Let’s get something perfectly clear, okay? Relationships only get boring when someone isn’t trying anymore. Relationships only get boring when someone isn’t putting in as much effort as before. Relationships only get boring when someone’s heart isn’t in it like it used to be. Relationships only get boring when someone is starting to outgrow you. Relationships only get boring when someone has gotten too comfortable and too complacent. Relationships only get boring when someone constantly argues with you over every little thing. Relationships only get boring when someone has met someone else who made them wish they were single again. Relationships only get boring when someone is no longer afraid to lose you. Relationships only get boring when someone is slowly getting to the point where they can see a life without you. Relationships only get boring when someone doesn’t feel the need to fight for you any longer. Relationships only get boring when someone has fallen out of love. So if you think your relationship has gotten boring, that’s because you’re the one who’s still paying attention, who’s still emotionally invested, and who’s still wanting to make it work. The thing is, you’re the only one and somewhere along the way, you’ve already lost them. Relationships only get boring when someone has given up, and that’s something you need to understand.