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October 23, 2017

There’s nothing wrong with giving a pat on the back. Some have worked extremely hard and have not yet received the rewards deserved. For some the rewards may come later in life and some receive their rewards quite early. We may never know exactly when the rewards may come. “Through a patient attitude we all can receive what we’ve hoped for but there can not be too much pride.” By: (Tanikka Paulk) Of course there is nothing wrong with having confidence and to be humble is pleasing of God. One quick wink and our lives can change. One day we may be in one position and the next on a higher level.

Growth can Occur at Any Time

There should be a desire to grow to want to obtain more knowledge as well as skills. Some refuse to do so thinking that they’re incapable of advancing. We’re capable of doing some of the most majestic things. Growth can occur each day. If we’ve completed a task then we’ve grown. To be able to be productive and discover what we’ve never discovered before. There’s a lot to learn and we’re still learning. As we continue to work on our skills, we’re continuing to get better, we’ll find that doing so will generate more “abundance. ”

Don’t be afraid to “advance.” Some are too afraid to try and some have tried but suffered setbacks and decided to not try again. Some have been deterred away from advancing. Of course we should have the opportunities but we can also miss out due to being selfish. Another wink and we could find that what we thought could never occur occurs. Never lose hope. The journey may take sometime but through being motivated and driven. There can be more gained then one can even imagine.

A lot believe that they have failed because of not achieving in a certain amount of time. No! Don’t believe the words which come out of some folks mouths. Don’t listen to failure. Meaning don’t believe that failure has occurred. Every move is success. A small task is considered success. Of course some perceive that they’re more successful than others due to their wealth. “Success is a State of the Mind.” by: (Tanikka Paulk). We’ll get there when we believe that we deserve to be at a certain level.

After awhile we’ll become accustom to advancing. To achieve can generate gladness. Not all will expect certain individuals to achieve or at least to obtain more than they’ve obtained. Too many become weakened in the mind due to thinking that all they’ve “achieved” was useless. Not at all. Every achievement deserves to be rewarded. Not every person will be thrilled to see others achieve. Some believe that late starters won’t achieve what they’ve achieved but there are lots of people who have started late in life and end up accomplishing more than the ones who started earlier.

The key is to Believe in Self

Believe in self is very important. If no one appears to believe in the person who’s in pursuit of greater then the person has to be the believer. Not every person will want to see the ‘rise” occur. Some may become intimidated. There are some who will try to pull down because they may not want to see the advancement. Insecurities could be the reason. There are a lot of people who may feel insecure for whatever reasons. Although there are some who do. Don’t allow their insecurities to prevent the “excelling.”

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Takes a lot of Patience to be in a Leadership Position

Oh my goodness, it’s not easy dealing with a lot of troubled individuals, it’s quite obvious that they’re troubled because because of their actions. Any person who has ever been in a “leadership” position would be aware that the tasks at hand aren’t easy ones. There are some who have to constantly deal with difficult people day in and day out. Some may not understand at all no matter how many times the information is explained. Of course there will be days when one may may not want to deal with the matters. Some leaders have fallen and never recovered from their fall.

There’s certainly a lot of difficult people which can cause “society” to be come even more unstable. How does one deal with such individuals? For me=(Tanikka Paulk) prayer and keeping on the “Full Armor of God” is what helps. So many are so disconnected. No matter what day it is they’ll continue to act disorderly. Some days are filled with ignoring the behavior and some may stop for awhile. Soon enough the actions will need to severe the appropriate consequences.

Leaders must develop patience and some may have difficulties trying to be patient. Even the most patient person will have a difficult time dealing with cynics. Some leaders will become quite frustrated and there are so many whose main objective is to cause frustration. Meditating helps and thinking about the most effective ways to deal with the individuals. No “leader” or anyone else for that matter can assist all and will be able to please all. There will be some who may not agree no matter what the leader does or says.

Of course there should be some attempts to try and settle the angry mob down but for some they’re character is to cause disruptions. Despite what occurs every leader should feel confident in knowing that they’ve been selected because there are some who believe that they’re equipped for the position. There will be a lot of people who may become envious because of “the position.” There are some who will dish harsh words out at the leader and some may even send threats. No matter what’s said a leader must be courageous.

There has to not only be patience but there also has to be determination. The leader or leaders must be determined enough to get through the challenges. There are some leaders who are challenged often. Not all will know what to do when the challenges arise. To be able to think clearly will help get through the many trials which every leader must face. Some will despise the leader for whatever reasons. Being despised isn’t a reason to back down from the position.

There is a reason why some are chosen for the leadership position. Of course so many may not be able to accept the position but no leader should be in their position because they’re a people pleaser. Do not become dismayed because of what’s said, there are some who may not know any better, and some who are just trying to see how far they’re able to go. Some may think that being a leader is a joking matter. Not at all. Of course every leader should have some time when they’re able to just unwind.

Yes, it can be rather annoying having to deal with so many rude individuals. Some who will constantly come up against the leader no matter how much they’ve achieved. There will be some who will try to force the leader out of their position. There are a lot of people who want to be in charge and will go against the leader to see if they’re able to force a cease within the leadership position. Any “strong and outstanding leader” should continue on despite what occurs.

The ones who are unable to accept the position which is chosen then there may be nothing the leader can do. The best thing to do is to proceed and find the best ways to be productive. Some will become angry at every accomplishment a leader achieves. Leadership shouldn’t be taken lightly and the leader shouldn’t become consumed with stress just because a group of people disagree. There’s all sorts of leadership styles and every leader should continue to administer their leadership “qualities.”

“I’m Continuing to be Challenged by the Difficult Individuals but Refuse to Stop Moving Forward.” By: (Tanikka Paulk)

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Be Extremely Careful When Dealing With Competitors

Of course there’s a lot of competition out there. There’s so many competitors who are like sharks or snakes. They’ll try their best to get their competition down. For some they’ve been caught off guard by their competition. Not knowing just what “strategies” they’ll use. Some may try to sabotage every single area their competition tries to advance in. A lot of the tactics used involve distracting their competition. Too many end up losing business deals and their business because of the underhanded tactics that their competitors decided to use.

There are some who continue to try and sabotage their competition. It’s very important that business owners find “the best” ways to stay connected and not lose their business or brand. So many have discovered that the very ones they’ve perceived to be great business partners or connections are the ones who may be like snakes. Yes, all areas of business will be filled with some form of competition, there are some areas in which the competition is like wild animals. Mainly using wolf instincts. They’re prowling looking to see just how they’re able to knock their competition down.

The ones who expect to elevate in anyway must continue to keep their eyes open. Don’t allow the competition to cause a cease in the business. Because there’s a lot of underhanded tactics used. The ones who have been conducting business for long periods of time will stop the competition in their tracks. Just observing will allow the person or persons to see which competitors are like wolves. Not all competition will try to sabotage a business or brand. The ones who out due their competition may try every sneaky tactic they can “think of.”

Even the ones who are close will engage in such behavior due to being overly competitive. They may choose sides thinking that the ones who are economically sound are the ones who are more developed. Not necessarily. The very ones they’ve “perceived” to be less skilled actually are the ones who are able to advance and the competition will become surprised when rising occurs. Be very careful because some aren’t really being friends. There are a lot of competitors who will pretend to be friends in order to help their business grow. Just pay attention.

Too many have fallen short because they’ve trusted the wrong individuals. Thinking that they’re connections are on the up and up! Not all will display friendly characteristics. There are some who are way too competitive to think about how other businesses need to grow. “The economy” is better off when more businesses grow. There are some who really do deserve to be completely cut off due the tactics being used. No business owner should have to tolerate dealing with the underhanded. If they’re not willing to be fair at all then there is no need to conduct business with the individuals at all.

“Look Close at the Tactics Being Used in Order to Make Sound Decisions.” By: (Tanikka Paulk)

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Have to do What’s Best
October 11, 2017

Some may not understand why certain decisions are made. When we’re finding that we’re having trouble getting through to individuals then there has to be a decision made whether to continue trying to convince the individuals of the what is or to just proceed with the areas which will assist with creating “movements.” There will always be some who will believe what they want and no matter how much information is proven to be the opposite of what they’re saying. The persons who are in denial will continue to say whatever it is they want to say.

Some do so because they may feel that challenging the person or persons will gain whatever it is they’re looking to gain. It’s better to find out what is best so that there can be continuous “progress.” The ones in denial will probably continue to be in denial. Not willing to admit to being wrong. There’s a lot of people who aren’t willing to admit to being wrong. There are some who are continuously willing to be deceptive and cause all sorts of havoc. Perhaps disconnecting from such individuals is helpful. No need to become consumed with stress because of what so many will continue to say and do.

There are some who may never accept what has occurred or will occur. There are some who may not want to see certain person’s “advance” but if there’s enough determination then any person who attempts to make progress will. Despite what occurs the individuals shouldn’t give up and should continue to find the best ways to cope with the matters at hand. The ones who aren’t accepting what’s occurring just won’t accept but the individuals who are trying to accomplish greatness shouldn’t allow the problems to stop the progress.

It’s quite difficult when so many are chasing a person down trying to stop their shine. Not wanting to allow others “to get ahead.” There are so many who will have to deal with the groups of people. Some may never stop their antics but will suffer fatigue because they’re continuously trying to create a cease. Simply have to find what works and not all persons will be accepting. We’re unable to please all. There is no way that one person can assist all. In fact no person should even expect one person to try to help all.

It can be a bit rough when having to deal with the ones who aren’t allowing what should occur. What needs to occur is growth. We all should desire to grow in someway. The ones who don’t are either afraid or may not have enough energy to do so. The best thing to do is to continue making the best moves so that there can be elevation. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to climb higher and it’s so unfortunate that so many try to prevent some from elevating. “Have to do What’s Best Even When so Many may not Agree.” By: (Tanikka Paulk)

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I’m way too Determined and how About That???

Some have no clue what they’re dealing with for some they’ve simply found the right person to come up against. Please do not judge any book by its cover. There’s a reason why some choose to come up against others but they may be “surprised.” There are some who may not seem to have what others have but could a hidden treasure. Too many end up being shocked because they’re jumping in places where they have no business. Some may never know what a person truly has but it’s better to just keep it moving then to be consumed with the insecurities of so many.

They’re are some battling against persons they have no business battling against and of course competition exist but some are way too competitive and will lose their way. Who needs to be bothered with disruptions everyday? There’s so many important issues which “need” to be addressed but so many are wasting time trying to knock others down. There are some who come up against individuals who have been chosen and who are “anointed.” Perhaps they’re not understanding just where the person stands but eventually they’ll find out.

For some they’re causing their own heartache. Because some continue to choose to come up against certain individuals, they’re finding themselves in muddy water, soon enough their behavior will incur harsh consequences. The person or persons who are under attack do not need to worry because God the Creator of Mankind is always in charge. When some think they’re getting away with the attacks. The persons will find out that their ?actions? are being observed by the one who can do what no man can do.

There are some who have simply given up because of what occurs. That’s what the ones who constantly attack others want. If they’re unable to remove the individuals or individuals then they’ll try to force the persons to move out of the way. “I;m not going to back down.” By: (Tanikka Paulk). So many use bullying tactics in order to try and intimidate the person or persons so that they’ll simply stop what they’re doing. Perhaps they’re unable to compete. Putting a smile on and keep moving is the best thing to do.

It’s too bad that so many aren’t secure enough to just proceed and not have to harass others. The strong ones will keep going and will probably go beyond the ones who are constantly trying to sabotage. They’re actions certainly aren’t going unnoticed. soon enough they’ll face what they’re probably not prepared to face. If the person or persons weren’t in the right position then the attackers wouldn’t bother. “I’m good. Tanikka Paulk is good and could be labeled as “the best.”

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No Time for Dramatics On or Offline

I’m afraid a lot of people will be disappointed because I’m not partaking in the antics. Oh no. “No time to be indulged in childish game playing.” The little children adults with the name calling and blame games isn’t on my agenda. If any person expects to prosper in anyway then they’ll have to stay clear of what can cause a decline. It’s better to be surrounded by visionaries and individuals who want to be apart of growth. Troublemakers will continue to do what they feel is necessary. Here’s a phrase. People Will Become Angry When Love is Displayed Towards The People.” By: (Tanikka Paulk)

I’ve noticed that most people do not like when others are trying to get ahead. Some are so dysfunctional that they actually believe that they’re in better positions because they have wealth. The money can not be supplied to God nor Jesus in order to enter into Heaven. The forces which continue to try to drive others away from their drams, goals, and aspirations will soon discover how :ridiculous” their actions are. No time to be bothered with foolish ways. Fools will continue to think foolishly but it is the wisdom of the anointed which will allow prosperity to occur.

The ones who are seeking to challenge the anointed at all times aren’t happy people. There are some who may appear to be happy on the outside but are actually miserable. Any person who continues to agitate another isn’t mentally healthy. “Not all persons are in the position to be good company.” There are some so destructive that they’ll continue to cause destruction within their lives. For some no matter what occurs or has occurred they’ll to behave foolishly and think on a foolish level.

If there is to be any progress then  there should be some blocking out. The communications which fools supply isn’t worth embedding within the mind. “It’s better” to focus on better living and trying to be in a better position then to be concerned with the antics which stem from foolish ways. No need to go back and fourth with the individuals because fools will only hear what they want and will only believe what they want to believe. Any person can become a fool.

All one has to do is observe which is which. For some every word which comes from their mouth stems from foolishness. The thoughts of some are so distorted that they’ll have a difficult time thinking positively. Just look at how they’re interacting with others. The worldly beings will continue to try to be destructive because some are so envious of others and are afraid of their “excelling “that they’ll continue to try and cause grief for the persons.

A lot are so damaged and aren’t repairable because they may not want to be repaired. There are some who want to hold on to their pain. Some may not be in “a position” to reason with. No matter how they’re approached there are some who will continue to go up against certain individuals because of their gifts. Not all will be pleased to witness an  elevation and some will become angry when seeing certain persons rise up! No matter how many tomes a person is challenged there are ways to get through the troubles and keeping the faith is one the ways.

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Transitioning From one Stage to Another
July 10, 2017

There’s plenty of unexpected moments in life. One may never know when there will be a turn of events. There will be times when there are decisions to be made in order to develop further or to be apart of “better living.” The decision to leave one area and navigate to another may not be an easy decision to make but necessary. There will be changes no matter what one does. For some there will be drastic changes. Although some events are unexpected, there will be some which are welcomed and long overdo, perhaps there needed to be a push in order to move.

The choices made may not always be accepted and that’s alright. If others are unwilling to accept “the changes” made then that’s something they’ll have to deal with. There will come a time when a move needs to occur. For some the move could incur abundance because there could be more opportunities to grow in other locations. There be some nervousness when having to make a move elsewhere.

For some they’ve left and came back to their original state. Others will fit right into their new found home. Development is important and not all will know exactly when the right time to proceed to a new life. If being in one place isn’t producing the results one expects then considering leaving should occur. There will be many changes throughout one’s life. Not every person can just get up and go some may need sometime in order to make a move in any location.

There should be thoughts of living a more fulfilling life. some become accustom to their way of life and will refuse to make any moves at all. Of course it’s their choice but moving in a “different” direction may be necessary in order to incur advancement. Not everyone will advance properly by staying in the same setting. There are some who never take a risk due to fear. Some are afraid that they’ll fail if there is any movement at all. Not the best line of thinking.

There is nothing wrong with taking risks. For some there will be many risks taking throughout their lives. Some may be quite comfortable with their lifestyle and not want to make any changes. There are some who have no choice but to relocate elsewhere due to their careers. Career “advancement” may involve relocation and if any person wants to elevate in their career then they’ll make the move. There is a transitioning period. There should be sometime set aside to ponder of what it will take to make such a move.

When making changes in life there could be a lot of opinions floating about. Some may not be welcomed. The decision to navigate elsewhere certainly is up to the person or persons involved. Persons can choose to take in helpful advice but if there’s lots of disagreements about the change then perhaps the listening should cease. Making any move should be planned properly. Although there will be times when some will have to make a move which is unexpected, moves aren’t rash decisions, there should be thinking involved before any relocation.

We simply never know when such a change will arise. There is only one life to live and we should live our lives happily. If being in a place isn’t “generating” any joy and there’s other reasons why there should be a move then perhaps doing so would be best. Of course no person should stay in any location if there’s no joy. A lot have found that the move was the best decision they’ve made.

“There’s Lots of Choices and Decisions to be Made in Life and Some Will be Unexpected.” By: Tanikka Paulk

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Conducting Business and Succeeding on the Right Path

One of the most annoying things is when interacting with certain groups of people in order to make further progress and there’s a lot of chaos. It’s pretty difficult to get very much done when dealing with unruly individuals. Hard “to manage” a business when there’s little to no cooperation. Some may not consider the future of their business. No matter what business one is in, there should be proper practices projected, no person should have to deal with destructive individuals in business or in other areas.

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Some may not consider how their actions could cause the individuals to be omitted from business ventures. Some may cause businesses to lose money because they’re refusing to cooperate. Businesses continue to fail because of the actions not only from the individuals within the business but the owners as well. The owner of a business should be concerned about how their “business is being conducted.” If not then they’ll run the risk of losing their business and their good connections.

Building the right connections is very important. Knowing just when to relieve individuals who add no value to the business is also important. Some may allow their business to fail because they’ve allowed family members, friends, and etc to take control of their business and make “decisions” when the individuals were and are not in any position to do so. There are some who will continue to try and sabotage a business because of envy. Mainly  competitors will try to destroy a business and the reputation of the business owner.

The competition is high and perhaps that’s why so many behave so oddly. whatever their reasons are for doing so. No person should allow their business to go under, especially from their family or friends, it’s pretty sad when the very ones who are suppose to “show care” are the ones who are inside and outside trying to sabotage. That’s why so many have a difficult time allowing family or friends in on business ventures.

Business is tough no matter what type of business one is running. There are some who are in business and understand very little about business and that’s why they’re acting out as well. Any person who plans to be success in business must no when  to say no to any persons who aren’t beneficial to the business. If they’ve displayed they’re willing to sabotage the “business” and other areas then they’re not right to do business with and allow in period. No ifs, and’s, or buts.

Any business owner has a right to not allow certain individuals in. If they’ve displayed that they’ll take over the business in which they’re not connected to then they’re “right” to be allowed in. Some may take risks on individuals who have displayed such actions but I’m certainly not recommending that any person does. If they’re deceptive then more than likely they’ll continue the behavior.

Seek out the best and refrain from doing business with individuals who are out to only gain. If they’re not willing to put in work without compensated at anytime then there may be some greed which isn’t a good characteristic. Move ahead and continue with the “developments.” Don’t allow others to try and talk their way in when they’ve displayed that they’re not loyal at all. The ones who take claim and try to force their way in aren’t to be trusted and will destroy the business.

“My Business is my Business and I’m not Willing to Allow any Person to Destroy What I’m Continuing to Work for.” By: Tanikka Paulk

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Sometimes it’s Difficult to Tell Whether the Persons are Children or Adults

With so many adults behaving like children these days it may be difficult to imagine any maturity coming from the individuals. Not everyone will mature properly. Some will display child-like behavior their entire lives. There’s a lot of children who behave more maturely than some adults. There is nothing wrong with having fun but there’s a lot of trouble making going on these days. The best thing to do is to just continue on with whatever is going on because sometimes there will be individuals who will use immaturity to try and gain attention.

No time for the immaturity. Keep the distance from the instigators. The ones who not only display immature behavior but also behave as if there is no brain activity going on. Isn’t there better things to do? Perhaps not. Some may engage in immature behavior because of boredom and then there are some who will do so because they’re competing. No matter what the reasons are. No person should become stressed over childish behavior. If some are unwilling to behave maturely then they’ll receive an” ignore.” That’s right!

Ever wonder why some people continuously cause trouble? Sometimes all that’s offered is a head shake. Yes indeed. The world is filled with jokers and all sorts of “personalities.” There is a choice to feed into the behavior or to keep going. Some may behave in such a manner because they’re trying to cause a disconnection. There can be many reasons why some choose to engage in destructive behavior. Of course the playtime will occur but some go way too far in their playfulness.

Not every individual which engages in immaturity behavior is doing so intentionally some can not control their actions due to some disorder. Not much can “be accomplished” if there is focus on the immature behaviors. The words will flow about from some could come from some underlying issues not dealt with. Not able to control what others will say or do but there are ways to control how we’ll react to such behaviors. In fact so many are seeking reactions.

Proceed no matter what occurs. If some want to behave like children then that’s their choice. The ones who try to be mature will go further. There is a time to have fun and then there are times when work must occur. There are so many environments riddled with a lot of the behaviors expressed here. A lot of the actions can cause a person who is trying to move further to be slowed down. “It’s best to just continue making progress” and avoid engaging in unstable environments. What some will try to do won’t work because they’re refusing to use the proper methods.

“I’m not Discouraged by Because I’m Headed Somewhere.” Still Blessed and Encouraged.”By: Tanikka Paulk

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With Determination There’s Endless Possibilities

Although what we’re going through may seem impossible it’s really not. There will need to be a whole lot of thinking taking place and a whole lot of patience. If the “determination” is there and continues to be there then reaching whatever goal is desired to be reached can occur. It’s hard to imagine at times because there’s so many obstacles in the way. No challenge is too great to bare. Eventually all things will come together.

Adversity is apart of life no person alive will avoid coming across adversity. Some may fear having to go through many challenges at once. If we’re wanting to get ahead in some way then we’ll take on the challenges. There will be a lot of times when peace is lost. A lot of moments when encouraging self occurs. Not an easy road to travel but one which must be traveled in order to get to the other side.

Some may give up due to so much adversity. Just pondering on the best ways to advance from one point to another. Without any confidence it would be quite difficult to incur any movement. There will be a lot of people who will try to discourage the travel. So many afraid to take on the challenges themselves. No matter how many people try to discourage there should be “movement anyway.”

No one can live another person’s life. If we’re not advancing it’s because we’re not trying hard enough. Even a little step is considered an accomplishment. No doubt about the journey being difficult. There will be many trials on such a journey. It’s important to think about the finish line. To stay focused so there will be more progress each time. Some days will be filled with a lot of “progress” while others it may seem as if very little was accomplished.

There’s so many who had to endure a lot of adversity while trying to excel. Even if there’s a mob of people trying to weigh one down there are ways to pull away. If we’re motivated and continue to be determined then we’ll arrive at our set destination. Not everyone will complete their journey in a short period of time. There will be setbacks and although the setbacks will arise there shouldn’t be any dismay.

Just trying is a start, Making the necessary steps in order to get to where one wants to be. It may be difficult to get from point to A to B but no amount difficulties can stop a very determined person. There will be a lot of pulling and tugging. A whole lot of testing to see how mush “will” a person has. There’s a way must there must be faith. The believing that there success will occur.

Any amount of accomplishment is success. In order to reach the desired success level there will need to be a whole lot of pain. Yes, going through a lot of heartache will occur on the journey, no pain and no gain. That’s the part so many try to avoid. Life is painful at times. There’s always something to deal with. Success isn’t gained by just thinking it’s “the actions” which will determine whether success is gained or not.

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