My family has been turned upside down and backwards. Over the past year I have been hurt by one man and loved by another. The only problem is I have kids that are involved in the whole thing. Me and their father separated and I think it is having an effect on my oldest son. I just don’t know what to do with him. He has been having outbursts and anger issues lately. Is it my fault that he is doing this or is it because I’m not with his father anymore. I need help..