Naa…! I truly don’t think it’s like that how you’ve said it, life is like stages, differences in levels ‘thats what makes up grow’ sometimes a new friend to per-say, ‘share a thought or point a view,’ not in any case where you feel like ditching any one of your families or old time friends, that would be not so loving nor loyal at all.
Sometimes all you have to do is just give it some time. ‘Of course we all need time ,’ it’s always a good thing to be loyal to friends/family etc, but first one has to remember to be loyal, consistent in learning the lessons on loving self first. It all comes with grow physical and spiritual development.
Hope you find my points motivative, hope it help in your in terms of your topics