Although we may not always want to give in, to decide to compromise, sometimes it’s difficult to due so depending on the situation. There are many reasons why some refuse “to compromise.” If compromising will cause more complications then perhaps it may not be best to settle. If compromising will incur some settling down then perhaps doing so is best. Not all the time though. Some will try to take advantage when compromising occurs. There certainly has to be boundaries set. There are some who are willing to step over individuals who constantly compromise.
In order to generate some “peace” there will need to be some modifications. Compromising doesn’t mean that any person is being a pushover. If compromising will make a difference within an environment then doing so should occur. There are some who may be set in their ways and may refuse to compromise no matter what the solutions are. Too many have faced a lot of misuse when compromising. There are some who are willing to be reasonable when compromises occur. Not all will but at least there’s some headway if some decide to do so.
Too many find themselves being victimized for over compromising. Meaning they’re not setting any boundaries at all. Every person should choose to set “boundaries” if not then individuals will certainly try to take advantage. When we’re being taken advantage of then we’ll become frustrated not only with the persons who are taking advantage but with ourselves. So many refuse to compromise because of the reasons supplied here but there are other reasons.
Rarely would any want to admit to being wrong and that could be a reason why some may choose to not compromise. I’ve “discovered” that there’s a lot of people who will test to see how far they’re able to go. The ones who continuously do so may not receive any compromising at all. Even the ones who have made numerous mistakes may deserve to receive some compromising. Depends on the person of course. There are some who figure out that they’ve stepped the boundaries.
We should at least speak up about what we’re willing and not willing to tolerate. Tolerating too much can build stress. There should be thoughts of coming up with better “solutions” so that peacefulness can occur. It’s difficult to obtain peacefulness when there’s a lot of drama taking place. There has to be better ways to make sure that environments aren’t riddled with a lot of chaos. “To compromise doesn’t mean weakness in fact doing so may demonstrate strength. ” (Tanikka Paulk)
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