value. You cannot legally challenge the mutual consideration in case of friendship.
Level of trustworthiness, loyalty and trust in friendship is more than relationship.

People are more open about emotions, feelings and expectations in friendship in comparison to relationship.

Most of the relationship cases are based on win-lose situation while friendship always based on lose-win or win-win situation.

Being a couple in marriage is one thing and being friends is another different thing. Most people get into marriages with the hope that things will just run smoothly, but marriage is a lot of work. When you become friends with someone you really have to work towards it so that you can keep it going.
A relationship is usually started as a result of true friendship, that is what keeps the relationship longer. Because you both know each other in and out, you know the strengths and weaknesses of that person, so getting along is not quite a problem. When they do you wrong then you know what to do, if they react in a bad way you will know how ready too. So relationships can be a very tricky affair but can be something that you can grow to live with in the long run.

I think cyber criminals are more dangerous for people owning companies and big money and not for small people using Facebook and games. If used in bad way we can lose credentials to some fraud, but in now present community it is easy to trace and identify all troubles. There is no need to be alerted if you have no money in bank either like me. What cyber criminal can steal away from me online? 4 dollars I earned last month? Hehe that funny…

The top and hopefully most well known place to observe your adversary is your attack surface. If you’re a financial institution or managed security service provider (MSSP), we could include things touching your customer’s attack surface as being another top place to observe your adversary. Analysis of logs sourced from your security devices is a great way to identify the type of cyber threat activity that is impacting you directly.

Although Intel 471 is an intelligence vendor, we still believe that an organization’s #1 source of relevant threat data is their own attack surface. One of the first steps into developing a threat intelligence program should be the identification, consumption, and analysis of all relevant internal sources of information to include attack surface data.

However, when it comes to cybercrime and hacktivism knowing the actual person behind the keyboard provides additional options for a victim organization, such as submitting a complaint to law enforcement. There is continuous debate in the information security community about the usefulness of attribution of threat actors and groups, but we believe that attribution to various levels (person, group, nation-state, etc.) provides valuable insights that support decision-making at all levels.

The most value of actor-centric information lies with identifying motivations, goals and intent. This enables analysts to produce predictive intelligence that can drive proactive decision making and action at numerous levels of an organization.

We all have gifts just as you have said. And we all have to nurture them accordingly. Like when a child is born, they grow up, knowing or loving something, and when the parents see this they are supposed to motivate the child through what they like, and this way the child would grow up getting better at what they do. And when the parents show interest in what the child loves, the child is going to put in more effort and work harder at what they do.

Gift is the peace of mind and heart but the gift given by other any good [performance is pure encouragement for future work. Gift has more importance in life than any other thing in life. Gift giving is something that should not be a chore.

It must come from the heart. When you give gifts, you are giving something willingly without wanting something in return. Making someone feel special is more than enough reason to make you give more. It tells the receiver that you were thinking about them.

Gift giving is an act of self-gratification. It is a good way of strengthening relationships. If you are in a friendship or a relationship, you should always show the other person how much you care for him or her. You don’t need to wait for an occasion in order to give a gift. Give one to show how much you love someone

There are some instances when you need to give back to someone who has helped you or provided you a favor. Gift giving is an act that can show that you are thankful. Giving and receiving is the purest of reasons to give gifts. The receiver will truly feel your gratitude when you give gifts for elevating happiness and well being.

The import of advocating cannot be overemphasized. It is needed for good governance to be achieved. It is the scale the balances the society. I sometimes call it constructive criticism. When it judiciously utilized it shape an ideal society. It is a tool for checkmating erring leadership.My believe is that a society that is devoid of sincere and thorough advocators is not an ideal society.

This time technology is abused by bad elements. yes true, it is so beneficial and never be taken for any criminal activity. It seems human beings want to explore the unknowns thru computers and internet.Many crimes soar anywhere in the world because of technology.I can no longer describe how they disregard the beauty of mother earth that produces wealth and health to man.

Cybersecurity is the body of technologies, processes and practices designed to protect networks, computers, programs and data from attack, damage or unauthorized access. In a computing context, the term security implies cybersecurity.

One of the most problematic elements of cybersecurity is the quickly and constantly evolving nature of security risks. The traditional approach has been to focus most resources on the most crucial system components and protect against the biggest known threats, which necessitated leaving some less important system components undefended and some less dangerous risks not protected against.

Such an approach is insufficient in the current environment. Adam Vincent, CTO-public sector at Layer 7 Technologies (a security services provider to federal agencies including Defense Department organizations), describes the problem:

To deal with the current environment, advisory organizations are promoting a more proactive and adaptive approach. The National Institute of Standards and Technology (NIST), for example, recently issued updated guidelines in its risk assessment framework that recommended a shift toward continuous monitoring and real-time assessments.

that’s something we all must keep in mind and practice, be optimistic

Concentration is the key to success in every branch of life and peace of mind and soul lies in both of them. When you go out to war against your enemies, and see horses and chariots and an army larger than your own, you shall not be afraid of them, for the Lord your God is with you, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt.

And when you draw near to the battle, the priest shall come forward and speak to the people and shall say to them, ‘Hear, O Israel, today you are drawing near for battle against your enemies: let not your heart faint. Do not fear or panic or be in dread of them, for the Lord your God is he who goes with you to fight for you against your enemies, to give you the victory

There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate was laid a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man’s table. Moreover, even the dogs came and licked his sores.

The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried, and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off and Lazarus at his side. …

Hate is a bad thing but those who hate others have bad past since their childhood. Their genes of love dies in childhood due to corrupt atmosphere and environment because children cannot choose two things: their parents and environment at any cast.

Those who have in heart are those who jealous and greedy. Keep in mind, if some hates someone means theta there is no place of love in their hearts because the place of heart has taken hate. Now again imbue in their hearts love hate will leave the hearts at once.

Bible says about love and hate : Corinthians 13:4-7

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

Back in the 1970s a man walked across a University Campus with a sign that said F*ck (the U was in the sign) He was arrested and pleased Freedom of Speech and the Court agreed with him.

John Lennon did a song called Working Class Hero. On the radio it is bleeped because he has a line where he says, ‘until you are so f*cking crazy..’

Since then, to cause the greatest amount of mental hiccups the ‘politically correct’ terminology has arrived. We can not say what we think or feel or mean because it is banned.

This does not mean our opinions have changed or our views, we just suppress them. We say nothing, but do things.

We all have freedom of speech. We don’t all choose to exercise our freedom of speech. Some prefer to pray silently and let God speak on their behalf. Because when God talks, everybody listens. 🙂 An atheist or unbeliever may laugh at my comments. But I’m not being funny. I’m serious!

Listen me carefully my respected readers, speech is a process of imagine, thinking and giving your thinking practical shape via chosen words is called speech in modern language. Freedom means to say something keeping in mind what is wrong and what is right is called freedom of speech. I call it the sense of right and wrong.

Politician make such laws that we cannot say wrong thing about them in any way or you cannot say any negative thing about them. Those in which freedom of speech is means the public may say what they think about something or someone.

The real meaning of freedom of speech is to say truth not lie lie is not the part of human nature is man’s self created formula to avoid shame in public. On the political level the public may say just their conscious but what the public will will be acted upon never, never because freedom of speech is to befool the public in a technical way.

As in USA freedom of speech is but what the public say no body acts upon it why? because they know that if we do what the public say will lead us to hell.

Freedom of speech does not mean to hoot other or disgrace other keeping in mind the freedom speech. Freedom of speech means in the real sense advise someone morally so that they could mend selves and nothing else.