Excellent question in the end of your article “One wonders what is going on.” Over the past few years, it seems to me as if the Western media is constantly pushing stories and images of homosexuality in our homes through plays, books, movies, and news. No story seems to be complete without a homosexual character even where it is not needed in the plot or has got nothing to do with the story.

I must agree that it being a movie that caters for children and their parents, that part should really be cut.

Indeed it seems that homosexuality now is now being injected in movies. Good if it is to make people laugh, it will be okay and can be watched by children, since gays are people filled with humor.

Actually, I haven’t seen that movie yet. Maybe because it’s the for children type of movie that’s why I am not interested, although I can watch that should I want to. I think the kid in me has already slept just waiting to be awakened.

Though here in the Philippines the children are used to seeing gays in fact some of them are already gays at a young age.

However, in your country where it is not yet openly accepted, it understandable that the said part be cut instead. That’s a good move of your government. I salute your government for doing that.

LOL. If people could re-write the Bible they’d make the relationship between David and Jonathan homosexual. Believe me I’ve heard people try to argue that! So there’s a gay scene in the latest version of “Beauty and Beast”. Why am I not surprised?

And I am and my husband one of them. We both don’t say sorry when we realize our mistake. Although, we would hug to make up for the non-existent sorry.

Yes, I would nag him and accuse him too when he didn’t answer my call. I would text him nagging words also.

And when he arrives home, he would explain and show to me his phone – drained. I would feel ashamed of myself, but won’t say sorry. I would hug him instead.

I think we understand each other when we are sorry because we both would hug instead of say the very difficult word sorry.

Funny, how he waited for your response. He is a bit of a paranoid. Imagine waiting for you when it is just a virtual place.

WHen I am on a blogging site, I don’t actually expect to be responded at once because I know that we all have different time zones.

But when my comment gets a response at once, I would really have a nice interaction with that person. We would comment on each other’s response until it gets too long and funny.

Arguments are often caused by misunderstanding or lack of communication. Some people who are having a bad day, sometimes lash out, to start an argument with the wrong person or it could be the right person. This does not make it right, to start an argument. One thing that I realize, is that nothing can be resolved when this happens.

When a person is living a miserable life, this is also a reason that a person might become argumentative. It is hard to ignore this person, but would be the best result so the argument will not be escalated. Arguments can turn out to be very ugly if it is not handled correctly. Someone has to be the better adult about it.

There are times when a person wants to have the last word, which can also trigger an argument. I have learned that you are not always going to get your point across to a person. It does not necessarily have to be your fault, but you have to know when to let things go. If there is no reason for you to respond to this person, then don’t. Sometimes you can just be tested by certain people, to see if they can get a reaction from you. If you bite, then the argument is on!

So just be mature about the situation and handle it like an adult. If a person wants to start an argument, let them argue by themselves. Talking, being civilized, is often the best solution when an argument occurs. If there is no reasoning, then you need to walk away.

It is so important to show to our family how much we love them and how much we care for them. Let us count every moment they are with us. Take care all.

I do agree with you. There is nothing like permanent or impermanent. Everything goes on changing. If a particular situation makes you happy it will not remain forever. So much so, if a particular event makes you unhappy it will not be so forever. Hence, there is no need to take anything seriously. The status, luxurious life, and the bank balance will not remain forever but it is certain that you need a minimum place after your death. This is what makes life funny. Even then we are unable to grasp the truth of life. But, surprisingly, even this truth is also not permanent. A big question now will be ‘what and why is this mutability existing in the world?

It drives us to the conclusion that MUTABILITY IS THE LAW OF LIFE.

You are right, everything on earth is temporary. This is the reason why we should value each moment of it, to use it the best we can like how we treat our kids, husband, parents, relatives and friends. What you had done in that short moment can be a lasting impression for them.

It is important we should like the group, people, set up . We must feel encouraged to participate. I visit now and then and post my ideas as comments and I also occasionally make posts. good day

That is true siva and thanks , life is temporary so we have to exhaust everything to make our family happy and we have to be happy despite burdens that may be put on our shoulder for it is from them that we become truly human and a better person. Somehow we want to question how life deals our own ways, but everything is program by our destiny , unless deviate from the standard and that is the time our right path be ruined by some foolish desires. No matter how long a road is, one can reach the end. Thanks for your very nice thoughts on this matter, very much appreciated my freind, Take care all the time.

I so agree. While we are living, see to it that you don’t say things that can demean any person. Be tactful with whatever that you may say to a person.

Be generous. Share your blessings if you have a lot, because they can return a hundredfold.

Laugh a lot too and make people happy too, even if it is at your own expense.

That way, when you die, the people will remember you for all those happy , nice and good things that you have done, while you were still alive.

@Dina, thanks for your nice share of this topic, yes, true we will be remembered if do good things but there are also others who remember someone according to his bad deeds hehehe not the good one.Let us anyway utilize every moment while we are still breathing with God’s air. Let us be happy all the time and be contented with what we have to avoid disappointment of life.Life is what we make it, so if possible let us make life worth to live an cherish by day by day.

@SAMBASIVAN.S., Hi? Thanks for dropping by very much appreciated share of this topic. Yes your suggestion is so vital to be happy and make friendships.

@Ruby, Hi Ruby? Sorry for the late reply to your nice thought and feeling of this blog.It is true that each one must treasure every moment in ur life for we never remain young and healthy so while we can still afford to be happy by doing something to amuse ourselves, let us do it.Let us make our family , friends, neighbors be happy with us , for us so we can inherit all the time happiness and peace the most important in life to discover peace of mind.

Life is what we make it, so we have to prefer happiness.Sadness does not make sense. It only ruins health.

Happiness or otherwise everything is in our hands.We are responsible for our own fate. If I am not happy I try to be happy. Just search, what makes you happy? If one can not understand for himself, he can not understand anybody. There will be suspicion, greed for money, dissatisfaction, distrust, all other evils crop up to make me unhappy easily.

I am constructing a house. Today the builder reached along with the expenditure incurred towards digging of borewell. It was somewhat higher. I just asked him to reduce the bill. Finally, it was settled and some ten thousand rupees was reduced. I do not know whether it goes to the builder or to the Borewell person who undertook the digging. If I constantly thinking about as to whom it goes, I should suspect the builder also who is actually entrusted with the construction work. If I suspect him there is no meaning in it as he has to take up many things and take care of many things. So, mere suspicion without any result or proof makes me unhappy just for ten thousand when the construction cost if running in lakhs.

We have to compromise in some aspects. Further, self-satisfaction is another factor which makes one always happy, Most of the people in my area are suggesting this and that, but I can not follow them as it would add up to my estimated expenditure. So I have to be strict and should not give way aspiring things which are beyond my financial capacity. So, the money factor can never make me unhappy.

So, everything goes by our own selection of things. How we choose them, and how we respond to the circumstances is very very important in life to keep oneself always happy.

Thank you siva for your very valuable thoughts about life how to deal it happily or not at all the time. yes, it is up to the person what to do to make life a little bit bolder and stronger that despite difficulties, we will never surrender and give up life. for as long as we live there is always problem,but solvable problems.

Cely this is another good one from you. Keep posting.

It really depends on the person if he will be happy or not; it is only him who can decide on what kind of life he wants to have; sometimes friends or loved ones can influence him, or if he listens to their good advice.

Being alive and healthy are among the things that he should think of so he will always be happy.

Some very wise and encouraging words. At times, we feel sad and dejected, but we need to perhaps take a day as it comes, and not bother too much about things that are not in our control.

IchchheMrityu, Thanks friend,m very much appreciated hehehe. Thanks for dropping by and share your most inspiring words.LOL.

appreciate the topic its nicely posted, and i guess we all can find happeness if you know where to search or how to reach it, or simply by being simple
simplicity brings happiness and that makes what called satisfaction, so that is to me is happiness , thanks again that was enjoyable and super powering for many who read it i guess, keep the good work and keep it as simple and organized as this one

dealio , Thank you friend for dropping by and extending your inspiring words on this topic, very much appreciated. It promotes self- esteem. That is true happiness is never hard to find.We can be happy even in a simple thing like making others happy like picking up the things that fall to the ground,That is already a very great source of happiness to both you and the person owner of those fallen things, There are so many ways to be happy in the most simplest way.

We need to be happy for that is what God wants us to do. Let us find means to move on if feel something bad to an experience you might have.Sometimes it is hurting if problem is so difficult to face and solve.

Change is a must if sense you are not the same you in the past.